
The psychology behind the captivity fantasy: power, surrender and control, and how to explore it safely and consensually.

Glossary
Your wrists up, your head toward the floor, and nothing else. The position that forces surrender without touching you.
Strappado is a position in which the wrists are tied behind the back and pulled upward from there, until you have to bend forward. In the scene the feet stay on the floor and the body carries its own weight. In the torture version, also called reverse hanging, the body hangs from the wrists.
| Also called | corda, reverse hanging, Palestinian hanging |
| Word origin | Italian strappare, to pull or wrench |
| Category | a bondage position, part of the predicament bondage family and the one bar prison |
| What it strains | the shoulder in hyperextension, and with it the nerve bundle running across it |
| In Dutch | no word of its own for it |
| Main pitfall | thinking you can tell from the body whether it went too far |
The scene version and the torture version share a name and a shape, but not the load. That difference is the whole subject.
Here is how the scene version usually goes. The wrists are tied behind the back, the line runs up to a point and is pulled tight until the upper body tips forward on its own. The feet stay put. Every attempt to straighten up pulls on the shoulders, and not straightening up tires the back. Five minutes is a long time. A one bar prison forces the same bend, but from below.
The torture version lets the feet go. Then the whole body weight rests on two shoulder joints in hyperextension. The moment your heels come off the floor you have landed, mechanically, in that second version, whatever the scene was meant to be.
From Italian, from strappare: to pull, to wrench. The encyclopedia describes the position originally as an old judicial method with the same motion, and Dutch never took a word of its own from it. That origin explains the name, no more. In a bedroom it is about something very different: not punishment, but surrender you chose yourself and that can stop at any moment.
Not what you would think. The weak point is a nerve bundle, not a muscle.
Michael S. Pollanen and Ricky Ng mapped the anatomy of this position in Forensic Science International. When the shoulder is hyperextended backward, the joint capsule, the socket, and the surrounding muscles come under tension, but the most sensitive part is the brachial plexus: it is stretched and at the same time drawn tight over the head of the humerus, which compresses the nerve bundles. How much gets damaged depends on the force and on the duration.
Sara Woldu and Marie Brasholt worked through the literature for the Journal of Forensic and Legal Medicine and listed the consequences: nerve damage including brachial plexus injury, scarring, and joint dislocation.
And there is a second route that has nothing to do with the shoulder. Prolonged overstretching can damage muscle tissue over large areas, and the breakdown products from that put a load on the kidneys. It happens without a single blow, and without anything showing on the outside. That is exactly why this position should stay short, and in the hands of someone who knows what he is doing.
For what it forces without anything happening.
A strappado asks nothing of you but to keep standing, and that turns out to be the hard part. You cannot move without it costing more, you are looking at the floor, and you feel someone behind you without seeing what he does. If you like to surrender, it is one of the purest forms there is: no blow, not even a touch, and still every second is a choice you do not have. That helplessness you chose yourself is exactly where the arousal sits.
What it does not do: fix anything. If you start out tense, this will not calm you, and most people notice within two minutes that their shoulders are done before their head is.
Not a position where you can tell afterward how far it went. The encyclopedia notes that correctly applied strappado leaves lasting but invisible damage, and Pollanen and Ng build their whole paper on that fact: in a victim with no lasting neurological loss, a temporary loss can still be evidence of this torture, such as weakness in the arm, a clumsy hand, or tingling that has faded on its own. Translated to a bedroom: the fact that nothing shows means nothing.
Not the same as a hogtie or an ordinary suspension. In a hogtie the weight rests on the belly and the chest. Here it rests on two joints at their extreme end, and that is a different class of risk.
Not something you build up to. Flexibility does not help against traction on a nerve.
I am Victor. I have worked in BDSM for twenty-five years, with a background as a psychotherapist, and this is one of the few positions where I put a hard clock on it rather than watching how it goes.
People only report the shoulder once it is already going wrong. The first signs are in the hands, and they sound unimportant. A finger that has gone to sleep. A thumb that feels “off”. That is the moment to bring it down, and exactly the moment when most people think they can keep going a little longer. So I do not ask “are you okay”, but whether she can move her fingers and whether everything still feels normal. That question gets a different answer.
If you want to feel this without watching the clock, the knots, and the nerves yourself, that is exactly what I take over during a BDSM date. You only have to keep standing and surrender, I keep the time and watch your hands. Beforehand we agree on how long it lasts and what signal stops it.
Frequently asked questions
Yes, and the danger sits in the duration and in the nerve bundle, not in the muscle ache. When the shoulder is hyperextended, the brachial plexus is stretched and at the same time pressed over the head of the humerus, which can take strength and feeling out of the arm. The moment the feet leave the floor, the whole body weight rests on two joints.
Short, and the time is agreed beforehand instead of felt. Five minutes is already a long time in a strappado. Set a timer, check every minute for tingling or loss of strength in the hands, and bring it down the moment any of that shows up.
It comes from Italian: strappare means to pull or wrench, after the wrists pulled upward. The position is named for an old judicial method with the same motion, and Dutch never took a word of its own from it. That origin explains the name, no more: in the bedroom it is about surrender, not punishment.
Victor, a gigolo in Amsterdam with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. He works with bondage and, in this position, sets a clock himself rather than waiting to see how it goes. Ask him without obligation through the contact form or chat for free first.
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