The first time
A gentle first step, taken calmly and at your own pace.
New beginning
A new beginning after a breakup or loss, or your very first time. Rediscover intimacy with patience and no pressure, at your own pace.
After divorce or loss
Rediscovery and new chances, whenever you feel ready.
Sandra
With Victor you can just honestly express everything, and I can confirm it, he stays with your wishes. I want to discover more of me and him, much more.Read Sandra's full reviewShow less
Victor let me discover so many things, took me along on his journey, things I’ve never experienced, that I never knew could exist, and that this feeling could exist too.
I don’t know where he was, but wherever he was, I got a very peculiar good feeling. Never experienced this feeling before.
With Victor you can just honestly express everything, and I can confirm it, he stays with your wishes. I sometimes still have questions, but I’ll ask him those on paper sometime.
I want to discover more of me and him, much more. I didn’t know there was even more than what I’ve now received from him, which is why, as his girl, I wouldn’t want to miss him in my life for anything.
Thank you for your sweet care, your sweet attention, your loving touches and the journey, for now.
Lune
Victor is the best gift you can give yourself. He sees you as a person. Because of him I'm whole again. Don't doubt it. Just do it, ladies!!!!!!!Read Lune's full reviewShow less
Victor is the best gift you can give yourself. He sees you as a person. Together with him you head into a fun and wonderful adventure.
Due to circumstances I hadn’t been able to do anything with sexuality and intimacy in recent years. I no longer felt whole. Because of him I’m whole again. I’m so grateful to him for that.
I’m a person of feeling and my feeling leads me. Victor gives you a good feeling, a safe feeling. And he does everything with you within your boundaries.
Don’t doubt it. Just do it, ladies!!!!!!!
Annabel
I got a hug right away and it immediately felt safe. I didn't feel unsafe for a single moment. If I didn't want something, it was stopped right away. I can really recommend this to any woman who's ready for an exciting evening.Read Annabel's full reviewShow less
After a lot of thinking and considering whether I really wanted this, and also out of a pure urge to break out of the rut of life, I went in search of an exciting adventure. Earlier I had contacted an agency, but in the end they were too expensive for me. On top of that, the contact was rather businesslike and you don’t get any contact with the man you book. I didn’t like that and kept looking. I eventually came to this website and, with a pounding heart, sent a message. And a reply came right away! That did startle me, but I found it so exciting. It seemed to me that Victor is kind and his website comes across as trustworthy. We started chatting via WhatsApp and those messages slowly got a bit naughty. Then came the day of the appointment. I was slightly nervous. I had never done anything like this before. Sex with a stranger! No way! And I really had been raised to believe you do that with someone you love. I got a hug right away and it immediately felt safe. And what a good figure this man has! I didn’t feel unsafe for a single moment. If I didn’t want something, it was stopped right away. I feel wonderful now. I can really recommend this to any woman who’s ready for an exciting evening.
How very lucky I was with you. You’re intelligent, have a good figure, speak politely (except in bed), dress neatly. You’re kind and radiate trustworthiness. And you don’t get this kind of aftercare with the rest.
Frequently asked questions
Frequently asked questions about a new beginning
Who is a new beginning for?
A new beginning is for you if you want to take the step toward intimacy, whether it is your very first time or a return after a breakup or the loss of a partner. I take all the time you need, and you set the pace.
I haven't had intimacy for a long time. Where do I start?
You start with whatever feels safe to you, and not one step further. We do not have to work toward anything. We build up gently from a point where you feel at ease, with no pressure and no time limit on how you feel.
I feel nervous or a little ashamed. Is that a problem?
Not at all, and you are far from the only one. Almost everyone who chooses this feels it, especially at the start. I have patience, keep an eye on how you are doing, and check in with you along the way.
Does it have to be sex right away?
No. A new beginning usually starts with touch and trust, and with getting used to closeness again. What happens and how far it goes is up to you, step by step.
Am I too old or too inexperienced for this?
No. No age and no amount of experience is “too much” or “too little” here. If you feel too late or too inexperienced, you are often exactly the one who finds that a new beginning is simply possible.