Reviews

Maud

My experience with Victor is honestly hard to put into words. I’d say, woman, don’t doubt, this man is safe, very safe and not like your standard gigolo. Give it to yourself. I went looking for Victor to close off a period in which I had completely lost myself because of a narcissist. For me, Victor is the addition to a piece of personal development. By then I was longing for genuine touch, feeling like a woman and intimacy without pain. The contact with Victor started very easily via the app. Long conversations about connection, wishes and boundaries. That already made it feel a little safer for me to meet. Our eventual date was indescribable. We had deliberately planned plenty of time so there was enough time to ‘land’. Victor is incredibly good at sensing you and putting you at ease with his soft accent, warm eyes and strong arms. Beautiful, deep conversations with a lot of humor and some teasing helped with this too, and slowly it became time for intimacy. In that too, Victor takes a lot of time to put you at ease. At one point I got a bit emotional, and Victor supported me so nicely in that, a little pause, rest, feeling. Everything is allowed to be there. Boundaries are sensed and, more importantly, respected. Not just plain hard sex but intimacy from connection, touch, caressing etc. From this safety I got to experience really beautiful (read: delicious) new things in bed. Experiences that make me feel like a woman again, feel sexy, feel naughty.

Petra

I quickly felt at ease with Victor. He also really understood me, I could tell. First we talked quite a lot. Slowly but surely we went a step further, nothing rushed but in consultation. He really gave me the time. His body and then also such an honest attitude and humor… wow, what a combination, you can hardly believe it’s possible ! In other words, I thought it was GREAT and definitely worth repeating !

Shelly

The first time Victor and I met (after we had met each other in a bar) was at a café in Rotterdam. From the first impression I had of him, I knew I could trust him; it probably helped that we both have a background in mental health care. During our first meeting he guided me through setting boundaries, something I of course know in theory and teach my own clients, but which I actually find difficult in an intimate interaction.

In short: I’m a 26-year-old trans masculine lesbian with experience with people who crossed my boundaries, including sexual abuse and rape. I don’t let people touch me in a sexual way (and the times I did, I panicked) and I’m only just learning to be able to touch myself again. A year ago I started working with a mistress and on that journey he crossed my path.

From the contact in the café I already let my walls down and genuinely felt only the best intentions from him. What I knew in theory, Victor could then teach me in practice.

A few weeks later we met again, this time in a private setting. Everything went completely at my own pace while we cuddled on the couch and he let me explore his body without any expectation. Both of us with a background in BDSM, he grabbed my hair and closed his hand around my throat, sensations that calm my nervous system. Without it going much further, I felt I had come as far as I could. This was the first time I was intimate with someone and had no feeling of guilt about stopping.

Months went by and I felt ready to go further in the intimate connection. This time at my place. Again everything went at my own pace. Beyond the cuddling and the kissing on the couch, I explored his body again until I was ready for his touch. Victor sat next to me and held me firmly with his fingers inside me until I pushed him away and asked him to hold me, I had panicked. While he held me, we talked about what had happened and discovered that my head wanted to experience pleasure and my body was saying no. There was also the fear that he would be disappointed in me (part of a deep belief). Together we decided to try again and that I would focus on listening to what my body was saying, with the reassurance that there wasn’t a single moment of disappointment on his side. Instead, my feeling my boundaries was celebrated.

I feel truly lucky that I met him and I look forward to further sessions with him. He is kind and tender, with exactly the right amount of strictness and steadiness. I can highly recommend to anyone who has been through sexual trauma and is learning to feel touch again to discover this with Victor.

Nadine

My experience with Victor was fantastic! After years of doubting whether or not I would do anything, I decided to take the leap, but as controlled as possible. And that’s how I eventually ended up with Victor. I was incredibly nervous the first time, and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on that and gave me the space and time to settle in calmly. After that he took control, but in such a lovely way that I only wanted more of it. Our first play was intense and enriching for me. Finally someone with whom this part of myself is allowed to exist and with whom I can explore this part further. By now we’ve played a few more times, and every time he manages to surprise me and discovers new territory. And I’m looking forward to a next meeting!

