Three-day arrangement · only a couple of times a year
Amsterdam, from Friday to Sunday
Three days that are yours alone. Fully taken care of, everything included, and not for everyone.
Three days you don't have to plan
A gigolo weekend in Amsterdam is a three-day date from Friday morning to Sunday evening, in which I take care of everything: two nights, every meal, a private tour, and all the transport. Three days that are yours alone, intimacy-driven and never rushed. You don’t just book it. It happens only a couple of times a year, and only after we have met.
Some women book an evening. Others get on a plane just for this.
Some things you can’t experience in a few hours. Not over a dinner, and certainly not in a single night. That deep surrender only arrives once time grows so wide that you stop watching the clock. No train to catch. No morning when it turns back into an ordinary Monday.
This is that. Three days in Amsterdam, from Friday morning at ten until Sunday evening at seven. Everything is arranged and paid for. Except one thing: what you want to feel during these days. That stays open.
You don’t have to arrange anything or prepare anything. You just come.
Why come to Amsterdam for this
Amsterdam is a city that whispers. Behind the canal-house facades of old money are doors that don’t open for tourists. Bars with no nameplate. Studios where craftspeople work in silence. And once the sun goes down, the water softens the city, with a freedom in the air you breathe nowhere else quite like this.
For most women who book this, Amsterdam isn’t home. They get on the train or the plane, leave their life behind at the gate, and land as someone who knows no one here. That’s exactly the point. Here you’re not the mother, the director, the wife who keeps everything running. You’re a stranger in a beautiful city, with a man who does nothing these days but see you.
The city is the backdrop. I’m the reason. And what happens between us stays in Amsterdam.
What is a gigolo weekend in Amsterdam?
A gigolo weekend in Amsterdam is three days where everything is taken care of: the nights, every meal, the transport, the places we go. You pay up front, all at once, and after that you don’t have to think about a thing.
And yes, the gigolo part is naturally part of it. The touch, the intimacy, the nights. But that isn’t the whole story.
It’s one layer of something much wider: eating together, getting lost in a street you don’t know, staying quiet without it turning awkward, waking up next to each other. The city, good food, your own body handed back to you. And attention that never drifts. The intimacy is there in full, and there is much more.
This is intimacy-driven, not a performance. You decide how far it goes and where it stops. If your body chooses to keep it to touch and closeness during these days, it’s still an exhilarating, transformative weekend. Sex is never the goal here. At most it’s something that’s allowed to happen, if you want it to.
Where an evening or a night together shows you a glimpse, here you get the whole picture.
Amy
That's why I warmly recommend this three-day package. Afterward you walk away with the feeling that you've spent time with a lover instead of with a gigolo.Read Amy's full reviewShow less
Would you ever visit a city, say Paris, for only five hours, one overnight stay, or even just one day? For a museum maybe, but even something like the Louvre calls for several visits, and even then you wouldn’t be able to see everything.
In the same way, how long you book Victor of course depends on your goal. If it’s purely about the sex for you, then five hours is probably enough. But I’d find that a waste of his skill and of your money, because what Victor offers reaches beyond just (incredibly good ;-) ) sex.
If you’re like me, you find the moments between the sex especially intimate and nourishing. That can be all sorts of things: doing something non-sexual together like watching a film, talking about light or precisely serious things, or actually doing nothing at all and just enjoying the presence of another person in the room. To stay with Paris a little longer: yes, it’s beautiful to see the Mona Lisa or the Eiffel Tower, but only when you walk slowly along the Seine and take in your surroundings does it become truly meaningful.
A continuous booking of several days gives a much more immersive experience, because you can bring the pace down and really enjoy your time together without having to keep looking at the clock. The beginning and the end of the ‘date’, as Victor calls a booking, also go more smoothly, because you have to pick up the thread again less often.
That’s why I warmly recommend this three-day package. It’s exactly the right length for something of real meaning, and afterward you walk away from the ‘date’ with the feeling that you’ve spent time with a lover instead of with a gigolo.
