An evening for yourself: why that is not selfish
Why an evening that revolves only around you feels so hard to take, how it differs from pampering, and why caring for others does not suffer.

About your body, your desire and your nerve. How attention and touch make you surer of who you are and of what you actually enjoy most.
Why an evening that revolves only around you feels so hard to take, how it differs from pampering, and why caring for others does not suffer.
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After a divorce your body can suddenly feel wrong. Where the insecurity comes from, why losing weight rarely helps, and what actually does.
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Wanting sex again after divorce rarely happens overnight. Why desire fades, why it comes back, and what you can do with it.
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Still a virgin at thirty, forty, or later is more common than people think. Where the barrier comes from, and how a calm first time can look.
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Heart pounding, Anna drives to her first BDSM date with Victor and discovers a safe, thrilling side of herself. Part 2 of her story.
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Jealous of your partner's client? Anna feels it for the first time when Victor meets the experienced Bianca. Part 4 of her story.
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Talking to your partner about jealousy feels nerve-wracking. Anna opens up to Victor, and his reassurance brings the calm back. Part 5 of her story.
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Abused as a child, Mariska (43) never enjoyed sex. Seeing a gigolo, she finally finds intimacy and confidence.
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A gigolo after a narcissistic relationship? Maud wanted safe intimacy and got her confidence and her desire for sex back through Victor.
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Afraid to book a gigolo? Here is why the experience lifts your confidence and wellbeing, with no fear of dependence.
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A woman or a couple? Lovely that you are here, I would love to speak with you.