Hilde

Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humor. His calm presence combined with his humor gives you a safe feeling. He senses your mood flawlessly and, in his own unique way, knows how to create a pleasant atmosphere. He respects his date, her boundaries and wishes. He makes it possible to discover new territory and learn to enjoy it. Love, Hilde

Lisanne

After a long time hesitating and exploring whether this would be something for me, I finally decided to take the plunge and get in touch with Victor. From my very first message the communication was clear, warm, and professional. In the run-up to our meeting we communicated a lot via WhatsApp, which helped me enormously to feel at ease and to get a better picture of Victor before we met. One of the first things that stood out to me was Victor’s emphasis on confidentiality and privacy. This really put me at ease and made me feel safe to discuss my desires and boundaries. His website promised that you may come home to yourself and that all your boundaries would be respected. This sounded reassuring, and at our meeting it turned out to be more than true. Within the safe boundaries we had agreed on, a fascinating world opened up for me, full of exploration and intense pleasure. Victor’s depth and empathy made me feel completely safe and understood, so that I truly dared to enjoy and explore. The psychological aspect of our meeting was especially impressive and made me feel truly connected. Victor’s professionalism and experience shine through in everything he does, which was a great reassurance to me. I felt truly heard and respected, and he made sure every step of our time together was attuned to my wishes and comfort. Thank you, Victor, for this unforgettable experience. I very much look forward to our next meeting. It’s as if you can’t get enough of the time you spend with this wonderful and understanding man.

Jasmijn

After a while of online contact, we arranged to meet, and oh, how exciting I found it, out of my comfort zone. Even so, I felt at home with him right away.

He saw that I was nervous and I got to settle in first, he looked at me, sensed me and responded to that. A little feeling each other out, talking, being loving with each other because it’s so important… respect for each other and each other’s boundaries. He really takes his time for that. You’re allowed to be here, exactly as you are.

Victor gave me the trust to surrender myself to him completely and safely. And what a joy to receive whatever it is you desire. He keeps an eye on every little sigh, every movement, even when you no longer know it yourself, he does. I never thought I would ever experience this in such a safe, loving way.

His many years of experience make for exactly the right approach for you personally, but his insight into people also makes it even more personal and therefore even more special.

Julia

My first experience with Victor is honestly hard to put into words. I’d say, woman, don’t doubt, this man is safe and offers very high quality, not just in bed but precisely alongside it too.

My contact with Victor started very easily via the app. Long conversations about connection, wishes and boundaries. That already made it feel a little safer for me to meet. Our eventual date was indescribable. Victor is incredibly good at sensing you and putting you at ease with his soft accent, warm eyes and strong arms. Beautiful, deep conversations with a lot of humor and some teasing helped with this too, and slowly it became time for intimacy.

In that too, Victor takes a lot of time to put you at ease. Boundaries are sensed and, more importantly, respected. Not just plain hard sex but intimacy from connection, touch, caressing etc. From this safety I got to experience really beautiful (read: delicious) new things.

Lana

What a delightful evening it was again. That look, it made me warm right away. That was new, and great. And what a delight, that beautiful big hard cock of yours straight into my mouth. For me it’s pure indulgence.

I’m far from a good masseuse, but I do find it so incredibly nice to do. Because there’s nothing lovelier than seeing you enjoy it under my hands, turned on or not. It makes me warm inside.

And even though in a moment like that you give me complete freedom, there’s actually not a single moment when I don’t feel at ease. On the contrary, it stirs my feeling of love. And that constant physical contact where I get to explore your whole body is so nice.

Lune

Victor is the best gift you can give yourself. He sees you as a person. Together with him you head into a fun and wonderful adventure.

Due to circumstances I hadn’t been able to do anything with sexuality and intimacy in recent years. I no longer felt whole. Because of him I’m whole again. I’m so grateful to him for that.

I’m a person of feeling and my feeling leads me. Victor gives you a good feeling, a safe feeling. And he does everything with you within your boundaries.

Don’t doubt it. Just do it, ladies!!!!!!!

Rachel

I didn’t know what to expect when I reached out to you, but what you gave me was more than I could ever have thought. My meeting with you was more than just a meeting. You had reached out to me beforehand, so when we met it felt as if I already knew you, and you me too.

