Gigolo in Zeeland

A province for longer dates

Zeeland sits two to two and a half hours from Amsterdam. That’s too far for a short evening, and just right for something longer: an afternoon that runs into a night, or a few days by the sea. A lot of women deliberately choose that form here, because the distance from their ordinary life is freeing on its own.

Plan a few weeks ahead if you can. Then I have room in my schedule, arrive rested and nothing has to be rushed.

The places I come to

Middelburg with its abbey and the narrow streets around it. Vlissingen at the river mouth, where the seagoing ships pass so close you can hear them. Goes, Terneuzen, Zierikzee. And the coast: Domburg, Renesse, Cadzand, Westkapelle.

For those places there’s no separate page, but I come there. Just tell me where you are.

What we can do together

The beach, especially out of season. A winter walk at Domburg or Westkapelle, with wind that drowns out everything and warming up somewhere afterward. For a lot of women that’s exactly the right warm-up, because you walk side by side instead of sitting across from each other.

The Oosterschelde and the Delta Works, more impressive than a photo ever shows. The Zeeland inner dunes. The harbour of Zierikzee. And the food here can be excellent, with fish landed the same day.

Or we skip all of it. A cottage on the coast, the curtains drawn, and the world kept waiting for a while is perhaps the best variant Zeeland has to offer. Certainly for something that needs time, like an erotic overnight or intimate togetherness with no clock.

Discretion in small communities

Zeeland is mostly small villages where everyone knows everyone. In the low season an unfamiliar car stands out at once; in summer you disappear among the tourists instead. That difference is big and it pays to keep it in mind when choosing your moment.

I do it carefully here. I park where you want, even if that’s a good way off. No flowers, no loud greeting on the doorstep, no car that drives past twice first. If anyone asks who I am, I stick exactly to the story you came up with.

For a lot of women a holiday cottage or hotel on the coast is more comfortable than home. That’s a sensible choice and I’m glad to think along.

Who I come to Zeeland for

For women who are married and have missed for years what they don’t say out loud. For women who stayed in the village after a divorce, with all the talk that brings. For widows with a sense of guilt about their own longing. You don’t have to, and you’re far from the only one. For women who have lived a lifetime in a community where this isn’t spoken about.

And for couples who want to try something together, where one watches, joins in or is simply nearby. What’s possible is set out under my services.

How it goes

You send me a message with where you are, roughly what you’re looking for, and which period you have in mind. Two sentences are enough; there’s no wrong answer.

You usually hear something the same day. After that we talk on until it’s right for you: by app, by phone, or first a calm meeting with nothing having to come of it.

Before we set a date you know the plan and the total, travel costs included. After that no bill follows. No surcharges for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs no extra.

What you can expect from me

On time and well turned out, that’s the least of it. The largest part of this work is listening, without steering. Nothing throws me. You set the pace, even when it changes along the way. Your story goes nowhere, not now and not after.

What a stay like this looks like

Usually it begins with an afternoon. Arriving, setting the bags down, taking a beach walk and only then eating. That order works better than sitting down at the table straight away, because walking gets the nerves out of your legs and talking comes more easily when you walk side by side.

In the evening there’s no programme. Sometimes it goes quiet early, sometimes we’re still talking at two in the morning. And the next morning is perhaps the finest part: breakfast without hurry, one more walk outside, and leaving only when it’s really time.

What happens in between you decide yourself, moment by moment, even if you said something yesterday and want something else today.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are and which period you’d want. For Zeeland I’m glad to help think about the place. With a longer date that makes a lot of difference.