Gigolo in the Netherlands

Hire a gigolo in the Netherlands

The Netherlands is one of the few countries where this is simply allowed. Paid companionship is legal here, regulated and bound by rules, and you notice that in everything. You don’t have to whisper and you don’t have to slip off to some shady address. And you don’t have to hope the person ringing your bell is really the person in the photo. You make a date, you know who with, and you know in advance what happens.

I’m Victor. I work alone, not through an agency, and from your first message you’re talking to me. No middleman who passes your wishes on to someone else, no call centre slotting in “one of our gentlemen”. That saves noise, and it saves you the question of who is actually standing at your door.

What it is

Attention. Full, undivided attention from someone who isn’t multitasking, isn’t checking his phone, and wants nothing from you except that you feel at ease. For one woman that’s an evening out with someone who keeps the conversation going. For another it’s physical contact she has missed for a long time. For yet another it’s a night in which she tries something she never dared talk about with anyone.

I have a background as a psychotherapist. That sounds heavier than it is, but it does mean I listen well and that nothing throws me. Whatever you bring in the way of doubt, longing, grief or curiosity, here it is closer to normal than to unusual.

What it is not

It isn’t an agency with a catalogue where you pick a face. It isn’t a service where you tick off a list of acts in advance. And it isn’t a matter of paying and then seeing what turns up. We talk first. Sometimes a few messages, sometimes a phone call, sometimes a coffee before anything else happens. Only once it feels right for you do we plan something.

What happens during a date you decide yourself, and you keep deciding along the way. Changing your mind is fine. Saying halfway through that you’d rather just talk is fine too. I assume nothing and I keep no scorecard.

Everywhere in the country

Amsterdam is my base, but my calendar is full of places that have nothing to do with it. Groningen, Zeeland, Twente, South Limburg. I get there. For the farthest corners I ask for a bit more lead time, because three hours in the car is not something you want to feel later in the date.

Travel costs depend on the distance and you know them beforehand. Surcharges for the weekend, the night or public holidays don’t exist with me, and a date for two costs nothing extra either. That saves hassle afterward, and it saves you the feeling that a meter is running somewhere.

Who it is for

The women who book me resemble each other less than you’d think. Married and untouched for years. Just divorced and afraid she’s lost the knack. Widowed, with a body that still wants something while her head is still grieving. Twenty and never with anyone. Sixty and finally curious. Couples too, where one watches or joins in.

What they share is that they want something they don’t find at home or in the going-out scene: someone who takes the time, holds no judgment, and doesn’t talk about it with friends the next day. More on that under my services, or read the frequently asked questions if you’re still unsure how it works in practice.

How a first date goes

It starts with a message. Two sentences are enough: where you are, roughly what you’re looking for, and when you could. Usually there’s an answer the next day.

After that we talk on until it feels right for you: by app, by phone, or both. Want to have a coffee first without anything else happening? Then that’s what we do. It happens regularly and it’s a fine way to start.

If we plan something, you know in advance exactly what happens and what it costs, travel included. The final amount is the amount you already knew. The day itself begins with nothing special. Sitting, coffee, talking. The rest follows your pace. Afterward you hear nothing, unless you’re the one to reach out first.

Choose your province

Below are all twelve provinces. For each one you’ll find the cities I come to most, with what’s handy to know about that area. If you live in a village that isn’t listed, just pick your province or send me a message. I come a lot further than only the places on this site.