You were more tender than I could have imagined, more understanding, more caring, more genuine. I felt I could tell you anything, ask you anything, want or need anything, and that you were there for me. Lying in your arms while you stroked my hair and kissed my head gave me the strength to face the world again. I felt so seen and so heard and so cared for.

Even after we had met, you still reached out to ask how I was doing. Whatever I thought you could mean to me, you gave me so much more. I don’t think there’s anyone else like you. You are unique and precious.

Rianne

I didn’t know what to expect when I sought contact with you, but what you gave me was more than I could ever have thought up. My date with you was more than just a date. You had contacted me beforehand, which made it feel as if I already knew you when we saw each other, and you me.

You were more tender than I had dared to hope, more understanding, more caring, more genuine. I felt I could tell you anything, ask you anything, want or need anything, and that you were there for me. Lying in your arms while you ran your hand through my hair and softly kissed my head gave me the strength to take on the world again.

I felt so seen, so heard, so held. And even after our meeting you reached out to me again to ask how I was doing. Whatever I thought you could mean to me, you gave me so much more.

I don’t believe there’s anyone else like you. You are unique and precious.

Sandra

Victor let me discover so many things, took me along on his journey, things I’ve never experienced, that I never knew could exist, and that this feeling could exist too.

I don’t know where he was, but wherever he was, I got a very peculiar good feeling. Never experienced this feeling before.

With Victor you can just honestly express everything, and I can confirm it, he stays with your wishes. I sometimes still have questions, but I’ll ask him those on paper sometime.

I want to discover more of me and him, much more. I didn’t know there was even more than what I’ve now received from him, which is why, as his girl, I wouldn’t want to miss him in my life for anything.

Thank you for your sweet care, your sweet attention, your loving touches and the journey, for now.

Sandra

Victor, I really want to thank you so incredibly much for the ultimate of this evening. A new world opened up for me after all; I didn’t know this one yet. All kinds of new delicious things.

Truly, thank you so much. So sweet… but then, so are you. Sweet, gentle, respect and sometimes a nice bit kinky, that’s something I like.

Never say never… who knows. Well, sleep well for later and we’ll be in touch.

V & M

My kinky girlfriend and I had a different idea for once; usually I’m the one who gets taken in hand, but this time we switched the roles.

I wanted to take her in hand together with a man. Woman-focused, to see how that feels and develops.

I had found Victor and the contact was exceptionally pleasant. Good first impression and professional. We arranged to meet at a hotel, he kept to his agreements neatly.

I had prepared her. Blindfolded and ready. Victor came in, and what a nice man. After a short introduction, on to her. Discovered and experienced a few boundaries together with her. A nice click and good teamwork. Wonderful night with lovely people! Cheers!

Esther

Honestly? I spent weeks doubting before I messaged him. Not because I didn’t want to. The price is simply steep, and I found it terrifying to spend so much on something I didn’t even know would suit me. Looking back, I do understand that amount. This really isn’t a standard little date.

Honestly though: the first time I didn’t really get there. Was too much in my head. It was me, mind you, not him. What won me over was precisely that Victor made no big deal of it at all. No pressure. Not a sigh of disappointment. The second time everything fell into place and only then did I feel what it’s really about.

Looking to score quickly? Then I don’t think this is for you. Take your time, and you get a lot back for it.

Marloes

I was looking for something exciting and, to be honest, expected it to be intense right away. Instead it started with talking. A lot of talking. About boundaries, about what I wanted. And yes, also about where I came from. At one point I really thought: come on, let’s get started. That this was exactly what made the difference, I only realized much later.

What was less good? The back-and-forth planning took longer for me than I liked. We had to reschedule a few times before there was an evening free for both of us. But once we were settled, everything was right. He senses exactly when he can push on and when not for a moment.

Not five stars because it was bad. Purely because I came in with the wrong expectation myself. I’d go again in a heartbeat.

