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Glossary
The warm daze the rope leaves behind, with a name that literally means rope drunk.
Nawa yoi (縄酔い, rope drunk) is the floaty, warm daze someone falls into during or after a rope session. The name literally means rope drunk: nawa is rope, yoi is drunkenness. It happens mostly to the one lying in the rope, sometimes to the one tying too, and it closely resembles subspace.
| Japanese | 縄酔い, from nawa (rope) and yoi (drunkenness, daze) |
| Also called | rope drunk, also rope high or rope space |
| Category | a state of mind during or after rope work, related to subspace |
| Who it happens to | mostly the rope bottom, sometimes the rigger |
| Not to be confused with | drop, the dip that sometimes comes over you afterward |
| Main caveat | you feel pain and tension less sharply, so checking in along the way stays necessary |
The term comes from the rope scene itself. The Shibari Study Glossary describes nawa yoi as “rope drunk,” the feeling of subspace that arises during or after a rope session. The second part of the word explains what kind of daze is meant. Yoi (酔い) is, according to Wiktionary, drunkenness, the stem form of 酔う, to get drunk. What a glass does to your head, the rope does here to your head. Not from the alcohol, but from the letting go and the steady pressure. And from the trust you leave to someone else.
The pull is in that letting go. For a moment you have to steer nothing, and that gives a cottony calm that feels heavy and light at once. For you as a bottom that is often exactly what you get into the rope for: the head going quiet, the body taking over. That same daze has a downside. Anyone floating feels pain and tension less sharply, and it is exactly then that an arm going to sleep or a nerve pinched can stay unnoticed. That is why nawa yoi is a reason to check in along the way, and not to just keep going longer.
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Nawa yoi is the rope variant of subspace, and the terms below lie close to it.
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