What does excitement include?

The services where I go further than an ordinary date: BDSM , a worked-out fantasy or role-play made to fit , a trio with a third person, or a swingers club or party together. I build every session around your limits and your pace.

I'm curious, but also nervous. Is that a problem?

Not at all, and it often comes with the territory. With these services especially, I take the time to put you at ease, and we build up from a level where you feel comfortable. A little curiosity with some nerves alongside it is a fine place to start.

Does it stay safe, even when it gets exciting?

Yes. No matter how intense it gets, everything is discussed beforehand and your limits lead. We agree on safewords, so you can adjust or stop at any moment. That safety is exactly what lets you let go.

I want more, but I don't know exactly what. Can you help me choose?

Of course. In a conversation beforehand we explore where your curiosity sits, and whether it leans toward BDSM , a role-play , or something with a third person. You don’t need it clear in advance; it comes on its own once we talk it over.

Can we do this together with my partner?

Yes. A trio with me or a swingers club together works, always on your terms and at your pace. What matters is that you both want it, and we discuss that beforehand.

Excitement

Excitement with a gigolo: BDSM, fantasy, role-play or a trio. I take you toward what turns you on, always within your limits.

BDSM date

Your adventure in surrender and thrill.

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Trio Experience W+WM

Woman, woman, man, and you at the center.

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Swingers clubs or parties

A swingers club or party together, with me as a familiar companion beside you.

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Lisanne

From my very first message the communication was clear, warm, and professional. This really put me at ease and made me feel safe to discuss my desires and boundaries.Read Lisanne's full reviewShow less
After a long time hesitating and exploring whether BDSM would be something for me, I finally decided to take the plunge and get in touch with Victor. From my very first message the communication was clear, warm, and professional. In the run-up to our meeting we communicated a lot via WhatsApp, which helped me enormously to feel at ease and to get a better picture of Victor before we met.

One of the first things that stood out to me was Victor’s emphasis on confidentiality and privacy. This really put me at ease and made me feel safe to discuss my desires and boundaries.

His website promised that you may come home to yourself and that all your boundaries would be respected. This sounded reassuring, and at our meeting it turned out to be more than true. Within the safe boundaries we had agreed on, a fascinating world opened up for me, full of exploration and intense pleasure.

Lisanne

Lune

Victor is the best gift you can give yourself. He sees you as a person. Because of him I'm whole again. Don't doubt it. Just do it, ladies!!!!!!!Read Lune's full reviewShow less
Victor is the best gift you can give yourself. Whether you’re curious about bdsm or already have experience with it. It doesn’t matter. He sees you as a person. Together with him you head into a fun and wonderful adventure.

I already have a few years of experience with bdsm, but due to circumstances I haven’t been able to do anything with it in recent years. I no longer felt whole. Because of him I’m whole again. I’m so grateful to him for that.

I’m a person of feeling, and certainly in bdsm my feeling leads me. Victor gives you a good feeling, a safe feeling. And he does everything with you within your boundaries.

Don’t doubt it. Just do it, ladies!!!!!!!

Lune

Nadine

My experience with Victor was fantastic! Our first play was intense and enriching for me. Finally someone with whom this part of myself is allowed to exist and with whom I can explore this part further.Read Nadine's full reviewShow less
My experience with Victor was fantastic! After years of doubting whether or not I would do anything with BDSM, I decided to take the leap, but as controlled as possible. And that’s how I eventually ended up with Victor.

I was incredibly nervous the first time, and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on that and gave me the space and time to settle in calmly. After that he took control, but in such a lovely way that I only wanted more of it.

Our first play was intense and enriching for me. Finally someone with whom this part of myself is allowed to exist and with whom I can explore this part further. By now we’ve played a few more times, and every time he manages to surprise me, boundaries are explored and new territory is discovered. And I’m looking forward to a next meeting!

Nadine

Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions about excitement

What does excitement include?
The services where I go further than an ordinary date: BDSM, a worked-out fantasy or role-play made to fit, a trio with a third person, or a swingers club or party together. I build every session around your limits and your pace.
I'm curious, but also nervous. Is that a problem?
Not at all, and it often comes with the territory. With these services especially, I take the time to put you at ease, and we build up from a level where you feel comfortable. A little curiosity with some nerves alongside it is a fine place to start.
Does it stay safe, even when it gets exciting?
Yes. No matter how intense it gets, everything is discussed beforehand and your limits lead. We agree on safewords, so you can adjust or stop at any moment. That safety is exactly what lets you let go.
I want more, but I don't know exactly what. Can you help me choose?
Of course. In a conversation beforehand we explore where your curiosity sits, and whether it leans toward BDSM, a role-play, or something with a third person. You don’t need it clear in advance; it comes on its own once we talk it over.
Can we do this together with my partner?
Yes. A trio with me or a swingers club together works, always on your terms and at your pace. What matters is that you both want it, and we discuss that beforehand.