Excitement
Testing boundaries and feeling the tension build. From BDSM to a threesome, all discussed beforehand and safe.
Services
Gigolo services for women
From a warm evening together to something that lingers longer. I am here with full attention, and you decide how far we go.
What you hire a gigolo for
Hiring a gigolo feels pretty exciting to a lot of women. I get that. Still, it is simpler than you think. You choose what you need, and I am there. For a long evening together, or for something that runs much deeper than that. Discreet, without judgment, and always at your pace. Below you see what I can be there for. Still unsure? Message me on WhatsApp whenever you like, and I will think it through with you.
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Scenarios
Looking for more than an ordinary date? With a tailor-made scenario, you give your fantasy its own shape, exactly the way you picture it.
Closeness
Being close without any spectacle. Warmth and attention, entirely at your pace.
Companionship
Just enjoying being together. A coffee or a dinner, with no need for anything more.
New beginning
Starting over, or for the first time. At your ease, with someone who takes his time and never pushes.
Couples
Discovering something new together. As a couple, you make room for an experience that stays with you both.
Arrangements
More than a few hours. A day or a weekend together, taken care of from start to finish.
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BDSM
Exploring boundaries, bringing fantasies to life? 25 years of experience in BDSM, and safety always comes first. The excitement follows on its own. Everything is open to discussion.
Boyfriend experience
No role, no show. Someone who listens, makes time for you, and senses what you need. You decide how far it goes and how fast.
A night together
A whole night, no clock. No rush, just attention that stays with you. An atmospheric place, seduction that takes its time, and waking up together.
Maud
I'd say, woman, don't doubt, this man is safe, very safe and not like your standard gigolo. Give it to yourself. Boundaries are sensed and, more importantly, respected.Read Maud's full reviewShow less
My experience with Victor is honestly hard to put into words. I’d say, woman, don’t doubt, this man is safe, very safe and not like your standard gigolo. Give it to yourself. I went looking for Victor to close off a period in which I had completely lost myself because of a narcissist. For me, Victor is the addition to a piece of personal development. By then I was longing for genuine touch, feeling like a woman and intimacy without pain. The contact with Victor started very easily via the app. Long conversations about connection, wishes and boundaries. That already made it feel a little safer for me to meet. Our eventual date was indescribable. We had deliberately planned plenty of time so there was enough time to ‘land’. Victor is incredibly good at sensing you and putting you at ease with his soft accent, warm eyes and strong arms. Beautiful, deep conversations with a lot of humor and some teasing helped with this too, and slowly it became time for intimacy. In that too, Victor takes a lot of time to put you at ease. At one point I got a bit emotional, and Victor supported me so nicely in that, a little pause, rest, feeling. Everything is allowed to be there. Boundaries are sensed and, more importantly, respected. Not just plain hard sex but intimacy from connection, touch, caressing etc. From this safety I got to experience really beautiful (read: delicious) new things in bed. Experiences that make me feel like a woman again, feel sexy, feel naughty.
Nadine
My experience with Victor was fantastic! I was incredibly nervous the first time, and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on that and gave me the space and time to settle in calmly.Read Nadine's full reviewShow less
My experience with Victor was fantastic! After years of doubting whether or not I would do anything, I decided to take the leap, but as controlled as possible. And that’s how I eventually ended up with Victor. I was incredibly nervous the first time, and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on that and gave me the space and time to settle in calmly. After that he took control, but in such a lovely way that I only wanted more of it. Our first play was intense and enriching for me. Finally someone with whom this part of myself is allowed to exist and with whom I can explore this part further. By now we’ve played a few more times, and every time he manages to surprise me and discovers new territory. And I’m looking forward to a next meeting!
Jill
With respect you let me find my own boundaries. You also respected my hard limits without any problem. For me it was a new adventure that I enjoyed and I'm glad I got to discover it.Read Jill's full reviewShow less
I really liked how you took the time to settle in, you could also sense really well when I was stressed and such, especially at the beginning. It was also really nice that you took a break or some time now and then to check in on how things were going.
With respect you let me find my own boundaries.
You also respected my hard limits without any problem.
For me it was a new adventure that I enjoyed and I’m glad I got to discover it.
What do you do, and are there things you won't do?
Almost everything is open to discussion, and yes, there are things I won’t do. From company, conversation, and touch to massage, sex, BDSM, and everything in between.
We agree beforehand on what will and won’t happen, and that holds for the whole date. Whatever you don’t want doesn’t happen, not even if you change your mind halfway through. You’re allowed to, and you don’t owe me an explanation.
Ask me, and you’ll hear right away what I don’t do. No judgment about you, it’s just not my side of things. I’d rather point you elsewhere than say yes to something I don’t stand behind.
Do you kiss too?
Yes. As far as I’m concerned, kissing is simply part of it, and for a lot of women it’s the very thing they’ve missed the longest.
At agencies, kissing is often ruled out because it’s supposedly too personal. That’s a strange line to draw: everything is allowed, except the most ordinary thing of all. With me it isn’t some exception you have to ask for, and there’s no surcharge on it.
If you’d rather not, that’s just as good. Some women deliberately keep kissing separate because for them it belongs with something else. Just say so, and it goes into the agreements like everything else.
What are your specialties?
Attention that doesn’t wander, and anything that needs a bit more guidance.
In concrete terms: first times and a fresh start after a long stretch without intimacy, BDSM with a traffic-light system and aftercare, tantra, couples who want to try something new together, and women who are ready again after a divorce or a loss.
What those have in common is that they take time, and that something can go wrong if you push ahead too fast. That’s where my background as a psychotherapist comes in. Less in what I do, more in knowing when not to. Anything not listed here you can always ask about, and the answer is simply yes or no.
How do I find a gigolo who fits my specific wishes?
By writing your wishes down beforehand and testing them in a conversation. Writing them down is half the work. That’s when you notice for yourself what you’re actually after.
Then ask concrete questions: do you do this, do you not do that, and how do you handle someone doing this for the first time. A good answer is specific. A vague “anything is possible” is not. That usually means no one has thought it through, or that the answer is yes no matter the question.
And pay attention to what he asks back. Someone who digs into your boundaries instead of your wish list knows what he’s doing.