Anal play: from the first time to a plug
How anal play works, why lube is not optional, which toys are safe, and why a flared base is the one rule that really matters.
Sex & pleasure
About lust, pleasure and discovering what suits you at your ease. No judgment, no hurry, with attention for what truly feels good in the moment.
Wanting sex again after divorce: how to find your desire again
Wanting sex again after divorce rarely happens overnight. Why desire fades, why it comes back, and what you can do with it.
Starting over after a bad experience: allowing intimacy
Allowing intimacy again after a bad sexual experience goes in small steps. What helps, what backfires, and when professional help is the better route.
Tantra massage vs erotic massage: what is the difference?
The difference is in the goal, not the touch. Why that matters in practice, and the questions to ask so you know what you are buying.
Vaginismus and first-time pain: discovering it calmly
First-time pain rarely comes because it is meant to. What vaginismus is, why tension is the core of it, and how to approach it without pressure.
Still a virgin later in life: is that strange or abnormal?
Still a virgin at thirty, forty, or later is more common than people think. Where the barrier comes from, and how a calm first time can look.
What is a yoni massage and what exactly happens?
A yoni massage is a tantric massage aimed at relaxation, not at climax. What the word means and how such a session unfolds.
Why I don't do quickies as a gigolo
Why I don't offer quickies as a gigolo, what rushing does to intimacy, and why a meeting with me lasts at least two hours.
Married Emma visits a gigolo every month
Emma (51) is happily married but misses sex due to her husband's low libido. Every month she visits a gigolo, and recommends it to any woman.
Hiring a gigolo?
Hiring a gigolo as a woman? Merle Hebing talks with gigolo Victor about the stigma and why women deserve an exciting night too.
