Gigolo in Friesland

Far enough to really be away

Friesland sits about two hours from Amsterdam. That is too far for a quick evening, and just right for something that gets to take its time. For a lot of women that distance is the whole point. Here you are far from your own life, far from the people who know you, and that gives you room you don’t have closer to home.

Plan a few weeks ahead if you can. Then I arrive rested and nothing has to be rushed at the end of the evening.

The places I come to

Leeuwarden, Sneek, Drachten, Heerenveen, Harlingen, Franeker, Dokkum and the villages in between. The Wadden Islands too: Terschelling, Vlieland, Ameland, Schiermonnikoog. Those ask for an overnight stay, since the boat there and back in one day is a waste of the hours.

Leeuwarden and Súdwest-Fryslân have their own page, which you’ll find below. For Drachten, Heerenveen, Harlingen, Franeker and Dokkum I haven’t written one. That doesn’t mean I don’t come there. Just tell me where you are.

What we can do together

The Frisian lakes, where the water calms everything. Sailing near Sneek or Grou, if you have the chance. The Wadden dike at Harlingen, with a view over the mudflats at low tide. The Alde Feanen national park. And in Leeuwarden: the Fries Museum, the Oldehove that leans, and enough places to eat without it turning into an occasion.

If you really want to get away, an island is a lovely option. A night on Terschelling or Ameland, with beach, dunes and nobody who knows you.

Or we do none of that and simply start indoors, with tea and a conversation that only gets somewhere after half an hour. That is just as good a beginning.

Discretion in the villages

Friesland is thinly populated and the communities are close-knit. In a village people notice who comes and goes, who has visitors, and which car doesn’t belong. I keep that in mind, always.

I park where you want me to, even if that means the sports hall or the edge of the village and I walk the last stretch. No flowers, no loud greeting on the doorstep, no ringing again if you don’t open right away. And if anyone asks who I am, I stick exactly to the story you came up with. Feel free to think that up beforehand, so you don’t have to invent something on the spot.

That is why a lot of women choose a hotel or a rental over home, sometimes a municipality further along. Sensible, and I’m glad to think it through with you.

Who I come to Friesland for

For women who are married and haven’t been touched the way they’d want for years. For women who stayed in the same village after a divorce, with everything that means. For widows, in whom the loss and the wanting sit side by side. For women who have lived their whole lives in a community where this can’t be discussed with anyone.

Just as much for couples with a shared curiosity. What’s possible is set out under my services, from simply being together and touch to an erotic overnight where the distance actually works in your favour.

How it goes

It starts with a message: where you are, roughly what you’re looking for, and which period you have in mind. It doesn’t need to be more than two sentences. You don’t have to write a nice story and there is no wrong answer.

You’ll hear from me within a day. After that we talk on until it’s right for you: by app, by phone, or first a calm meeting with nothing having to come of it.

What’s going to happen and what it costs, travel included, is clear beforehand. That figure doesn’t change afterward. No surcharges for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs no extra.

What you can expect from me

I’m on time. I listen without pushing you anywhere, and nothing throws me, whatever you tell or ask. The pace follows you, not the other way around. No one hears about you from me, not today and not a year from now.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are and when you’d want. Still hesitating? Then read the frequently asked questions first.