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Glossary
The form where rope first carries weight, and where one foot on the floor does more work than most people think.
Partial suspension is rope work in which part of the body weight hangs from a suspension point while the rest keeps support from the floor. One foot, a knee, or a shoulder keeps bearing. It is the step between work on the ground and full suspension, and usually the first time someone really feels weight in rope.
| Short form | partial, the usual word for it in the studio |
| In Dutch | gedeeltelijke ophanging; halve ophanging also occurs |
| Japanese | 立ち吊り縛り tachi tsuri shibari, the standing partial suspension, and 片足上げ吊り縛り kataashi age tsuri shibari, the one with a single leg raised |
| Category | a phase within shibari, between floorwork and full suspension |
| Classic pose | balancing on one foot, with part of the weight in a chest harness and the other leg drawn up |
| Biggest risk | pressure on a nerve where the rope catches the weight: at the upper arm the radial nerve, in the groin crease the skin nerve of the thigh |
In most partials one foot is still on the ground, and that foot does more work than the onlooker sees.
Here is how it usually runs. Someone gets an arm tie on the back, on this site gote shibari, with enough wraps side by side to spread the pressure. A line goes onto it, up to a suspension point, and it gets taken in centimeter by centimeter. Somewhere along the way the weight tips: first the heels come free, then the ball of one foot, and what is left is one leg balancing. After that the other leg goes up, often in a futomomo.
The second form sits at a right angle to that: someone lies on the upper back, the legs tied up, and only the lower back comes off the floor. The encyclopedia on suspension in bondage names both in one breath: the moment rope, cable, or chain carries part of the weight, it is a partial. It rarely lasts long. Five minutes is normal.
Load distribution, not height.
In a full suspension, one hundred percent of the weight goes through the wraps on the body. In a partial the floor carries along, and that saves two things: less force per wrap, and a leg that keeps working. That second one is the underrated part.
Rauch and colleagues wrote a review of suspension syndrome for the International Commission for Mountain Emergency Medicine, the circulatory collapse from hanging passively in a harness. Their core sentence: the syndrome is a result of passive, motionless hanging and not of hanging itself. Leg movement keeps the muscle pump going, and without a ledge or wall within reach they advise foot loops to step into. Exactly that comes free to someone in a partial. Two studies in that same review show how much it matters: damage to the arm nerve plexus after ten to twenty minutes of free hanging in a chest harness, expressly when no foot loops were used (1972), and eleven percent complaints among nine test subjects with a support strap under the knees against eighty-seven percent for passive backward tilt (1998). The time to the first warning signs of fainting stays unpredictable, from a few minutes to several hours.
Because the body notices that walking away is no longer an option, while the head knows the floor is right there.
The encyclopedia describes the effect of suspension as a heightened sense of vulnerability and inescapability, and names the opposite too: a feeling of floating. In a partial you get those two mixed together.
Less weight just is not the same as little risk. In Khodulev’s series there is a participant who got numbness at the front of her thigh after every thigh tie.
With many wraps, one line, and a pace that feels slower than seems needed.
Stay off the groin crease if weight comes onto it. The skin nerve of the thigh runs, according to StatPearls, under the inguinal ligament and gets pinched by exactly what a tight hip band does: sustained pressure from a belt or constricting clothing. That complaint is called meralgia paresthetica.
“A partial is the safe version.” It is the milder version. That is something else. In Khodulev’s series nearly all nerve injuries arose after full suspension, so that direction holds. But the two cases that do not fit that pattern were about a tied-off thigh and about a tie with too few passes. That can happen just as easily in a partial.
“With a foot on the ground you can save yourself.” That standing leg is a countdown clock, not a safety net. After about four minutes it bears noticeably less.
“A partial is a stepping stone to full hanging.” For some it is. For plenty of others it is the endpoint, and that is no half achievement: it is the form with the most favorable ratio between what you feel and what you risk.
I’m Victor, a gigolo, twenty-five years in BDSM and trained as a psychotherapist. Bondage is on my list, light or firm, with real hemp, and for the Japanese rope work I have taken courses.
The moment just before something comes off the ground is what has stayed with me most. The line stands taut, nothing has been lifted yet, and still the breathing already changes. I have seen women cry at one centimeter.
The second thing: almost no one reports anything about that standing leg in time. People talk about a tingling arm; they stay quiet about a leg that cannot hold, because tiredness does not feel like a problem. That is why I keep the clock myself.
Within this glossary, shibari gives the whole frame, floorwork explains why work on the ground gives the same aesthetic at a fraction of the risk, and futomomo describes the leg tie that becomes the second bearing point here. On the blog, the art of bondage covers the first steps with rope.
If you want to know how it feels when rope takes over your weight, without having to work out yourself what can go wrong, that belongs with a BDSM date. That page covers how such an evening is prepared.
Frequently asked questions
Partial suspension is rope work where part of the body weight hangs from a suspension point and the rest still has support from the floor. In the classic form someone balances on one foot, with part of the weight in a chest harness and the other leg raised. It sits between floorwork and full suspension.
Milder, not safe. Less force comes onto each wrap, and the foot on the floor keeps the muscle pump in the leg going. Rauch and colleagues write in their review for mountain emergency medicine that suspension syndrome is a result of passive, motionless hanging and not of hanging itself. Nerve entrapment can still arise in a partial.
Shorter than most people think. Five minutes is normal in practice and ten is already a lot, because the standing leg bears noticeably less after a few minutes. The time to the first warning signs of fainting is also unpredictable and runs, according to the same review, from a few minutes to several hours. Put a timer on it.
Victor, a gigolo, twenty-five years in BDSM and trained as a psychotherapist. He ties with real hemp and took courses for it; suspending on location he does not do, but he is glad to think along about what rope does to a body. You can ask with no obligation through the contact form, or you first chat for free.
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