Why you can surrender safely with me
Coming this close asks for trust, and you don’t hand that to a stranger on a leap of faith. As a psychotherapist, I know how to make a space where you dare to let go, and how to keep it safe. Who I am and why women trust me, you can read on about me. What others wrote after their time with me, you’ll find in the reviews.
And most important: you stay in charge, the whole time. Before we go away you fill in a consent form, so it’s crystal clear on paper what you do and don’t give permission for. That doesn’t lock you in: you can adjust it at any moment during these days.
If something suddenly doesn’t feel right, or does after all, you say so and we adjust it. If something doesn’t feel right, we stop. Without explanation, and without me holding it against you.
Your comfort always comes before the program. Surrender only works when you know you can turn back at any moment.
Your health is just as much part of that. I handle intimacy carefully and safely. Exactly how, you can read further down in the frequently asked questions. Well in advance we calmly agree on what you do and don’t want and how we keep it safe. We arrange that together, long before you arrive.
How I protect your privacy
With me, discretion isn’t a promise but the way I work. In concrete terms, that means this:
- In the app you know me only as Victor. You don’t need more, and I don’t leave more lying around either.
- Your statement shows nothing unusual. The payment runs through my coaching business and appears as coaching on the invoice. If you want to go a step further, you can pay fully anonymously with Bitcoin or cash.
- I keep nothing that could hurt you. Photos, messages, and whatever you entrust to me are deleted afterward. What we shared stays ours and then disappears.
- I work alone, without a go-between. What you tell me reaches no one else.
How I handle your data further is set out in my privacy statement. If you have a wish or concern of your own about discretion, feel free to say so in your first message. Then I’ll adjust to it.
And traveling alone as a woman
You’re traveling to a man you’ve only known a short while. That you feel safe doing it weighs more heavily with me than anything else. So please do the following, and never feel awkward about it:
- Tell someone where you’re going. Give a friend my contact details and feel free to share the name of the hotel.
- Arrange a check-in. Many women call someone the moment they’ve landed and know everything feels good, with the understanding that the other person acts if it stays quiet. A fine idea as far as I’m concerned.
- One room, unless you want it otherwise. I reserve one room for the two of us. If you’d rather sleep alone, I withdraw and you keep the hotel to yourself. Feel free to say so, even once you’re there.
- On arrival you’re still tied to nothing. If it doesn’t feel right for you in the moment, you can still stop. How that works financially, you can read further down under the investment.
A transformation, not an outing
No one leaves here the way she came. It isn’t the luxury that changes you, but what happens to you in these days: you find something in yourself again that you’d lost along the way.
A few days without a role and without judgment, with someone who truly sees you, do what a night out never can. You feel again what it is to be desired. To dare. To call your body your own again.
This isn’t a weekend away. It’s the kind of experience you allow yourself once in your life, and that stays with you afterward.
Maybe you recognize yourself here
The women who book this look little alike from the outside. Married or single, twenty, forty, or well into their sixties, a busy existence or a quiet life. What they share is something else: the longing to be no one for a while, and the courage to admit it.
Whatever is going on in your life and why you’re here is yours. I don’t judge it, ever. Whether you’re married or single, what you come to me looking for stays yours. The only thing that matters is that it feels right for you.
Never done anything like this? Then you’re in the right place, because most women here were doing it for the first time. Unsure about your body or your age? This isn’t about a dress size or a mirror. It’s about you, and about how you feel with me. If you’d first like to see how I work, take a look at the services.
Three days for your senses
Friday: arriving and letting go It starts gently. The champagne is already chilled, or something lovely without alcohol. The city slowly opens itself to you.
The first hours are for landing, for letting the journey slide off your shoulders and getting used to the idea that nothing has to happen for a while. We go at your pace, and in the evening an exclusive dinner for the two of us is waiting, in a place you wouldn’t have found on your own, where no one hurries us and the evening can last as long as it lasts.
