Gigolo in Drenthe

The quietest province

Drenthe is thinly populated, green and calm. The Dwingelderveld, the Drents-Friese Wold, the megalithic tombs, the esdorp villages with their greens. Within ten minutes you’re in a place where you meet no one. For anyone who wants to get away from their own life for a while, that’s exactly right.

From Amsterdam it’s two to two and a half hours, depending on where you are. That’s too far for a short evening, and excellent for something longer. So here I’d rather plan a long evening or an overnight stay, and in practice that works out better for everyone.

The places I come to

Emmen is the largest municipality and has its own page, which you’ll find below. Beyond that I come to Assen, Meppel, Hoogeveen, Coevorden, Roden and the many villages between them. For those places I haven’t written a separate page, because I’d rather write one good story than the same thing ten times with a different place name. Wherever you are in this province, just say so and I’ll tell you whether it works.

What we can do together

Walking across the Dwingelderveld, the largest wet heathland in Western Europe, where on a weekday you’re almost alone. The Drents-Friese Wold. The megalithic tombs near Borger or Exloo. The Drents Museum in Assen when it rains. Or a bike ride along the sand tracks, which are endless here.

An hour’s walk does more for your nerves than an hour across a little table from each other. You walk side by side, silences fall that aren’t awkward, and talking comes more easily on its own.

And as ever: it doesn’t have to. If you’d rather sit somewhere quiet straight away, that’s just as good a beginning.

Discretion in the villages

This is where it really matters. In a Drenthe village people notice who has visitors, which car doesn’t belong, and who got home late last night. It isn’t meant unkindly, but it’s there.

So here I do it with extra care. If it works out better, I leave the car a few streets along and come on foot. No flowers, no loud greeting on the doorstep, no ringing again if you don’t open right away. And if anyone asks who I am, I stick exactly to the story you came up with. Feel free to think that up beforehand, so you don’t have to improvise at a moment when you’d rather not.

That is why a lot of women choose a hotel or a holiday rental over home, sometimes a municipality further along. A sensible choice, and I’m glad to think through where.

Who I come to Drenthe for

For women who are married and haven’t been touched the way they’d want for years, without a row or anyone being at fault. For women who stayed in the village after a divorce, with all the talk that brings. For widows who feel guilty for wanting something again. You don’t have to, and you’re far from the only one. For women who have lived their whole lives in a small community where this isn’t spoken about.

And for couples who want to try something together, where one watches, joins in or is simply nearby. What’s possible is set out under my services, from simply being together and touch to an erotic overnight where the quiet of this province actually works in your favour.

How it goes

It starts with a message: where you are, roughly what you’re looking for, and which period you have in mind. Two lines will do. There’s no right or wrong answer and you don’t have to make anything sound better than it is.

I rarely leave you waiting longer than a day. After that we talk on until it’s right for you: by app, by phone, or first a calm meeting with nothing having to come of it.

If we plan something, you know beforehand exactly what happens and what it costs, travel included. Nothing is added on afterward. No surcharges for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs no extra.

What you can expect from me

I’m on time and well turned out. Listening without pushing you anywhere is the largest part of my work. Nothing throws me, whatever you tell or ask. You set the speed, even when it turns out different halfway. Your name reaches no one, not now and not later.

This is how it starts

A message with your town and a suitable day is enough. That’s all I need to begin.