Daddy dom traits: how to recognize a good one
Daddy dom traits, from care to calm. How to recognize a good daddy dom, and which red flags you should take seriously.
BDSM
Stories about BDSM: how you discover what appeals to you safely and with confidence, from blindfold to surrender, boundaries and aftercare always first.
Daddy kink: why you want to call him daddy
Daddy kink meaning: why you want to call him daddy, whether that's normal, and how to tell your partner without it getting weird.
DDlg punishment and rewards: what works, what doesn't
DDlg punishment is a consequence you both agree on in advance. Why rewards work better, real examples and where the limit is.
DDlg relationship: how the dynamic works day to day
A DDlg relationship runs on care and leadership between two adults. How the dynamic works day to day, from rules and rewards to aftercare.
DDlg rules: examples and how to agree on them
DDlg rules give your play something to hold on to. Examples of rules and rewards, and how to agree on them, keep them few and adjust them.
Good girl kink: why those two words land so hard
Good girl kink explained. Why two words hit you so hard, what he means by them, what the cortisol claim is worth, and what to do if you don't like it.
Starting DDlg: how to talk about it together
Starting DDlg begins with a conversation, not a scene. How to bring it up with your partner, what to agree on first, and how the first time goes.
Podcast interview: Victor on what BDSM really is
Jolanda from Brabants Meisje interviews Victor about what BDSM really is, beyond the whips, about dominance and why it stays equal for him.
Medical play without the white coat: the exam is the scene
The most-played form of medical play uses no instrument at all. What happens instead, why lying still works, and where the law begins.
Your first time at a play party: what to expect
What happens at a play party, who the DM is, how the house rules work, and why watching is the most normal thing to do all evening.