Under the table a hand on your knee, a look that lingers a little longer. The tension building quietly between us. And afterward, back in the room, still nothing has to happen.
A first touch if you want it, skin getting used to skin, and the quiet knowing that two more nights lie ahead of us. Somewhere in there you notice you haven’t exhaled this deeply in days.
Saturday: disappearing into the city The day the outside world stops existing. Water, art, taste, skin.
A private tour that lets you experience the iconic places of Amsterdam in a way no tourist gets to, and the hidden side behind them: doors that stay shut to the crowd, and the stories underneath. Places you would never have reached without me.
Wandering the narrow lanes of the Wallen, in and out of the boutiques where something beautiful waits for you. A lunch that lasts hours because no one hurries us. An afternoon that heads somewhere you couldn’t have imagined that morning.
Sometimes a hidden bar, sometimes the room where we close the curtains and forget the city completely for a while. And when evening falls, everything turns inward.
Room to discover what you may never have dared to ask out loud: play, surrender, desire that’s allowed to rise, always at your pace and within your limits. A night with no end, because the next morning nothing is waiting for you.
Sunday: afterglow and goodbye Sleeping in without an alarm, close against each other, with all the time for one last closeness if you feel like it. Languid, unhurried, because nothing has to happen anymore.
A last morning that’s allowed to be slow, with a long brunch and, if you want, a private boat trip along the canals in the soft morning light. Just the two of us.
A little more of the city, a little more of each other, and then a goodbye that feels like a secret you take with you. At seven in the evening you step outside as someone who didn’t exist three days ago.
These aren’t fixed appointments but directions. The way they fill in arises between us, tuned to who you are and what you’re curious about.
Marley
For me that's, at no. 1, getting connection and relaxing.. and not straight back to reality..no time pressure Especially the first time..but now, after date 4, the sauna thing also helps to settle in and relaxRead Marley's full reviewShow less
For me that’s, at no. 1, getting connection and relaxing.. and not straight back to reality..no time pressure Especially the first time..but now, after date 4, the sauna thing also helps to settle in and relax …you keep a proper eye on all the boundaries , and when it feels good you seek more closeness..if not, just company is lovely, and that way we build calmly and relaxed toward intimacy..or not, also fine…
as a woman you do have to dare to give yourself ’ bare’ right away..
…so then, at no. 2, relaxation and being together, time for relaxed conversations, silences…seeking connection…but also…not being alone among all the hot bodies and happy little couples and not going home alone to an empty bed…
.then 3. real self-care ( sauna = self-care ) with a little extra you 😏
because that little extra you is very much self-care too whose taboo can go away…the sauna makes you super relaxed , and horny ..how lovely that you can share that with you and enjoy the option to make full use of all that horniness with your skills ..to feel completely like a woman and enjoy , and to feel (.in my case) empowered before you have to go back to your daily things…
Everything included
One price for three days and two nights. You arrange your own travel to Amsterdam and back home. Everything after that is included, from the moment I pick you up. No extra costs, no surprises, and no one showing up halfway through with a bill.
- Two nights in a place that suits these days. Stylish, discreet, with the calm that belongs to it.
- All meals. Chosen with care, and you don’t have to pick anything if you’d rather not.
- An exclusive dinner for the two of us. In a special place, in complete calm and without a clock.
- A private tour through the city. The iconic places of Amsterdam in a way no tourist gets to, plus unique spots you’d never have found without me, with the stories hidden behind them.
- All transport, door to door. Whether you come by plane or train, someone is waiting for you the moment you arrive. From the airport, the station, or your hotel in the Netherlands, until I drop you off there again.
- What we do along the way, entirely tuned to you. With something extra each time that you only experience because you’re with me.
- Undivided attention. One man, focused on you alone these days.
- Full discretion. Before and during, and long after you’ve left.
You bring yourself. I take care of the rest.