Annabel

After a lot of thinking and considering whether I really wanted this, and also out of a pure urge to break out of the rut of life, I went in search of an exciting adventure. Earlier I had contacted an agency, but in the end they were too expensive for me. On top of that, the contact was rather businesslike and you don’t get any contact with the man you book. I didn’t like that and kept looking. I eventually came to this website and, with a pounding heart, sent a message. And a reply came right away! That did startle me, but I found it so exciting. It seemed to me that Victor is kind and his website comes across as trustworthy. We started chatting via WhatsApp and those messages slowly got a bit naughty. Then came the day of the appointment. I was slightly nervous. I had never done anything like this before. Sex with a stranger! No way! And I really had been raised to believe you do that with someone you love. I got a hug right away and it immediately felt safe. And what a good figure this man has! I didn’t feel unsafe for a single moment. If I didn’t want something, it was stopped right away. I feel wonderful now. I can really recommend this to any woman who’s ready for an exciting evening.

How very lucky I was with you. You’re intelligent, have a good figure, speak politely (except in bed), dress neatly. You’re kind and radiate trustworthiness. And you don’t get this kind of aftercare with the rest.

Linda

Victor is a sweet, reliable man who has no hidden agenda and keeps to his agreements. I felt enormously at ease with him. On top of that, the personal contact via WhatsApp beforehand is also really nice, so that (especially for a first meeting) you’re not immediately facing a complete stranger. After the date there’s room to WhatsApp too. The date itself (was my first meeting) flew by. Victor is wonderful to cuddle with.

Lana

What a delightful evening it was again. That snap of your fingers, pffff, it made me warm right away. That was new, and so commanding. I didn’t know how fast to get on my knees. And what a delight, that beautiful big hard cock of yours straight into my mouth. For me it’s pure indulgence. I also find it an indulgence that you give me a little cushion to sit on the floor and be allowed to suck you. Thank you. How well you brought it out, that collar. It felt as if I’d fully earned it. And it had been a long time since I was allowed to wear it. I was so happy. It really does something to me, that collar. I’m far from a good masseuse, but I do find it so incredibly nice to do. Because there’s nothing lovelier than seeing you enjoy it under my hands, turned on or not. It makes me warm inside. And even though in a moment like that you give me complete freedom, there’s actually not a single moment when I don’t feel submissive to you. On the contrary, it stirs my feeling of love. And that constant physical contact where I get to explore your whole body is so nice. Just before I came to you yesterday, I was watching a few clips about jerking off a man. Because I feel I’m not very skilled at that. I’ve always focused more on the oral. But still I was a little inspired to give that beautiful cock of yours a turn too. It gave me such pleasure to see you so turned on! And what a wonderful reaction. It’s really one of the most amazing feelings when you grab me firmly by my hair and put me in the position you want. And when you tell me to stay like that, I don’t even dare to move. During the fucking you also had a good grip on me by the collar. Mmmmmm, the way you fuck me, I get hot right away whenever I think of it. And thank you for the lovely conversation. I love hearing you talk, you say good things. And did you know you also have a beautiful voice? It’s so nice that the feeling of trust I already had in you physically, I now see confirmed mentally too.

Nadine

My experience with Victor was fantastic! After years of doubting whether or not I would do anything with BDSM, I decided to take the leap, but as controlled as possible. And that’s how I eventually ended up with Victor.

I was incredibly nervous the first time, and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on that and gave me the space and time to settle in calmly. After that he took control, but in such a lovely way that I only wanted more of it.

Our first play was intense and enriching for me. Finally someone with whom this part of myself is allowed to exist and with whom I can explore this part further. By now we’ve played a few more times, and every time he manages to surprise me, boundaries are explored and new territory is discovered. And I’m looking forward to a next meeting!

Jasmijn

When I stepped into the world of BDSM, Victor crossed my path almost immediately. After a while of online contact, we arranged to meet, and oh, how exciting I found it, out of my comfort zone. Even so, I felt at home with him right away. He saw that I was nervous and I got to settle in first, he looked at me, sensed me and responded to that. A little feeling each other out, talking, being loving with each other because it’s so important… respect for each other and each other’s boundaries. He really takes his time for that. You’re allowed to be here, exactly as you are.

