Terms and conditions

Version: 1.6. July 2026

These Terms and Conditions apply to the hiring and booking of a gigolo, male escort and BDSM gigolo services via gigolo-victor.com, based in Amsterdam with services throughout the Netherlands and Europe.

Article 1. Definitions

1.1 Service Provider: the professional gigolo and male escort who provides the Services directly to Clients, also operating as a BDSM gigolo with more than 25 years of experience in the BDSM world.

1.2 Client: natural persons of at least 21 years of age, or legal entities, who wish to hire a gigolo or book a male escort, and who wish to enter into or have entered into a Booking Agreement with the Service Provider.

1.3 New Client: a Client who has not used the Services before, or whose last Booking took place more than 13 months ago.

1.4 Website: the website gigolo-victor.com on which the gigolo and male escort services are offered, including BDSM gigolo services in Amsterdam and the surrounding area.

1.5 Services: all gigolo and male escort services offered and performed by the Service Provider, including but not limited to:

Escort & Companionship: a) Boyfriend Experience (BFE). An intimate companionship experience with loving attention; b) Dinner Dates. Culinary company and companionship; c) Coffee Dates. Informal introductory meetings; d) Event companionship. Accompaniment to parties, galas and social events; e) Travel companionship. Accompaniment during holidays and business trips.

BDSM & Kink Services: f) BDSM introduction for beginners. A safe first encounter with BDSM; g) Advanced BDSM sessions. For experienced Clients; h) Breathplay. Breath control under strict safety protocols; i) CNC (Consensual Non-Consent). A pre-agreed, thoroughly discussed consensual power exchange; j) Dominance and submission. Professional D/s dynamics; k) Bondage and discipline. Restraint and discipline; l) Sensory experiences. Blindfold and sensory sessions.

Special Experiences: m) Defloration. Careful guidance during first sexual experiences; n) Recovery after trauma. Therapeutic support in regaining intimacy; o) Couples experience. Services for couples who want to explore together; p) Swingers club and couples club visits. Accompaniment to lifestyle events; q) BDSM party companionship. Accompaniment to BDSM parties and munches; r) Cuddle therapy. Non-sexual physical closeness and comfort; s) Mystery encounters. Spontaneous and role-play-based experiences.

1.6 Hiring a gigolo / Booking a gigolo: entering into a Booking Agreement for the Services of the Service Provider, whereby the Client hires a gigolo for an agreed period of time and specific services.

1.7 Request: any request from a Client to the Service Provider, made via the Website, email, telephone, WhatsApp or any other means of communication, in which the Client intends to hire a gigolo or book a male escort.

1.8 Booking: a contract of assignment between Client and Service Provider for gigolo or male escort services, which is established after Confirmation of a Request.

1.9 Confirmation: the written confirmation from the Service Provider to the Client in which the arrangements regarding a Booking are recorded, including in any case the location, time, duration and Booking Fee.

1.10 Booking Fee: the total cost of the gigolo and male escort services, including travel costs, service charges and any surcharges.

1.11 Booking Duration: the duration of the Booking as agreed in the Confirmation.

1.12 Deposit: an advance payment to confirm the Booking, mandatory for New Clients who want to hire a gigolo.

1.13 International Booking: all Bookings for gigolo or male escort services that take place outside the Netherlands, or Bookings for which a travel distance of more than 250 kilometers applies.

1.14 Guaranteed Booking: a Booking for which the Client is not entitled to free cancellation.

1.15 Europe: all EU member states, as well as Switzerland, the United Kingdom and Norway.

1.16 Parties: the Service Provider and Client together.

1.17 Service Area: the Service Provider is based in Amsterdam and provides gigolo and male escort services throughout the Netherlands, with services in Rotterdam, The Hague, Utrecht and the surrounding areas, among others, as well as international Bookings within Europe.

Article 2. Applicability

2.1 These Terms and Conditions apply to all offers made by the Service Provider, all Bookings and all related legal relationships.

2.2 By making a Request or placing a Booking, the Client accepts these Terms and Conditions, whether or not the Client has read them in full.

2.3 Deviations from these Terms and Conditions are only valid if and to the extent that they have been expressly approved in writing by the Service Provider.

