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Closeness

Closeness with a gigolo: touch, cuddling, tantra or a whole night together. Intimacy without sex when that is what you want, and no rush.

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Rachel

You were more tender than I could have imagined, more understanding, more caring, more genuine. I felt so seen and so heard and so cared for. You are unique and precious.Read Rachel's full reviewShow less

I didn’t know what to expect when I reached out to you, but what you gave me was more than I could ever have thought. My meeting with you was more than just a meeting. You had reached out to me beforehand, so when we met it felt as if I already knew you, and you me too.

You were more tender than I could have imagined, more understanding, more caring, more genuine. I felt I could tell you anything, ask you anything, want or need anything, and that you were there for me. Lying in your arms while you stroked my hair and kissed my head gave me the strength to face the world again. I felt so seen and so heard and so cared for.

Even after we had met, you still reached out to ask how I was doing. Whatever I thought you could mean to me, you gave me so much more. I don’t think there’s anyone else like you. You are unique and precious.

Rachel

Maud

I'd say, woman, don't doubt, this man is safe, very safe and not like your standard gigolo. Give it to yourself. Boundaries are sensed and, more importantly, respected.Read Maud's full reviewShow less

My experience with Victor is honestly hard to put into words. I’d say, woman, don’t doubt, this man is safe, very safe and not like your standard gigolo. Give it to yourself. I went looking for Victor to close off a period in which I had completely lost myself because of a narcissist. For me, Victor is the addition to a piece of personal development. By then I was longing for genuine touch, feeling like a woman and intimacy without pain. The contact with Victor started very easily via the app. Long conversations about connection, wishes and boundaries. That already made it feel a little safer for me to meet. Our eventual date was indescribable. We had deliberately planned plenty of time so there was enough time to ‘land’. Victor is incredibly good at sensing you and putting you at ease with his soft accent, warm eyes and strong arms. Beautiful, deep conversations with a lot of humor and some teasing helped with this too, and slowly it became time for intimacy. In that too, Victor takes a lot of time to put you at ease. At one point I got a bit emotional, and Victor supported me so nicely in that, a little pause, rest, feeling. Everything is allowed to be there. Boundaries are sensed and, more importantly, respected. Not just plain hard sex but intimacy from connection, touch, caressing etc. From this safety I got to experience really beautiful (read: delicious) new things in bed. Experiences that make me feel like a woman again, feel sexy, feel naughty.

Maud

Hilde

Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humor. He senses your mood flawlessly and, in his own unique way, knows how to create a pleasant atmosphere.Read Hilde's full reviewShow less

Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humor. His calm presence combined with his humor gives you a safe feeling. He senses your mood flawlessly and, in his own unique way, knows how to create a pleasant atmosphere. He respects his date, her boundaries and wishes. He makes it possible to discover new territory and learn to enjoy it. Love, Hilde

Hilde

Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions about closeness

  1. What does closeness include?

    The quieter kinds of being together: touch that feels good, an evening of cuddling, a tantra session or a whole night together until morning. It is less about excitement and more about being there for each other, with no agenda.

  2. Does sex have to be part of it?

    No. Closeness can be purely about touch, warmth and attention. You decide what does and does not happen, and we talk it through calmly beforehand.

  3. I mainly want attention and touch, not excitement. Is that possible?

    That is exactly what closeness is for. Many women simply miss touch and someone who takes the time. I take the time you need, without rush and without anything having to “happen”.

  4. What is the difference between cuddling, touch and a night together?

    They differ mostly in length and depth. Touch and skin hunger is about the touch itself, cuddling is about closeness and nothing more, and an erotic overnight gives you a whole night to truly unwind. If you are not sure which one fits, we choose it together.

  5. How long does a date like this last?

    From a session of a few hours to a whole night together. Closeness cannot be rushed, so we choose a length where you can really settle in, instead of only just getting started when the time is up.

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