Medical play without the white coat: the exam is the scene
The most-played form of medical play uses no instrument at all. What happens instead, why lying still works, and where the law begins.
Boundaries & consent
About consent, naming boundaries and stopping safely. Clear talk up front, and the room to say no at any moment, without explaining yourself.
Your first time at a play party: what to expect
What happens at a play party, who the DM is, how the house rules work, and why watching is the most normal thing to do all evening.
BDSM fantasy and your partner isn't into it: how to handle it
You have a BDSM fantasy and your partner isn't into it. What you can and can't do, how to have the conversation, and why pushing backfires.
When your date with a gigolo doesn't go as planned
What to do when it doesn't click, you change your mind, or something goes wrong on a date. Your rights, and what it costs you.
Is booking a gigolo cheating? The real answer
Whether it's cheating depends on whether your partner knows and agrees. Why half-knowing isn't real consent, and how to have the talk.
Arranging a threesome with a gigolo: how to do it safely
Arranging a threesome with a gigolo without damaging your relationship. The agreements to make first, and what goes wrong when you skip them.
Wheel of Consent: how I put consent into practice
Four quadrants that make clear who does what and why. How I use the Wheel of Consent for a first time or after a hard experience.
Professional cuddling: what it is and how it works
Professional cuddling is cuddling by appointment, clothes on and nothing sexual about it. Here is how it works, and who it is for.
Married to a gigolo #6: exciting BDSM parties
Anna and Victor deepen their bond through intense sex and BDSM parties, and marry in secret. The finale of her remarkable story.
What Is Spanking?
What is spanking, and why can a smack feel like pain one second and pleasure the next? Buildup, surrender, and safe play with consent.