2.4 The applicability of any general terms and conditions of the Client is expressly excluded.

2.5 The Service Provider is entitled at all times to unilaterally amend the content of these Terms and Conditions. The amended terms take effect at the moment they are published on the Website.

2.6 If one or more provisions in these Terms and Conditions are void or annulled, the remaining provisions remain in full force. In that case the Parties will consult to agree on replacement provisions, taking into account the purpose and intent of the original provision as much as possible.

2.7 A Client who has already concluded a Booking with the Service Provider is deemed to tacitly agree to the applicability of these Terms and Conditions to later and/or additional Bookings.

2.8 These Terms and Conditions were drawn up in the Dutch language. Only the Dutch-language version is legally binding. Any translations into other languages are for information only and have no legal force. In the event of discrepancies between the Dutch-language version and a translation, the Dutch text prevails at all times.

Article 3. Legality

3.1 The Service Provider performs his work in accordance with applicable laws and regulations.

3.2 The Service Provider guarantees respectful and professional treatment of Clients.

Article 4. Formation of the Booking

4.1 All offers made by the Service Provider are without obligation, unless expressly stated otherwise in the offer.

4.2 A Booking is only established at the moment the Service Provider has expressly accepted the Request by means of a Confirmation.

4.3 The Confirmation is deemed to be correct and complete. The Confirmation replaces and supersedes all earlier proposals, correspondence, agreements or other communication.

4.4 For New Clients, the Confirmation is only issued after the Deposit has been paid.

4.5 The Service Provider reserves the right to refuse a Request without giving reasons.

4.6 The Client has no right to dissolve the distance contract within the meaning of Article 6:230p of the Dutch Civil Code, since the Services qualify as a leisure activity for which a specific time has been agreed.

Article 5. Performance of the Booking

5.1 The Service Provider makes every effort to tailor the Services optimally to the Client’s wishes, in order to offer the best possible experience.

5.2 The Booking begins at the time stated in the Confirmation.

5.3 The minimum Booking Duration is 2 hours. Depending on travel distance, additional minimum requirements may apply.

5.4 Bookings take place exclusively in a hygienic and safe environment, being: a) a private residence; or b) a hotel or accommodation of at least four-star level.

5.5 The location must be exclusively available to the Client and Service Provider during the Booking and must have a bedroom, seating, bathroom and toilet.

5.6 The Client is responsible for booking and providing a suitable location that meets the requirements of Articles 5.4 and 5.5. All costs associated with the location are for the Client’s account.

5.7 The Service Provider’s home location is not available for Bookings.

5.8 If, in the Service Provider’s judgment, the hygiene at the location is not in order, the Booking is ended immediately without any right to a refund.

Article 6. Obligations of the Client

Correct information

6.1 The Client is obliged to provide correct and complete information about his identity and the Booking.

Age and Conduct

6.2 The Client must be at least 21 years old. The Service Provider is entitled to request identification.

6.3 The Client must refrain from: a) the possession or use of drugs; b) offering drugs to the Service Provider; c) excessive alcohol use that negatively affects the course of the Booking.

Respectful Treatment

6.4 The Client treats the Service Provider with respect at all times and in accordance with these Terms and Conditions.

6.5 The Client is not permitted to force the Service Provider into acts that go against the will of the Service Provider, the Booking or the law.

6.6 The Service Provider acts at all times according to his own professional judgment and discretion.

Health and Safe Sex

6.7 The Client is obliged to report medical conditions that could endanger the health of the Service Provider.

6.8 The Client must be free of sexually transmitted diseases, contagious skin conditions and viral infections.

6.9 All sexual acts take place exclusively in accordance with the Service Provider’s Safe Sex policy. The Client is strictly forbidden to move the Service Provider to forgo the use of condoms.

6.10 If the Client insists on unsafe sex, the Booking is ended immediately without any right to a refund.

Hygiene and Facilities

6.11 The Client must ensure a high level of personal hygiene.

6.12 For Bookings of a longer duration, the Client is obliged to: a) offer at least 3 meals per day (for Bookings of 12 hours or more); b) offer at least 6 hours of sleep for overnight stays; c) allow at least 2 hours of private time per day for Bookings of more than 24 hours.

