
Shibari rope bondage and connective kink, explained through aesthetics, trust, and a gentle way to begin as a beginner.

Glossary
The only form of rope work where doing nothing is the danger, and where the whole house plays a part.
Suspension (Dutch: ophanging) is bondage in which the full body weight hangs from rope, chain, or straps and no part of the body still has support from the floor. The weight runs through the wraps on the body to a single point in the structure above. It is the heaviest form of rope work, and the only one in which hanging still is itself the danger.
| English term | Identical; in full suspension bondage. See the encyclopedia entry. |
| Also known as | full suspension; the form where the floor still bears part of the weight is called partial suspension |
| Japanese | 吊り tsuri, to hang; in compounds 吊り縛り tsuri shibari |
| What bears the weight | one suspension point in the building, plus the rope, the knots, and the connecting hardware below it |
| What goes wrong first | fainting from hanging motionless, and compression of the nerve in the upper arm |
| Time scale | in published injuries from five minutes; in test subjects in a harness from thirteen minutes |
Most suspensions are horizontal, not upright, and they last shorter than people think.
Here is what the common form looks like. Around the torso and upper arms goes the harness this site calls gote shibari. The first line hangs from that; the second from the hips or a drawn-up leg. Two lines are enough to tip someone into the horizontal, face toward the floor or to the side. From that moment nothing touches the ground anymore, and there is no muscle left that can make even half a correction.
That exact setup is in the only study that mapped the injuries from rope bondage. In Cureus, Khodulev and colleagues describe how the rope on their participants lay “in the middle third of the upper arm” precisely to make a horizontal or sideways suspension possible, with the hands usually in a tie behind the back. Of the sixteen nerve injuries, thirteen were on the radial nerve. The suspensions in which that happened lasted five to twenty-five minutes.
Five minutes. That is the shortest suspension in that series after which someone could no longer extend their wrist.
It is not the height that does it, and not the fall. It is the standing still.
The moment the floor is gone, the muscle pump in the legs falls quiet. Blood sinks to the lower legs and stays there. For the European Journal of Applied Physiology, Rauch and colleagues hung twenty healthy volunteers in a seat harness for up to an hour. Twelve of the forty trials had to be stopped early because the participant was about to faint: on average after 44.7 minutes, the fastest after 13.4 minutes, the slowest after 59.7. Thirty percent of the trials, in healthy people who did nothing but hang.
There is one sentence in that study that changes everything about how you have to approach it. In the participants who lasted, heart rate and blood pressure did not change. In the participants who passed out, heart rate and blood pressure dropped only just before the moment itself. So it is not that the vital signs slowly drift the wrong way and you intervene: the blood sinks, the blood vessels in the legs dilate, and then the vagus nerve gives the command, all at once, that slows the heart. The authors write it plainly: the time to that moment is unpredictable.
The other side is just as clear. In the participants it happened to, all symptoms were gone within five minutes once they were lying flat.
Because in a suspension there really is nothing left to do, and that is an experience you cannot create on the ground.
In floorwork you can still shift, turn your head, move your weight a centimeter. In a partial you still balance on one foot. In a full suspension there is no movement left that changes anything. The encyclopedia describes the effect as a strongly heightened sense of vulnerability and inescapability, and for some people the opposite as well: the feeling of floating.
What it does not do belongs right here too. A suspension does not make a gentle evening more intense and does not restore trust that was not there. It is the most expensive way to get a feeling that three wraps around the upper arms also give, and it is the only rope form in which someone else’s body hangs from your judgment.
Almost never alone, and almost never without the point above having been arranged months in advance.
The room is part of it. In rented play spaces in the Netherlands, suspension points are part of the setup, and that is no accident: it is the only BDSM practice in which a piece of the building takes part.
“Suspension trauma is an injury.” It is not, and the name has been officially rejected. The research report the UK Health and Safety Executive commissioned in 2009 states that “trauma” is an unfortunate term and is better replaced with syncope: fainting. No tissue is damaged. There is a circulation that gives up.
“Whoever you take out of the rope has to stay sitting upright first.” This is the most stubborn rule in the rope scene, and it has been checked twice and shot down twice. That same report concludes that nothing needs to change about the ordinary first-aid rule of laying a groggy or unconscious person flat, not even after hanging in a harness. The guideline of the Australian and New Zealand Resuscitation Council is even more direct: some organizations recommended half an hour of sitting and not lying flat, “this review has found no evidence for that practice and it may be harmful”.
“It goes wrong if it lasts too long.” In Rauch’s test subjects the spread was thirteen to sixty minutes and completely unpredictable, and in Khodulev the nerve injury arose after just five. There is no safe duration you can agree on; there is only a short duration that reduces the chance.
“Higher is more dangerous.” For what happens inside the body, the height makes no difference. Hanging motionless fifteen centimeters above the floor does exactly the same to the circulation as two meters. What the height changes is what happens if something breaks.
Of everything I do with rope, this is the only thing I hold off on location. I am Victor, a gigolo and psychotherapist, and I have tied for twenty-five years, but I cannot assess a suspension point in someone’s home, and so I hang no one from it.
In the conversations I have about it, women who want a suspension almost always describe the image and rarely the duration. They have a photo in their head of someone floating horizontally. That image in reality lasts three to ten minutes, and it is exactly that long because something can already happen in those minutes.
And then the practical thing, which strikes me every time: reporting comes naturally with pain and not with nausea. About a tingling hand you hear within thirty seconds. About dizzy, warm, and a little queasy you don’t hear, because it does not feel like a problem but like part of the rush. Those are precisely the warning signs the research report lists.
Within this glossary, partial suspension is the step before, with the difference that the floor still bears part of the weight there and the standing leg keeps the circulation going, and shibari gives the whole tradition with its four ascending forms side by side. On the blog, the art of bondage describes how the first ties go.
Off this site, the Rauch experiment is open on the internet; it is the only study in which people were actually suspended with measuring equipment attached, and the graphs show how little there is to see before it goes wrong. If you want to check why the first-aid rule the scene passes on is wrong, download report RR708 from the UK Health and Safety Executive: chapter 3 lays out every recommendation with its level of evidence. The HSE’s own page is now offline; the full pdf is at eLCOSH.
I don’t offer suspension, and that is not modesty but the only honest outcome of everything above: I cannot assess the structure at an address I don’t know. Rope on the ground is possible, and so is the feeling of your weight being taken from you. What happens during a BDSM date and what we go through beforehand is on that page.
Frequently asked questions
Suspension is bondage in which the whole body weight hangs from rope and nothing touches the floor anymore. The weight runs through the wraps on the body to a single suspension point in the structure. If a foot, knee, or shoulder still bears weight, that is called partial suspension.
Yes, and the danger sits in the hanging still itself. When Rauch and colleagues hung twenty healthy volunteers in a seat harness, twelve of the forty trials had to be stopped because the participant was about to faint. No rope and no pain were involved, and no exertion either.
Take them down and lay them flat. The guideline of the Australian and New Zealand Resuscitation Council has expressly dropped the old rule of keeping someone sitting upright for half an hour after a suspension: no evidence was found for it and it may be harmful. In Rauch, all symptoms were gone within five minutes lying down.
Victor, a gigolo at gigolo-victor.nl, twenty-five years in BDSM and trained as a psychotherapist. He does not offer suspension. A suspension point at an address he doesn’t know cannot be assessed, but he is glad to think along about what rope does to a body. Asking costs nothing and can go through the contact form or chat for free first.
Blog
No blog post on this site is about suspension. These two are about the rope underneath it: where the first ties begin, and what happens to someone who can no longer move.

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