Clear rates, no surprises
How much does a gigolo cost?
No fine print, no agency in between. Here you read exactly what you pay with me.
A gigolo in the Netherlands costs €100 to €500 an hour. With me it’s €250, with a two-hour minimum, so €500 for a first date. No agency in between, and no couple surcharge. The rate doesn’t change for a weekend or the middle of the night either. You pay for my time, and you know the full amount before you say yes.
What’s included in the rate?
- Always direct contact with me
- The contact beforehand: texting, calling, and a talk about your wishes and your limits
- The preparation, so I know what you need before I walk in
- The meeting itself, from arrival to goodbye
- Aftercare, including the days afterward if you need it
- No surcharge when there are two of you, and no surcharge for a Saturday night or three in the morning
- One clear rate, set out up front, no more surprises
What’s not included?
- Travel costs when I come to you, depending on your province. The table is further down
- Parking, if there is any
- Meals, hotel, tickets and that kind of thing during the date
What does this mean for you?
You don’t have to guess. Every amount is written out below, with the travel costs per province, and you can read what women say about that price afterward on Reviews. Not sure which package suits you? Further down you’ll find my honest advice per arrangement, including when I think you’d be better off choosing something else.
And if you just want to talk through what fits your budget: that’s fine, it costs you nothing, and you’re not committing to anything. Send me a message on WhatsApp.
Rates per package
Rates
My hourly rate is € 250. Book more hours back to back and you pay less per hour. The amounts don't include travel costs or meals.
Basic
500- 2 hours to enjoy
- A real connection
- Best choice
Extended
950- 4-5 hours to enjoy
- A real connection
- Good conversation
- An unhurried build-up
Overnight
2,500- 14-15 hours to enjoy, from evening to morning
- A real connection and good conversation
- A longer build-up and plenty of teasing
- Dinner together
- Play through the night
- Falling asleep entwined and waking up together
Full day
3,400- 23-24 hours together, from morning to morning
- Everything in Overnight, plus
- Breakfast and lunch together
- Out together during the day
- A romantic dinner
- Intimate pleasure and more depth
- The most time together, the fullest build-up
Which package suits you?
“Victor, what should I go for?” That’s the question I get most. Which makes sense. It’s new, you don’t know exactly what to expect, and you want to get it right. For yourself.
Below is my honest advice per package. Including the moments where I think you’d be better off with something else, even when that earns me less.
Basic, two hours
What it is. Arriving, getting to know each other, the meeting itself, saying goodbye.
Who it’s for. Women and couples who just want to try it once, without committing to a whole evening right away.
Honestly. Two hours sounds long. Do the math with me: you come in, you’re nervous, we have a drink, you relax a little, we start, you’ve just hit your stride, and then it’s already time to wind down. If you relax quickly by nature and don’t need much of a run-up, Basic can work fine. But if it’s exactly that tension and that waiting that turn you on, if you fantasize about building up slowly, then two hours is simply too short.
My advice. Take Basic for a first meeting without sex. Or if you book as a couple and your partner takes the aftercare at home, because then you won’t need that landing time with me. Want everything, with enough time to savor it afterward? Then choose Extended.
Extended, four to five hours
What it is. Half a day. Room to arrive, relax, build up, and then land gently afterward.
Who it’s for. Women who know that good things take time.
Why this is often the right choice. Four hours means no rush. We can start with a glass of wine and a conversation that doesn’t need to go anywhere. Let the tension build. Give your body the time to get used to touch, and to discover what works.
And afterward, just as important, the time to land. Not straight out the door. A moment to savor it. To come back into your body before you step into the outside world. That’s the difference between having sex and living through something.
My advice. If tension, BDSM or a slow build appeal to you, then Extended is your minimum. In two hours you can’t build up, do everything in between, and still land. It just doesn’t fit.
Overnight, fourteen to fifteen hours
What it is. An evening and a night. Dinner together, the meeting, sleeping side by side, waking up together.
Who it’s for. Women who want the complete experience. No clock, no rush.
Honestly. This is where something shifts. It’s not that more happens, there’s more room. Room to get past your nerves. To stop performing.
There’s something in eating together while you both know the night is still ahead. In that “later” while you talk about nothing in particular. In waking up next to someone, morning light on bare skin.
My advice. Do you know you have trouble letting go, or are you someone who likes to keep control by nature? Then an overnight gives your body the time it needs to trust. And that quiet morning after is, for many women, the best part.
Full day, twenty-three to twenty-four hours
What it is. From morning to morning. Breakfast, lunch, out together, dinner, the night, waking up.
Who it’s for. Women who want the most there is, and who understand that it takes time.
