From first message to after the date
How to book a gigolo
Seven steps, and at every one you set the pace. Below I walk you through them, so you know exactly what happens before we meet.
Booking a gigolo with me takes seven steps: you look around, you send me a message, and from there we get to know each other, agree on the details, prepare, meet, and stay in touch afterward. You set the pace at every one, and step one costs you nothing. Here is how each step works.
1. Look around, no rush
The adventure starts with a pinch of fantasy and a splash of information. Take your time to page through this site, daydream, fantasize a little, and make a list of everything you’d love to experience. This is the moment to let your inner romantic planner run wild.
Take your time. Browse what I offer and see what makes your heart beat faster. A romantic dinner in the city? A night together? Something more thrilling, or something gentle? Whatever you’re looking for, we can talk it over. You don’t have to know or decide anything yet.
2. Send me a message
Ready for the first step? Feel free to send me a message on WhatsApp. A quick question, a careful hello, or straight to your wishes and a few dates that suit you. Anything goes. You’re writing directly with me, and I usually reply within a few hours. Rather type first without giving your number? Then there’s email too.
Personally I like WhatsApp best and find it the most personal, more than email. It’s more direct and nicely playful.
3. We get to know each other
That first message grows into a conversation. We talk about what you’re looking for and where your limits lie, I send you a photo of myself, and we agree on how you signal a stop. No question is silly, and you’re not committed to anything.
4. You get a clear proposal
Together we settle on a date, a time, and a location where you feel comfortable. We also talk about how long you want the date to last. That way you know the cost exactly, in advance. At the start of the date you pay the agreed amount in cash. So we can enjoy our time together without a worry.
In this step you also fill in the consent form. In it you mark what you say yes to and what you don’t. A few minutes of work, whenever it suits you. It’s required, for a safe and well-tuned meeting.
If you agree to the proposal, we have a date. If it doesn’t feel quite right yet, we just keep talking. No rush. It has to feel completely good for you.
5. Preparation
The date is set, and then the fun beforehand begins. Where do we meet, what do you wear, how do you get in the mood, how do you set up a safety call? All questions I get often, so I’ve laid them out for you. What I take care of myself is in there too.
And meanwhile we keep chatting, nice and easy, so we already get to know each other a little better.
Everything about the preparation →
6. The meeting
The moment itself. It’s all about you, your ease and your pleasure. We take our time to settle in with each other, no rush, no performance. You set the pace, from the first cup of coffee to the last moment. Being nervous is part of it, and we both are.
7. And afterward
Afterward there’s room to talk for a bit, if you’d like. What you thought of it, what stays with you, or just silence. How you feel about it is what counts for me. Days or weeks later you can still text me, we can just keep talking. I like hearing how you’re doing and what came up for you. I don’t ghost.
You start at step two
Step one costs you nothing and commits you to nothing, and step two is one message. That’s all I need to begin. Send me a message or email me, and we’ll take it from there.
What a meeting costs you can read on the pricing page. Why you book directly with me and not through an agency is on the booking page.