Privacy and Contact

6.13 The Client respects the privacy of the Service Provider and refrains from: a) making photo, audio or video recordings; b) attempts to find out personal data of the Service Provider; c) inspecting the Service Provider’s belongings;

Prohibited Acts

6.14 The Client refrains from: a) deception, intimidation, threats or fraud; b) acts that endanger the safety or reputation of the Service Provider; c) disclosing confidential information about the Service Provider; d) unlawful acts against the Service Provider or third parties.

BDSM, Breathplay and CNC Services

6.15 When booking BDSM gigolo services, breathplay, CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) or other kink-related experiences, the following additional conditions apply: a) prior to the Booking, an extensive intake conversation takes place in which limits, wishes, safewords and medical particulars are discussed; b) the Client is obliged to provide all relevant medical information, including but not limited to cardiovascular diseases, respiratory problems, epilepsy or psychological conditions; c) a safeword or stop signal is agreed in advance and must be respected at all times by both Parties; d) the Service Provider reserves the right to refuse breathplay, CNC or other high-risk activities if, in his professional judgment, safety cannot be sufficiently guaranteed; e) the Client acknowledges that BDSM activities carry inherent risks and indemnifies the Service Provider against liability for damage that arises despite compliance with the agreed safety protocols; f) aftercare is an integral part of BDSM gigolo sessions and is provided by the Service Provider according to professional judgment.

6.16 The Client is strictly forbidden from exceeding the agreed scenario or ignoring the safeword during CNC sessions. A violation leads to immediate termination of the Booking without any right to a refund and may be regarded as a criminal offense.

Article 7. Long Bookings

7.1 Bookings with a duration of 24 hours or more are regarded as Long Bookings.

7.2 During Long Bookings, the following conditions apply: a) at least 6 hours of sleep during the night hours (22:00 to 07:00); b) breakfast, lunch and dinner at the Client’s expense; c) 2 hours of private time per 24-hour period.

Article 8. International Bookings

8.1 An International Booking is a Booking that takes place outside the Netherlands.

8.2 International Bookings within Europe require a minimum Booking Duration of 36 hours including travel time.

Travel Costs and Transport

8.3 All costs for transport, visas, accommodation and meals are for the Client’s account.

8.4 For travel within the Netherlands, a mileage allowance applies.

8.5 For air travel, the following provisions apply: a) up to 8 hours of flight time: Economy Class; b) from 8 hours of flight time: Business Class or First Class; c) flights are preferably booked without stopovers.

8.6 The journey may not start earlier than 06:00, unless necessary.

Deposit and Payment

8.7 For International Bookings, a deposit is mandatory of at least 50% of the Booking Fee plus 100% of the external costs.

8.8 The remaining amount must be paid at least 48 hours before the start of the Booking.

Delays and Costs

8.9 Unforeseen costs that arise during the journey through no fault of the Service Provider are for the Client’s account.

8.10 If the Service Provider misses the return flight through the (in)direct fault of the Client, the extra time is charged to the Client at the regular rate.

Article 9. Cancellation and Amendment by the Service Provider

9.1 The Service Provider reserves the right to cancel or amend a Booking if: a) the Service Provider cannot be present at the requested location and/or time; b) the requested location is not suitable or available; c) in the Service Provider’s judgment, safety cannot be guaranteed; d) the Client does not (timely) meet the agreed conditions; e) circumstances arise that make performance of the Booking unreasonably onerous.

9.2 In the event of cancellation or amendment, the Service Provider informs the Client as soon as possible.

9.3 If the Booking can only take place under changed circumstances, the Client is entitled to cancel the Booking free of charge, with the exception of external costs already incurred.

9.4 In the event of cancellation by the Service Provider for reasons referred to in paragraph 1 sub a to e, the Service Provider is not liable for any direct or indirect damage or costs of the Client.

Delay

9.5 If the Service Provider arrives later than agreed, the Booking is extended free of charge by the duration of the delay.

9.6 In the event of a delay of more than 60 minutes (not caused by the Client), the Client is entitled to cancel the Booking free of charge, provided the Booking was confirmed at least 5 hours in advance.