What it comes down to. A full day isn’t a service, it’s a journey. We have breakfast, maybe we walk, we have lunch somewhere lovely. The tension builds all day. You get to know me, not as a professional but as a person. I get to know you as a woman, not as a client.
And when evening falls, there’s no beginning anymore. It’s already there. The intimacy we’ve built up all day takes on a physical form, on its own, with no transition.
Want an experience that stays with you for months? This is the one. Some things simply don’t fit into less time.
In short
| You want | Then take |
|---|---|
| To get acquainted, without sex | Basic |
| A first time with physical intimacy | Extended |
| Build-up, tension, BDSM | Extended or longer |
| To eat, sleep and wake up together | Overnight |
| All the time in the world | Full day |
| Several days away | A multi-day package |
Still not sure? Just message me. I’ll think it through with you, and I won’t push you toward the priciest package when a shorter date suits you better.
Multi-day packages
Exclusive and very limited availability
You need to request these well in advance. The prices shown don't include travel costs or meals.
Weekend
7,500Excl. meals · request well in advance
- Three days together, Fri 10:00 to Sun 19:00
1 week
20,000Excl. meals · request well in advance
- A full week together
All-inclusive package
On request
- Hotel, dinner and travel included
- One price up front, nothing added later
- Nothing for you to book, I arrange everything
Travel costs
I live in North Holland. If I come to you, travel costs are added to the rate, and they depend on the province you’re in:
| Province | Travel costs |
|---|---|
| North Holland | € 75 |
| Utrecht, South Holland | € 150 |
| Flevoland, Friesland, Gelderland, North Brabant, Zeeland | € 225 |
| Drenthe, Groningen, Overijssel | € 300 |
| Limburg | € 375 |
| Abroad | On request |
Parking I charge separately, if there is any.
Couples
If a couple books me, nothing changes about the price. Agencies often slip a surcharge in for that. Not me. The same rate, whether you come alone or as a pair.
Regular dates
By the fourth time we see each other, gentler rules apply. Nothing changes about the price, no discount comes off.
- We never start from zero again. Your boundaries are set, I know what worked last time and what you didn’t quite get to. Saves you an hour of explaining every time.
- We build something. If you want to head somewhere, toward deeper wishes or fantasies, or maybe boundaries you want to explore, then between two dates I think about the next step. Sometimes I prepare something. You’ll hear about it there and then.
- In between, we stay in touch. The aftercare carries on, even in the weeks or months when we don’t see each other. The messages in between that don’t have to be about anything, just for the fun of it, are part of that. Or together we build the tension a little further toward the next time.
All-inclusive packages
Want more than a few hours? A weekend away, a few days together, or a trip abroad, then you book a package. It’s all in there: hotel, dinner, travel and the time together. One price, agreed up front, with nothing added afterward.
You don’t have to chase anything yourself. I arrange the room, book the table and make sure it’s right, from the moment I pick you up until you’re home again. You don’t have to think about a thing or book anything yourself. Just come.
What’s possible and what each package includes is on the packages page. The price depends on the destination, because flights, hotel and travel time vary. Just ask, and I’ll work it out for you and show you that one amount with everything in it.
Paying
You pay at the start of the date, when we see each other. Cash in euros, by bank transfer through my coaching company (your statement only says “coaching”), or in Bitcoin if you want to pay completely anonymously.
When you send a request, you don’t pay anything yet. First we message, then we talk through what you want, and only after that do you lock anything in.
Canceling
Something can come up? Up to 24 hours ahead you can cancel free of charge. After that, tiered fees apply, and separate rules for multi-day and overseas bookings. It’s all in black and white in the terms and conditions.
Have a question about the price, or just want to talk through what suits you? Send me a message on WhatsApp. I’ll reply to you personally, calmly and with no obligation.
How much does a gigolo cost?
A gigolo in the Netherlands costs roughly €100 to €500 an hour: €100 to €150 with budget providers, €200 to €300 mid-range, €300 to €500 premium. Book through an agency and a brokerage fee comes on top. With me it’s €250 an hour, minimum two hours. So €500 for a first date.
It feels like a lot of money to me. Is it worth it?
That’s not something I can decide for you, and I’m not going to talk you into it. What I can tell you: almost every woman who books me spent weeks doubting first. Not about whether she wanted it, but about the amount. What you get isn’t an hour of sex. It’s my full attention, preparation, a talk about your limits, and aftercare afterward. Not sure? Then start by texting. It costs nothing and commits you to nothing.
Why is a longer package cheaper per hour?
Because the run-up only happens once. The contact beforehand, the preparation, the trip there and back: that costs the same for two hours as it does for a whole day. Book more hours in a row and I spread those fixed costs over more time, so the price per hour drops. For a full day you pay around €140 an hour instead of €250.