He gave me the trust to surrender myself to him completely and safely. And what a joy, that feeling of surrender and then receiving whatever it is you desire. He keeps an eye on every little sigh, every movement, even when you no longer know it yourself, he does. I never thought I would ever experience bdsm in such a safe, loving way. I recommend that everyone who wants to try this, or precisely if you’re already experienced, do it with him. His many years of experience make for exactly the right approach for you personally, but his insight into people also makes it even more personal and therefore even more special. His whole presence and tone make you feel secure, it’s good, and even when you doubt something, he listens to you, is there for you and thinks along with you.

Personally I find growth very important and I knew I had a path to walk there. Because I had always learned that the world and the people outside myself influenced my emotions and I allowed that, within bdsm I learned a very important lesson about myself: that only I could influence my inner world. Pain or discomfort usually isn’t pleasant, but mentally it meant I had to pay attention to my breathing and stamina to be able to handle a session. Stepping out of a certain comfort zone, and each time it went better and I could shift pain and a boundary, I felt proud of myself, I felt my own strength set in motion, what I was capable of. Through the sessions with him, I learned to draw this feeling out of myself. Something I now reap the fruits of, to handle other things in life better and to see them differently too. I feel much freer and a better person for myself and for those around me. I’m so glad he was able to help me with that and still does.

Apart from that, because of our dynamic I also find it incredibly hot, the challenge, the playfulness, the fun you have together, basking in the afterglow and lovely recovery in each other’s arms… switching off the world for a moment. I’d do it all another 100 times. I got so much back for it, in so many ways. Thank you for this intense and beautiful experience… a place where I can moor in my safe harbor, my coming home. Because that’s how it feels to me! It’s all worth it, of course this is a personal experience, but one that opened so many doors for me.

It’s the person and the intention put into it that creates such a unique experience, as well as your own willingness to surrender, in what you desire to receive from him. And honestly, one look from this man is enough. You’ll go to the ground, and not because he demands it of you, but because you desire it yourself. And that’s where it all begins… there aren’t many like him.

Hilde

Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humor. His calm presence combined with his natural dominance gives you a safe feeling as a sub. He senses your mood flawlessly and, in his own unique way, knows how to create a pleasant atmosphere.

Victor always knows how to hold the balance between hard and soft. Pleasure and pain flow into each other, and he can be unpredictable in how he acts.

He respects his sub, her boundaries and wishes, without losing any dominance. He makes it possible to discover new territory and learn to enjoy it.

Love, Hilde

Laura

Coming home to yourself, so skeptical but it turned out to be so true. My first steps on the path of BDSM, so very much searching. The emphasis on confidentiality, privacy and respect for boundaries was also really striking, so that nothing was left undiscussed.

The contact before, during and after my experience was great, which made the experience of being submissive, in the bondage combined with breathplay, super hot. I didn’t know you could get so horny and aroused from this. The blowjob was a challenge combined with deepthroat, which was indescribably good. Fucking after foreplay like that is so different, wonderful.

The psychological aspect before, during and after should definitely not be forgotten. Victor already knows what you want and senses it before you do yourself. Thanks for this experience and until a next time.

Lisanne

After a long time hesitating and exploring whether BDSM would be something for me, I finally decided to take the plunge and get in touch with Victor. From my very first message the communication was clear, warm, and professional. In the run-up to our meeting we communicated a lot via WhatsApp, which helped me enormously to feel at ease and to get a better picture of Victor before we met.

One of the first things that stood out to me was Victor’s emphasis on confidentiality and privacy. This really put me at ease and made me feel safe to discuss my desires and boundaries.

His website promised that you may come home to yourself and that all your boundaries would be respected. This sounded reassuring, and at our meeting it turned out to be more than true. Within the safe boundaries we had agreed on, a fascinating world opened up for me, full of exploration and intense pleasure.

Lune

Victor is the best gift you can give yourself. Whether you’re curious about bdsm or already have experience with it. It doesn’t matter. He sees you as a person. Together with him you head into a fun and wonderful adventure.

I already have a few years of experience with bdsm, but due to circumstances I haven’t been able to do anything with it in recent years. I no longer felt whole. Because of him I’m whole again. I’m so grateful to him for that.

I’m a person of feeling, and certainly in bdsm my feeling leads me. Victor gives you a good feeling, a safe feeling. And he does everything with you within your boundaries.

