Wheel of Consent: how I put consent into practice
Four quadrants that make clear who does what and why. How I use the Wheel of Consent for a first time or after a hard experience.
Boundaries & consent
About consent, naming boundaries and stopping safely. Clear talk up front, and the room to say no at any moment, without explaining yourself.
Professional cuddling: what it is and how it works
Professional cuddling is cuddling by appointment, clothes on and nothing sexual about it. Here is how it works, and who it is for.
Married to a gigolo #6: exciting BDSM parties
Anna and Victor deepen their bond through intense sex and BDSM parties, and marry in secret. The finale of her remarkable story.
What Is Spanking?
What is spanking, and why can a smack feel like pain one second and pleasure the next? Buildup, surrender, and safe play with consent.
Male Escort for Women: Victor in Conversation
A male escort for women on desire, intimacy versus sex, and consent. Victor on why women hire a gigolo and listening without judgment.
Consensual Non-Consent: Examples and How It Works for Women
What is consensual non-consent (CNC)? Real examples, the psychology behind it, and how to explore this fantasy play safely with a partner.
The Power of Sharing Fantasies with Your Partner
Sharing fantasies with your partner takes courage, and it builds trust and intimacy. Victor explains how to do it safely and thrillingly.
The hidden dangers of choke play
Choke play feels intense, but the risks are real. Where the danger in breath play actually sits, and how to explore it far more carefully.
Booking Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) with a gigolo
Consensual non-consent with a gigolo: how to explore a CNC scenario safely, with clear agreements, trust, and aftercare.
Consensual pain play: being slapped in the face
What does it mean to be slapped in the face consensually in BDSM? Victor on pain play, trust, and safe surrender.