Article 10. Cancellation and Amendment by the Client

General

10.1 Cancellation or amendment must be made as soon as possible via email or WhatsApp.

10.2 Cancellation or amendment is only valid after confirmation by the Service Provider.

Cancellation Costs Domestic Bookings

10.3 In the event of cancellation by the Client, the following cancellation costs apply: a) up to 24 hours before the start: free of charge (first time); 20% of the Booking Fee for repeated cancellation; b) between 24 and 4 hours before the start: 25% of the Booking Fee; c) between 4 hours before the start and the start: 50% of the Booking Fee; d) after the start or in the event of a no-show: 100% of the Booking Fee.

Cancellation Costs International Bookings within Europe

10.4 In the event of cancellation of an International Booking, the following cancellation costs apply: a) up to 48 hours before departure: free of charge; b) between 48 and 24 hours before departure: 20% of the Booking Fee; c) between 24 hours before departure and departure: 50% of the agreed amount; d) after departure of the Service Provider: 100% of the Booking Fee.

Costs Already Incurred

10.5 Costs that have already been incurred (such as flight tickets, visas, hotel reservations, admission prices and any other costs) or that must be incurred as a result of the cancellation are always charged to the Client, regardless of the time of cancellation.

10.6 External costs are not eligible for a refund.

Cancellation Costs Multi-Day Arrangements

10.7 For multi-day arrangements (including the three-day Amsterdam arrangement), in deviation from Articles 10.3 and 10.4, the following cancellation costs apply: a) longer than 2 weeks (14 days) before the start: free of charge; b) between 2 weeks and 1 week (7 days) before the start: 15% of the Booking Fee; c) shorter than 1 week (7 days) before the start: 35% of the Booking Fee.

10.8 For a multi-day arrangement, all costs within the arrangement are included from picking up the Client at the airport, train station or a hotel in the Netherlands, up to and including returning the Client to that same place. The Client’s travel costs to Amsterdam and back home fall outside the arrangement, are for the Client’s account and are not eligible for a refund.

Early Termination

10.9 In the event of early termination of the Booking by the Client, the full Booking Fee remains due. This does not affect the Client’s freedom at all times to pause or end the performance of the Services; the financial consequences of this are set out below.

Article 11. Guarantees

Best-Efforts Obligation

11.1 The Service Provider has a best-efforts obligation with regard to the Booking. The Service Provider makes every effort to perform the Services to the best of his ability.

11.2 If the Services do not meet the Client’s expectations, this does not give a right to cancellation or amendment, unless otherwise provided in these Terms and Conditions.

11.3 The Service Provider guarantees that the information on the Website gives a realistic picture of the Services offered.

Article 12. Rates and Prices

12.1 All rates are listed on the Website and are expressed in euros.

12.2 The rates as stated in the Confirmation apply exclusively to the Services in accordance with the agreed specifications.

12.3 Discounts only apply if agreed in writing in advance and confirmed in the Confirmation.

12.4 The Service Provider is entitled to increase the agreed price in the event of: a) an increase in cost-price factors; b) additional wishes of the Client that lead to extra work.

12.5 Additional costs for extra work or special requests are calculated at an hourly rate, plus a surcharge outside regular opening hours.

Article 13. Payments

Payment Term

13.1 All payments must be made prior to the Booking, or at the latest immediately at the start of the Booking, unless agreed otherwise in writing.

13.2 For New Clients and for International Bookings, a mandatory Deposit applies. For New Clients this is at least 30% of the Booking Fee; for International Bookings, Article 8.7 applies.

Payment Methods

13.3 The Service Provider accepts the following payment methods: a) cash payment in euros at the start of the Booking; b) bank transfer via the Service Provider’s coaching company, visible on the bank statement under the heading coaching; c) payment in Bitcoin, with which the Client can pay fully anonymously if desired.

13.4 For cash payment, notes of € 200 and € 500 are not accepted, unless unavoidable, in which case a surcharge of 10% (minimum € 100) is charged.

13.5 For payment in foreign currency (USD/GBP), the daily exchange rate applies plus bank and exchange costs and a service surcharge of 5%.

Refund

13.6 Amounts eligible for a refund are in principle credited to the client balance, with a validity period of 3 years.

13.7 A refund takes place within 10 working days after the original Booking date.

Default

13.8 In the event of late payment, the Client is in default without further notice of default.

13.9 On the outstanding amount, the Client owes interest for late payment of 3% per month.

13.10 All judicial and extrajudicial collection costs are for the Client’s account.

Article 14. Discretion and Confidentiality

Obligations of the Client

14.1 The Client is bound to absolute confidentiality with regard to the Service Provider and all aspects of the Services.