Only for those it fits
I only have two spots a year for this, and that’s a deliberate choice. It asks a lot of me: in preparation, in presence, in planning. Days like these exist only when I do nothing else alongside them. The calendar empty, the attention total. I can genuinely deliver that just a few times a year, so I keep it to two. This year, two spots are still open.
That’s why you can’t just book this. There’s no button, there’s a request and a conversation. Whether it goes ahead depends on whether we’re a match. For something that comes this close, that has to feel right on both sides.
What does matter to me is this:
- Respect and discretion. You keep to agreements and protect the privacy of us both. If I have any doubt about that, the answer is no.
- Emotional maturity. You know what you’re looking for, and what this is and isn’t: a handful of beautiful days, with a clear beginning and end.
- You invest in the lead-up. The women who get the most back are invariably the ones who put the most in beforehand.
- A mutual click. If it doesn’t feel right to me, I say no too. And that is exactly what makes it safe enough for you to let go.
If that isn’t there, it doesn’t happen. For no amount of money.
The lead-up: how you come in
Before we go away together, we get to know each other. Thoroughly. Not as a formality, but because the quality of those days is almost entirely decided by what happens beforehand. Count on a lead-up of two to three months, so plan well ahead. This isn’t something for next week, and that’s exactly the point.
- Your request. You send me a message. Not a form, but a real introduction: who you are, why this in particular, what you hope to find. A simple “hi” is fine too, and we start there. I read everything, and you always get a personal reply.
- We text. We write back and forth without rushing, about connection, wishes, and expectations. Somewhere in that conversation you get a photo of me, so you know who will be standing across from you.
- We video call. Now you see me for real, and I see you. This is the moment we both feel whether there’s a mutual click. For me, but just as much for you: you commit to nothing for a man you’ve only texted.
- Tuning in. If it clicks on both sides, the real groundwork begins. We tune in over the weeks before: desires, limits, safewords, medical details, and just before departure you fill in the consent form. What we discuss I record carefully, so nothing has to be arranged on the spot.
- Only then, commitment. Once all the agreements are made and it feels right to us both, then (and only then) you make it final with the reservation and the payment. Not before. Until that moment you’re tied to nothing, while I’ve already been thinking about you for days by then.
If you’d like to hold a date while we get to know each other, you can. You make a provisional reservation then: entirely free and without binding you to anything. Should someone else want to book that same date, I contact you first. Then you choose whether to turn your reservation into a real booking, or let it go. That way you keep the time you need, without the date slipping out from under you.
That lead-up is essential. The anticipation doesn’t begin on arrival. It begins with your very first message.
The investment
€25,000. Everything included, three days and two nights. Only your travel to Amsterdam and back is added to that.
This isn’t an expense. This is something you allow yourself, completely.
Paying is discreet. It runs through my coaching business and appears as coaching on the invoice, so nothing unusual shows on your statement. If you’d rather stay anonymous, cash or Bitcoin works too.
And you’re tied to nothing while you’re still unsure: you only pay once all the agreements are in place and it feels right to us both, never before. Even after that you keep room. Cancel more than two weeks ahead and it costs you nothing. Between two weeks and one week beforehand it’s 15%, and less than a week beforehand 35%. And even on arrival you can still turn back: if it doesn’t feel right for you at that moment, we stop. Because I’ll have made reservations by then, you get part of your money back. And everything I can still cancel free of charge, you get back in full. You can read the full terms in the terms and conditions.
This isn’t an amount you compare to a night out. It’s about something else: a handful of days in which, for the first time in a long while, you have to do absolutely nothing. Days like that can’t be captured in a price.
Ready to request?
There’s no booking button, and that’s on purpose. But the first step is small. You don’t need a polished story ready or anything figured out. A message with just “hi” is enough to begin. The rest comes on its own, at our pace.
Send me a message. You always get a reply from me personally, never from an agency or an assistant. And it commits you to nothing: we take our time to see whether this fits you.
