Is there such a thing as a short intro or a trial appointment?

A paid trial appointment, no. Two hours stays the minimum, and even that is short for a real date. What does exist, and costs nothing: a phone call, a video call, or meeting for a cup of coffee with nothing expected to follow. For most women that’s enough to know whether we click, and it’s more honest than a shortened version of something that needs time. So a coffee date isn’t a small booking, it’s a first meeting. You’re not tied to anything, and if you decide afterward that it’s not for you, that’s a perfectly fine outcome. I won’t bill you for that coffee later either.

Can I video call or have an intro chat first, before I book?

Yes, and it costs you nothing. A phone call is always fine, a video call too, and a cup of coffee somewhere neutral works just as well. None of it ties you down. Afterward you can still decide not to go ahead, and that happens regularly without anyone making it awkward. I actively recommend a video call, because it’s also your best check. Photos say little about how someone moves and sounds, and that’s usually where it falls apart. Five minutes on screen says more than a whole website. Feel free to call even if you just have a question and aren’t thinking about anything yet.

Can we start somewhere neutral, like a café or a hotel bar?

Yes, and for a first time that’s often the most comfortable setup. You’re in public, you can walk away easily, and you’ve seen how someone treats a waiter before you go any further. That last part sounds trivial and it isn’t. How someone behaves toward staff who mean nothing to him tells you more in five minutes than an hour of messages. We pick a spot together where you won’t run into anyone. If you don’t know the area, I’ll suggest something. If you do, you choose, because you know better where you might bump into people you know.

Coffee Date

Get to Know Me at Your Own Pace

I know it can feel nerve-racking to take the leap and make a booking, especially when you don’t know me well yet. To make that easier, I offer a few low-key ways to get to know me first.

A coffee date or walking date with a gigolo

Ways to Meet Me

Free WhatsApp Chat: Start with a chat, no obligations at all.

Coffee or Walking Date: A safe, simple way to talk with me in a public place. Relax, talk, and ask me anything while we enjoy a drink, a bite to eat, or an easy walk together.

Why a Date With Me?

Meeting me in person lowers the threshold and gives you a better sense of who I am. We can talk easily about your wishes, your feelings, and everyday things too. No expectations, just a relaxed, enjoyable date.

What to expect from a coffee date with a gigolo

What Can You Expect?

A relaxed time together where we get to know each other better. I’m an experienced psychotherapist, and you’ll notice it in how we talk. My clothing will suit the public setting we pick.

Jill

With respect you let me find my own boundaries. You also respected my hard limits without any problem. For me it was a new adventure that I enjoyed and I'm glad I got to discover it.Read Jill's full reviewShow less
I really liked how you took the time to settle in, you could also sense really well when I was stressed and such, especially at the beginning. It was also really nice that you took a break or some time now and then to check in on how things were going.

With respect you let me find my own boundaries.

You also respected my hard limits without any problem.

For me it was a new adventure that I enjoyed and I’m glad I got to discover it.

Jill

Annabel

I got a hug right away and it immediately felt safe. I didn't feel unsafe for a single moment. If I didn't want something, it was stopped right away. I can really recommend this to any woman who's ready for an exciting evening.Read Annabel's full reviewShow less
After a lot of thinking and considering whether I really wanted this, and also out of a pure urge to break out of the rut of life, I went in search of an exciting adventure. Earlier I had contacted an agency, but in the end they were too expensive for me. On top of that, the contact was rather businesslike and you don’t get any contact with the man you book. I didn’t like that and kept looking. I eventually came to this website and, with a pounding heart, sent a message. And a reply came right away! That did startle me, but I found it so exciting. It seemed to me that Victor is kind and his website comes across as trustworthy. We started chatting via WhatsApp and those messages slowly got a bit naughty. Then came the day of the appointment. I was slightly nervous. I had never done anything like this before. Sex with a stranger! No way! And I really had been raised to believe you do that with someone you love. I got a hug right away and it immediately felt safe. And what a good figure this man has! I didn’t feel unsafe for a single moment. If I didn’t want something, it was stopped right away. I feel wonderful now. I can really recommend this to any woman who’s ready for an exciting evening.

How very lucky I was with you. You’re intelligent, have a good figure, speak politely (except in bed), dress neatly. You’re kind and radiate trustworthiness. And you don’t get this kind of aftercare with the rest.

Annabel

Conditions

The cost of this date is my regular rate (see prices). If you book a date afterward, you get half the cost of the coffee date back (excluding travel costs).

Payment is on the spot, in cash. The food and drinks are on you: a drink, lunch, or dinner.

Getting to know a gigolo with no obligations

How Do You Plan a Date?

Send me a message with:

What you’d like from a coffee or walking date.
Why you’d like a date.

Please note: a request is no guarantee of a date. I choose carefully who I meet.

Ready to take the first step? Send me a message on WhatsApp, and who knows, maybe we’ll have a lovely date on the calendar soon.

Love and a wink, Victor

Is there such a thing as a short intro or a trial appointment?
A paid trial appointment, no. Two hours stays the minimum, and even that is short for a real date.

What does exist, and costs nothing: a phone call, a video call, or meeting for a cup of coffee with nothing expected to follow. For most women that’s enough to know whether we click, and it’s more honest than a shortened version of something that needs time.

So a coffee date isn’t a small booking, it’s a first meeting. You’re not tied to anything, and if you decide afterward that it’s not for you, that’s a perfectly fine outcome. I won’t bill you for that coffee later either.
Can I video call or have an intro chat first, before I book?
Yes, and it costs you nothing. A phone call is always fine, a video call too, and a cup of coffee somewhere neutral works just as well.

None of it ties you down. Afterward you can still decide not to go ahead, and that happens regularly without anyone making it awkward.

I actively recommend a video call, because it’s also your best check. Photos say little about how someone moves and sounds, and that’s usually where it falls apart. Five minutes on screen says more than a whole website. Feel free to call even if you just have a question and aren’t thinking about anything yet.
Can we start somewhere neutral, like a café or a hotel bar?
Yes, and for a first time that’s often the most comfortable setup. You’re in public, you can walk away easily, and you’ve seen how someone treats a waiter before you go any further.

That last part sounds trivial and it isn’t. How someone behaves toward staff who mean nothing to him tells you more in five minutes than an hour of messages.

We pick a spot together where you won’t run into anyone. If you don’t know the area, I’ll suggest something. If you do, you choose, because you know better where you might bump into people you know.