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Glossary
The one piece of BDSM gear that gave the Dutch language a saying of its own.
A plak is a hard, flat, disc-shaped blade on a short handle, used for striking. It is the Dutch word for the object the scene usually calls a paddle, and it is centuries older than the play around it. Up until the nineteenth century the plak was the schoolmaster’s tool, and it came down on the inside of the hand.
| Also known as | paddle, the word the scene reaches for most; see paddle |
| What it was to begin with | the schoolmaster’s rod: a short stick with a disc on one end |
| Where it landed | the palm of the hand, not the buttocks |
| First recorded | 1573, in Plantijn, as plack, oft palmaet |
| What is left of it in the language | onder de plak zitten (to be under someone’s thumb) and de plak voeren (to rule the roost) |
| In present-day play | the buttocks; the hands stay out of it |
From the classroom. The Woordenboek der Nederlandsche Taal describes the plak as “the rod of the schoolmaster in the old days; a short stick with a disc on one end, with which he could give the children a stinging blow on the inside of the hand.” Plantijn noted the word in 1573 alongside the French ferule, and Kiliaan did the same.
That same article turns up a detail that sounds oddly modern. The nineteenth-century cultural historian Schotel describes how plakken differed in make and size: round and oval, thick and thin in the blade, with a smooth surface or, instead, “cut with a diamond pattern, to sharpen the impression on the hand.” There were also examples fitted with braided copper wire, iron points or inset pins, which by that same account tore skin and flesh from the hands. If you wonder why the things were built that way, the answer is in the shape.
The word itself belongs to plak in the sense of “disc, flat piece.” The Etymologisch Woordenboek van het Nederlands traces it back to Middle Dutch placke, in 1371 still the name of a coin, and names outright the early modern Dutch plack in the sense of “a punishment tool to strike with.”
Powerless. The plak stood so firmly for authority that the object vanished from the schools and the expression stayed. The WNT gives “onder de plak komen, zijn, zitten” as: coming under another’s power, able to do nothing without their say-so, having no voice of your own. Next to it stands “de plak voeren,” to hold authority and impose your will on others, and “een man met de plak,” someone with sway.
Van Dale once illustrated the expression with “hij staat onder de plak van zijne vrouw, zij is hem de baas” (he is under his wife’s thumb, she is the boss). For a glossary about power exchange that is a nice find. Dutch borrowed its word for surrender from exactly the object lying here on the shelf. Someone who plays with a plak today does willingly what generations of schoolchildren had to endure, and that difference is the whole difference.
If you want to know how a plak feels, you do not have to buy one yourself to find out. The page on the BDSM date explains how an evening like this is built up and what we settle beforehand about limits and safe words.
A plak is Dutch gear within impact play, and the word the language kept its expression for dominance from.
Frequently asked questions
A plak is a hard, flat, disc-shaped blade on a short handle, the Dutch name for what English calls a paddle. The word comes from schooling. The schoolmaster’s plak was a stick with a disc on the end, used to give children a blow on the inside of the hand.
From the school instrument. The Woordenboek der Nederlandsche Taal describes “onder de plak komen, zijn or zitten” as coming under another’s power, unable to do anything without their will. The plak stood for the master’s authority, and when the object left the classroom, the expression stayed behind.
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