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Good to have you here. Send me a message and we get to know each other first. No strings, and at your own pace.
Contact Gigolo Victor
Two ways to reach me, Victor. A message on WhatsApp, or the contact form a little further down this page. I usually read and answer your message within a few hours, and I do that myself, not some agency. I work with women and couples across the country, and for a date I travel to you. Discreet. That goes without saying.
Feel like sending a message?
A quick message takes no time, and it commits you to nothing. I’m genuinely curious who you are and what you’re looking for. Tell me as much or as little as you like, and we’ll take our time to feel whether there’s a click. No script, no rush.
Rather write something out first? Use the form below. And if you want to look around before you send anything: my services are here, the reviews are there, and I’ve already answered most of the questions.
Let's get to know each other
Rather put a face to the name first?
A message is sent in seconds. Still, I understand better than anyone that this first step feels nerve-racking, because most women who write to me hesitate for a day or two before they hit send. So I keep it small. We start with an easy chat, nothing you’re tied to. No pressure. Just feeling whether it clicks.
Tell me as much or as little as you want to share. I’m curious who you are and what you long for, and I’m glad to think it through with you.
Rather write it out?
Send your message through the form
Fill in whatever you want to share, no rush. I read it myself and reply personally. Discreet, and with no obligation at all.
Does first contact go through email, WhatsApp, or phone?
All three, and you choose. Email is the most anonymous and gives you time to find your words. WhatsApp is quicker, and you can use a second number for it. A phone call often says the most, because you hear right away who you’re dealing with. I usually answer within a few hours.
How do I book without Snapchat or Instagram? Can I just use email?
Yes, by email or through the contact form, and for many women that’s the safest route of all. You don’t have to create an account, nothing sits in an app your partner also uses, and you can use an email address that serves no other purpose.
Do you also speak English, German, or French?
Besides Dutch, I speak fluent English and German, enough to carry a whole date in that language. I don’t speak French, so for that we’ll stick to one of the other three. Reach out in whatever language feels most comfortable to you.
How quickly do I get an answer?
Usually within a few hours. With someone who works alone there’s no customer service line. There’s one phone, and I answer it myself. That’s normally faster than an agency, because no one sits in between who first has to check in or call you back.
Where can I turn if something goes wrong?
Right away and free of charge: the Centrum Seksueel Geweld (the Dutch Sexual Assault Center) on 0800-0188, reachable day and night, also for cases you’re unsure about and even years later. For police when there’s no immediate danger: 0900-8844. If you suspect coercion or exploitation, there’s Meld Misdaad Anoniem (Report Crime Anonymously) on 0800-7000. Not sure whether it’s “bad enough” to call? That’s exactly what those numbers are for.
Ready to get to know each other?
Just send me a message.
No strings and discreet. The first step is the scariest, after that it gets easy on its own.