Don’t doubt it. Just do it, ladies!!!!!!!

Shelly

The first time Victor and I met (after meeting each other in a bar) was at a café in Rotterdam. From the very first moment I had the feeling I could trust him; it probably helped that we both have a background in mental health care. During our first meeting he guided me through setting boundaries, something I of course know in theory and even teach my own clients, but which I find difficult in an intimate situation.

In short: I’m a 26-year-old trans-masculine lesbian who has experience with people who crossed my boundaries, including sexual abuse and rape. I don’t let people touch me in a sexual way (and the times it did happen I panicked) and I’ve only recently been learning to touch myself again. A year ago I started working with a mistress, and on that path he crossed my way.

From the meeting in the café I began to let my defenses down and I genuinely felt only the best intentions from him. Both of us with a background in BDSM, he grabbed my hair and closed his hand around my throat, sensations that calm my nervous system. He is kind and tender, with exactly the right amount of strictness and steadiness.

Jill

I really liked how you took the time to settle in, you could also sense really well when I was stressed and such, especially at the beginning. It was also really nice that you took a break or some time now and then to check in on how things were going.

With respect you let me find my own boundaries.

You also respected my hard limits without any problem.

For me it was a new adventure that I enjoyed and I’m glad I got to discover it.

Amy

Would you ever visit a city, say Paris, for only five hours, one overnight stay, or even just one day? For a museum maybe, but even something like the Louvre calls for several visits, and even then you wouldn’t be able to see everything.

In the same way, how long you book Victor of course depends on your goal. If it’s purely about the sex for you, then five hours is probably enough. But I’d find that a waste of his skill and of your money, because what Victor offers reaches beyond just (incredibly good ;-) ) sex.

If you’re like me, you find the moments between the sex especially intimate and nourishing. That can be all sorts of things: doing something non-sexual together like watching a film, talking about light or precisely serious things, or actually doing nothing at all and just enjoying the presence of another person in the room. To stay with Paris a little longer: yes, it’s beautiful to see the Mona Lisa or the Eiffel Tower, but only when you walk slowly along the Seine and take in your surroundings does it become truly meaningful.

A continuous booking of several days gives a much more immersive experience, because you can bring the pace down and really enjoy your time together without having to keep looking at the clock. The beginning and the end of the ‘date’, as Victor calls a booking, also go more smoothly, because you have to pick up the thread again less often.

That’s why I warmly recommend this three-day package. It’s exactly the right length for something of real meaning, and afterward you walk away from the ‘date’ with the feeling that you’ve spent time with a lover instead of with a gigolo.

Marley

For me that’s, at no. 1, getting connection and relaxing.. and not straight back to reality..no time pressure Especially the first time..but now, after date 4, the sauna thing also helps to settle in and relax …you keep a proper eye on all the boundaries , and when it feels good you seek more closeness..if not, just company is lovely, and that way we build calmly and relaxed toward intimacy..or not, also fine…

as a woman you do have to dare to give yourself ’ bare’ right away..

…so then, at no. 2, relaxation and being together, time for relaxed conversations, silences…seeking connection…but also…not being alone among all the hot bodies and happy little couples and not going home alone to an empty bed…

.then 3. real self-care ( sauna = self-care ) with a little extra you 😏

because that little extra you is very much self-care too whose taboo can go away…the sauna makes you super relaxed , and horny ..how lovely that you can share that with you and enjoy the option to make full use of all that horniness with your skills ..to feel completely like a woman and enjoy , and to feel (.in my case) empowered before you have to go back to your daily things…

Celina

To really let what you learn land (not only in words and deeds, experienced with your five senses, which is delightful in itself, yes…). But over time your thoughts and your attitude, your feelings and the atmosphere start to play together, and a reality of its own arises, a safe place to feel delicious. Over time you really start to feel it, believe it and act on it as if it’s true: that you truly are as precious as he treats you (and here he would say ‘of course you are, sweetheart’). And then you keep the memory of these three days on a deeper level in your soul, to nourish you and to look back on with warmth and respect.

Three days, it’s full immersion. Enjoy…