Would you rather not share your number yet? Then the contact form works just as well. It reaches me without any detour, and you keep your phone to yourself a while longer.
Absolute discretion. Only a couple of times a year, and only after we’ve met.
Celina
Over time you really start to feel it and believe it: that you truly are as precious as he treats you. Three days, it's full immersion.Read Celina's full reviewShow less
To really let what you learn land (not only in words and deeds, experienced with your five senses, which is delightful in itself, yes…). But over time your thoughts and your attitude, your feelings and the atmosphere start to play together, and a reality of its own arises, a safe place to feel delicious. Over time you really start to feel it, believe it and act on it as if it’s true: that you truly are as precious as he treats you (and here he would say ‘of course you are, sweetheart’). And then you keep the memory of these three days on a deeper level in your soul, to nourish you and to look back on with warmth and respect.
Three days, it’s full immersion. Enjoy…
Why does this cost €25,000? That's a lot of money.
Because three days are cleared completely for you, and everything around them is prepared for that. Two nights in a stylish place, every meal, an exclusive dinner, a private tour, and all the door-to-door transport: it’s all in there. One amount, up front, with no extra costs.
But the largest part isn’t what you pay for the luxury. You pay so that during that time I take nothing else on and my attention is entirely on you. I do this only twice a year, precisely because that’s the only way it works.
So don’t work it out as an evening times a few. Counted that way you’re only counting the hours, and that’s not what this is about. Only your travel to Amsterdam is added on top.
What if it doesn't feel right on arrival? Do I lose my money?
Then we stop, even if you’re already in Amsterdam. If it doesn’t feel right for you in the moment, you say so, without explanation. Your comfort always comes before the program.
Financially it works like this. Because I’ll have made reservations by then, you get part of it back, and everything I can still cancel free of charge you get back in full. Cancel well ahead, more than two weeks beforehand, and it costs you nothing.
And until the moment all the agreements are in place and it feels right to us both, you pay nothing at all yet. The full terms are in the terms and conditions.
Does there have to be sex for three days straight?
No. This is intimacy-driven, not a performance. You decide how far it goes and where it stops, every day anew. If your body chooses to keep it to touch and closeness, it’s still an intense, transformative weekend.
Sex is never the goal here. At most it’s something that’s allowed to happen, if you want it to, and otherwise not. The touch and the nights are part of it, but they’re one layer of something much wider: eating together, the city, waking up next to each other, attention that doesn’t wander.
What we do and don’t do, we set out together beforehand, and you can adjust it at any moment during the days.
Do we sleep in one room? Can I also sleep alone?
I reserve one room for the two of us. But if you’d rather sleep alone, I withdraw and you have the hotel to yourself. You can say so beforehand, and even once you’re there.
Coming this close takes trust, and that you feel safe weighs more heavily with me than anything else. There’s no expectation at all that you have to meet at night.
Everything around sleeping, space, and closeness we calmly settle beforehand, so nothing has to be arranged on the spot.
What do we do those three days, do we stay in the room?
Both are possible, and you set the mix. The days have a rhythm: Friday to arrive and land, with an exclusive dinner in the evening. Saturday into the city, with a private tour past places no tourist gets to. Sunday a slow afterglow, with a long brunch and, if you want, a boat trip along the canals.
But those are directions, not obligations. If you want to close the curtains one afternoon and forget the city for a while, we do that. The way it fills in arises between us, tuned to who you are.
You don’t have to choose or plan anything beforehand. You just come, and I take care of the rest.
Why can't I just book this, and why only twice a year?
Because these days exist only when I do nothing else alongside them. The calendar empty, the attention total, days of preparation. I can genuinely deliver that just a few times a year, so I keep it to two.
So there’s no booking button, but a request and a conversation. Whether it goes ahead depends on whether we’re a match. If I don’t feel it on my side, I say no too. That’s exactly what makes it safe enough for you to let go.
Count on a lead-up of two to three months, so plan well ahead. This isn’t something for next week, and that’s exactly the point.