Obligations of the Service Provider

14.2 The Service Provider treats all Client information confidentially and will use it only for the performance of the Services.

14.3 Client information is never shared with third parties, unless: a) a legal provision obliges the Service Provider to do so; b) the Client has provided false identity details; c) the Client has acted in breach of these Terms and Conditions, in which case relevant information may be shared with industry organizations as a warning.

Article 15. Intellectual property

15.1 All intellectual property rights in the Website, its content, marketing and sales materials, trade names, logos, images and other intellectual creations of the Service Provider rest exclusively with the Service Provider.

15.2 The content of the Website is intended exclusively for private, personal and non-commercial use.

15.3 The Client is not permitted, without the prior written consent of the Service Provider, to: a) copy, download, reproduce, modify or distribute the content of the Website; b) duplicate or make public any images; c) exploit the working method or other intellectual creations of the Service Provider.

15.4 A breach of this article entitles the Service Provider to a penalty in accordance with Article 16.

Article 16. Penalty Clause

16.1 In the event of a breach of the provisions in these Terms and Conditions, the Client forfeits an immediately payable penalty, without prior notice of default being required.

16.2 The penalties are graduated as follows:

Category A (such as repeated breach of conduct rules):

• € 2,500 per violation;
• € 500 per day that the violation continues (maximum 30 days).

Category B (such as breach of confidentiality, intellectual property):

• € 10,000 per violation;
• € 1,000 per day that the violation continues (maximum 30 days).

Category C (such as serious violations, threats, intimidation):

• € 25,000 per violation;
• € 2,000 per day that the violation continues (maximum 30 days).

16.3 The penalty does not affect the Service Provider’s right to demand performance and/or additional compensation.

16.4 The penalty is not subject to mitigation, cannot be set off and is subject to statutory interest.

16.5 All judicial and extrajudicial collection costs are for the Client’s account.

Article 17. Liability

Limitation of Liability

17.1 The Service Provider is not liable for damage, unless there is intent or deliberate recklessness on the part of the Service Provider.

17.2 Any liability of the Service Provider is at all times limited to direct damage. The Service Provider is never liable for indirect or consequential damage, lost profit, missed savings, or reputational or immaterial damage.

17.3 The liability of the Service Provider is also limited to a maximum of 100% of the Booking Fee.

Exclusion of Liability

17.4 The Service Provider is not liable for: a) defects of any kind; b) disappointing experiences of the Client; c) deviations from the information provided on the Website; d) damage arising as a result of the Client acting in breach of these Terms and Conditions.

Indemnification

17.5 The Client indemnifies the Service Provider against all third-party claims related to damage suffered by the Client for which the Service Provider is not liable, and reimburses all costs the Service Provider must incur in that regard.

Website

17.6 The Website has been compiled with great care. The Service Provider is not liable for any inaccuracies, incompleteness or technical malfunctions.

Article 18. Force Majeure

18.1 In the event of force majeure on the part of the Service Provider, the obligations under the Booking are suspended for the duration of the force majeure situation.

18.2 The Service Provider proposes an alternative date or amendment. If performance is permanently impossible, both Parties are entitled to dissolve the Booking.

18.3 In the event of dissolution due to force majeure, the Client owes the Booking Fee in proportion to the Services already performed, plus travel costs, external costs and surcharges.

18.4 The Client cannot cancel a Booking free of charge on the grounds of force majeure on his side; the cancellation arrangement of Article 10 remains applicable.

Article 19. Applicable law and disputes

19.1 Dutch law applies exclusively to all Requests, Bookings and these Terms and Conditions.

19.2 Any disputes are submitted exclusively to the competent court in the district where the Service Provider is based.

19.3 Before submitting a dispute to the court, the Parties will consult to reach an amicable solution.

Article 20. Changes to the Privacy Policy

20.1 The Service Provider reserves the right to amend this Privacy Policy. Changes are published on the Website.

20.2 Continued use of the Website or Services after publication of changes constitutes acceptance of the amended Privacy Policy.

Article 21. Contact

For questions about these Terms and Conditions or the Privacy Policy, the Service Provider can be contacted via the contact details on the Website.

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