An evening for yourself: why that is not selfish
Why an evening that revolves only around you feels so hard to take, how it differs from pampering, and why caring for others does not suffer.
Connection
What happens when two people really give each other time. About being seen, deeper contact and being present together without hurry or agenda.
Emotional loneliness: being lonely when you are not alone
Emotional loneliness is feeling unseen with a partner beside you. What it is, why it is so hard to name, and what helps.
Widow's fire: desire for touch during grief
Widow's fire is the sudden desire for touch soon after a partner dies. Where it comes from, why it is normal, and what you can do with it.
Why I don't do quickies as a gigolo
Why I don't offer quickies as a gigolo, what rushing does to intimacy, and why a meeting with me lasts at least two hours.
Married to a gigolo #3: Victor's new side job
Anna encourages her partner Victor to work as a gigolo on the side. Part 3 of their story about his surprising new side job.
Hiring a gigolo?
Hiring a gigolo as a woman? Merle Hebing talks with gigolo Victor about the stigma and why women deserve an exciting night too.
Find a gigolo who matches your preferences
Five practical steps to find a gigolo who matches your preferences, from naming what you want to reading a first message and meeting in person.
How do I find a gigolo who replies fast?
How to find a gigolo who replies fast: book me directly so you talk to me from your first message, no agency passing notes back and forth.
Hire a gigolo for a spontaneous meeting
How to hire a gigolo for a spontaneous meeting in the Netherlands or Belgium, often within a day or two, straight to me and no agency in the middle.
Mr Perfect
Does the perfect man exist? I don't chase perfection. I read what you need that evening and become the companion who fits it. Here's how.