Are travel costs added to the rate?
Yes, if I come to you. The amount depends on your province: North Holland €75, Utrecht and South Holland €150, Flevoland, Friesland, Gelderland, North Brabant and Zeeland €225, Drenthe, Groningen and Overijssel €300, Limburg €375. Abroad on request. Parking I charge separately if there is any. So you know the exact amount before you say yes. No surprises about the cost during or afterward.
Do I pay more as a couple? Is there a couple surcharge?
No. You pay for the time, not per person, so a meeting for two costs exactly the same as on your own. Plenty of agencies do charge a couple extra, and they rarely put that up front. With me nothing changes about the price, and there’s no second intake call or extra appointment either.
Are there surcharges for weekends, nights or holidays?
No. The rate is the rate, on a Saturday night, on New Year’s Eve or at three in the morning. There’s no surcharge for booking as a couple either. The only thing that gets added is the travel cost, and parking if there is any.
How and when do I pay?
At the start of the date, when we see each other. You can pay cash in euros, transfer through my coaching company (your bank statement only says “coaching”), or in Bitcoin if you want to stay completely anonymous. When you first make a request, you pay nothing yet.
Does the payment show up discreetly on my statement?
Yes. If you pay by bank, it goes through my coaching company and your statement says “coaching”. If you want no trace at all, pay cash or in Bitcoin. I don’t ask you to share your payment details and I don’t keep them.
Is a deposit required to reserve?
To reserve, you don’t have to transfer anything in advance. You pay at the start of the date, when we see each other. When you book, you pay nothing yet.
What if I have to cancel?
Up to 24 hours before the date, the first cancellation is free. Inside that window, I charge part of the amount, rising as it gets closer to the date. For multi-day arrangements and bookings abroad, separate terms apply, because tickets and hotels have already been booked by then. The full arrangement is in the terms and conditions.
Can I book for less than two hours?
No. Two hours is the minimum, and even that is short. You arrive, you’re nervous, you relax, and then you come back down again. In less time it turns rushed, and that helps no one. Want to get to know me first without a whole date? Just call or text, it costs you nothing.
Is it possible on a limited budget?
Partly. Two hours for €500 is the minimum and I don’t go below it. We can keep it to that minimum, though, or pick a moment where you’re not paying travel costs across four provinces. Be careful with strikingly cheap providers: under €100 an hour, the risk of a scam or an unsafe date is real.
In her own words
She wasn't sure about the amount either
Esther
Honestly? I spent weeks doubting before I messaged him. Not because I didn’t want to. The price is simply steep, and I found it terrifying to spend so much on something I didn’t even know would suit me. Looking back, I do understand that amount. This really isn’t a standard little date.
Honestly though: the first time I didn’t really get there. Was too much in my head. It was me, mind you, not him. What won me over was precisely that Victor made no big deal of it at all. No pressure. Not a sigh of disappointment. The second time everything fell into place and only then did I feel what it’s really about.
Looking to score quickly? Then I don’t think this is for you. Take your time, and you get a lot back for it.
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Do you work with packages or only by the hour?
A bit of both, really. The hourly rate is €250, but the fixed durations are cheaper: €500 for two hours, €950 for half a day, €2,500 for an evening and night, €3,400 for a full day. You don’t have to fit into a package; if you want seven hours, I charge by the length of the stay.
Do I pay extra for specific wishes like BDSM, tantra or defloration?
No. What we do doesn’t change the price; only how long we do it. A BDSM date, a tantra massage or a first time falls within the normal rate. Something only gets added when someone gets added: a second person for a threesome brings its own costs. We talk that through beforehand, with amounts.
Can I give a date as a gift or buy a voucher?
Yes. A voucher I arrange just as discreetly as an ordinary booking: nothing gives away what it is or who it’s from, and the recipient decides for herself whether and when she uses it. There’s no expiry date on it. Handy for someone who buys it for herself but doesn’t know the moment yet.
Can I give a tip or a present?
You can, it’s never expected, but always really appreciated. The rate is complete, so there’s no need. If you’d like to bring something anyway, something you think suits me. Think of an exciting scent, good chocolate, and whatever little gift you pick, it’s always hugely appreciated.
It feels strange to pay for this, is that odd?
No, that’s not odd, plenty of women feel that way at first. But the shame sits in the paying, not in what you want. You’re not paying me for affection, you’re paying for my time, my attention and the fact that I know what I’m doing. You pay a good physical therapist for that too, for the same kind of hours of skin on skin, and no one blinks at it. The only difference here is that it’s about intimacy. That makes it loaded, but not unjustified. And what happens in that hour is no less real because there’s a rate underneath it. If this keeps nagging at you, I wrote about it more honestly on Still not sure?.