Into the warmth together
Spa Experience
Into the sauna together, a massage the moment you're ready for it, and a whole day with nowhere you have to be.
What is a spa date with a gigolo?
A spa date with a gigolo is a full wellness day together, built around one thing: rest. Sometimes you don’t need a date and you don’t need a program. You want to get into the warmth, feel your shoulders drop, and have nowhere to be all day. That is what a Spa Experience is. We go together to a luxury sauna or wellness resort, and the rest of the day is about slowing down.
You don’t have to perform and you don’t have to get anything right. I’m there, I keep an eye on the time, and you let your thoughts drift wherever they want.
What do we do together on a spa day?
We start slowly. Into the sauna, cool down for a bit, back into the warmth. In between there’s a bath, a steam room or a hammam, and the moment you’re ready for it, a massage I arrange for you. No tight schedule and no rush. If you want to talk, we talk, and if you’d rather stay quiet, I just stay next to you.
Around midday or at the end of the day we eat something together. Sit for a while, have a drink, and then back into the warmth if you’re not done letting go yet.
A spa day, written out
You come in and the rush of the outside world falls away at once. We start slowly: into the sauna, the warmth sinking into your muscles, and then a short cool-down before we go back. Nobody wanting anything from you, nowhere you have to be.
Somewhere in the morning there’s a massage, right when your body asks for it. Then back into the warmth, a bath or a steam room, with a glass of water or tea in between. Around midday we eat something together, without any rush, and if you’re not done letting go, we simply head back into the warmth once more.
By the end of the day you’re softer than when you came in. Warm, rested, and a little slower in your head. Exactly as it should be.
A full day, not an all-inclusive weekend
This is a day together, not an all-inclusive weekend. At the end of the day I bring you home or back to your hotel, warm and rested. Would you rather add a night to it, with a dinner, an overnight stay and a morning that isn’t rushed? Then take a look at my arrangements. Those are fully taken care of and run through to the next day. The Spa Experience keeps to that one day of rest.
Hilde
Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humor. He senses your mood flawlessly and, in his own unique way, knows how to create a pleasant atmosphere.Read Hilde's full reviewShow less
Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humor. His calm presence combined with his humor gives you a safe feeling. He senses your mood flawlessly and, in his own unique way, knows how to create a pleasant atmosphere. He respects his date, her boundaries and wishes. He makes it possible to discover new territory and learn to enjoy it. Love, Hilde
Rachel
You were more tender than I could have imagined, more understanding, more caring, more genuine. I felt so seen and so heard and so cared for. You are unique and precious.Read Rachel's full reviewShow less
I didn’t know what to expect when I reached out to you, but what you gave me was more than I could ever have thought. My meeting with you was more than just a meeting. You had reached out to me beforehand, so when we met it felt as if I already knew you, and you me too.
You were more tender than I could have imagined, more understanding, more caring, more genuine. I felt I could tell you anything, ask you anything, want or need anything, and that you were there for me. Lying in your arms while you stroked my hair and kissed my head gave me the strength to face the world again. I felt so seen and so heard and so cared for.
Even after we had met, you still reached out to ask how I was doing. Whatever I thought you could mean to me, you gave me so much more. I don’t think there’s anyone else like you. You are unique and precious.
Esther
Looking back, I do understand that amount. What won me over was precisely that Victor made no big deal of it at all. Take your time, and you get a lot back for it.Read Esther's full reviewShow less
Honestly? I spent weeks doubting before I messaged him. Not because I didn’t want to. The price is simply steep, and I found it terrifying to spend so much on something I didn’t even know would suit me. Looking back, I do understand that amount. This really isn’t a standard little date.
Honestly though: the first time I didn’t really get there. Was too much in my head. It was me, mind you, not him. What won me over was precisely that Victor made no big deal of it at all. No pressure. Not a sigh of disappointment. The second time everything fell into place and only then did I feel what it’s really about.
Looking to score quickly? Then I don’t think this is for you. Take your time, and you get a lot back for it.
Who is a spa date for?
For you, if you’re ready for pampering with no hidden agenda. Maybe your skin is craving warmth and touch. Maybe your head is simply too full. You don’t need a reason. “I just want to get away from it all for a while” is enough.
Not sure whether this suits you? With a tantra massage the emphasis is more on your body and your energy, and with cuddle therapy on being held. A spa date with a gigolo is about the warmth and the rest of a full day.
Why does a day of warmth do so much?
Warmth, touch and unhurried time work on your body, and that can’t be forced. In the heat of a sauna your muscles relax and your heart rate drops; your breathing gets slower and deeper. Your nervous system finally gets the signal that, for now, it doesn’t have to do anything.
As a psychotherapist I see how full many women are: always keeping half an eye on whatever still needs doing later. You don’t switch off that “on” mode on command. It takes hours, and those hours are exactly what a day like this gives you. No tricks, just enough time, warmth and rest to really let go.
What you can expect from me
I’m Victor, a psychotherapist for over twenty-five years. You notice it in how calm I stay. I keep the day light and pay attention to what you need, without you having to ask. I never push past anything. What we do together stays between us.
Want to talk it over?
Tell me what you’re looking for, and I’ll arrange the place and the treatments that fit. Send me a message on WhatsApp or drop by my contact page, and together we’ll shape what your day looks like.
Frequently asked questions
Frequently asked questions about the Spa Experience
What exactly is a spa date with a gigolo?
A wellness day together. We go to a luxury sauna or wellness resort, get into the warmth, cool down, and in between there’s a massage the moment you’re ready for it. No tight schedule and no program: the whole day is about rest.
Is a spa date with a gigolo sexual?
No. This is pampering with no hidden agenda. It’s about warmth, touch and rest, and about having nowhere to be all day. What does and doesn’t happen is up to you, and we agree on that clearly beforehand.
Do you arrange the location and the treatments?
Yes. Tell me what you’re looking for, and I’ll arrange the place and the treatments that fit, including the massage. All you have to do is show up and let go.
Is it just one day, or can a night be added?
The Spa Experience keeps to that one day of rest; at the end I bring you home again, warm and rested. Would you rather add a dinner, an overnight stay and an unhurried morning to it, then take a look at my arrangements.
I just want to get away from it all, with no reason. Is that okay?
That’s exactly the point. You don’t need a reason. “I just want to get away from it all” is enough, whether your head is too full or your skin is simply craving warmth and touch.