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Glossary
The act takes minutes; the outcome only becomes visible six months later.
Cutting is cutting patterns into the skin with a sterile blade, where branding makes that same scar with heat. It is a form of scarification: the cut is the means, the scar that stays behind is the goal. It falls under bloodplay, and it is irreversible.
| Dutch term | cutting, used untranslated in Dutch, as part of scarification. See the encyclopedia entry. |
| With what | a single-use sterile scalpel blade, never a kitchen knife or a razor |
| What it is | a shallow cut that heals as a scar |
| Healing | scarification is generally estimated at six to twelve months |
| What sets the risk | the spot on the body and how long the wound stays open |
| Where the risk story lives | with bloodplay, meaning sterile equipment, gloves, and openness about STI status |
The act itself is small, and that is exactly what misleads people. A blade goes shallowly through the top layers of skin, in a line or a simple pattern, and less blood comes free than most people expect.
What happens after that can no longer be steered. The encyclopedia entry on scarification states that it is not a precise practice: skin type, cutting depth, and the way the wound is cared for during healing make the outcome unpredictable compared to other forms of body modification. Scars also spread during healing, which is why finished designs are usually simple and details get lost.
The same source also describes how people make the scar stand out more: rubbing tattoo ink into the fresh cut, or using irritants to encourage keloid formation. At that point a session turns into body modification.
With cutting, the spot is not an aesthetic choice but a medical one. Gauglitz and colleagues lay out in Molecular Medicine which spots are prone to a thick scar.
Hypertrophic scars, the raised type that stays within the wound edges, show up mostly on the shoulders, neck, breastbone, knees, and ankles. Keloid, which instead grows out beyond the original wound edges, sits mostly on the front of the chest, shoulders, earlobes, upper arms, and cheeks. Eyelids, palms, soles, and genitals are less prone to it.
Two factors from that same review decide the rest. Wounds under tension from movement or from where they sit on the body carry more risk, and healing that takes longer than ten to fourteen days sharply raises the chance of a hypertrophic scar. Skin color plays a part too: on dark skin the reported keloid incidence in African populations lies between 6 and 16 percent.
The timeline differs too. A hypertrophic scar forms within four to eight weeks, keeps growing for about six months, and then recedes over years. Keloid can appear up to years later and does not go away on its own.
Once the blade is gone, there is no scene anymore but a wound, and then ordinary GP rules apply.
Thuisarts.nl advises rinsing a wound clean with lukewarm water from the tap and using only water: no soap and nothing else. Press the wound closed until it stops bleeding. Call the GP the same day if there is yellow-white fluid from the wound, if the wound edges get thicker, warmer, redder, or darker, if the pain increases, if there is a fever of 38 degrees or higher, or if you feel ill.
There are also moments to call right away: bleeding that does not stop, wound edges that will not meet, severe pain, or loss of feeling or function. Stitching is done preferably within twelve hours and only rarely still within twenty-four, so putting the doubt off until tomorrow is not an option.
“A shallow cut leaves no scar.” With cutting, the scar is the goal, and whether it turns out thick or thin is decided by your skin, not your intention. The same cut gives a different outcome on a shoulder than on a forearm.
“You draw the pattern and that is what you get.” Scars spread during healing, which makes the end result simpler than the drawing.
“It is less risky than needles.” The hygiene requirements are the same. The risk story lives with bloodplay. With scarification, transmission of HIV and hepatitis C has been described through shared tools.
Cutting is not something I do. Lasting physical damage is on my no-go list, and a scar is exactly that. That is not a judgment on anyone who does want it, it is just not for me.
In conversations I see the same thing as with branding: people ask about it at the moment the feeling is at its peak. That is understandable, and it is the wrong moment. If you still want it in three months, go to someone who does this professionally.
Almost everyone who asks about this is after the feeling of something irreversible. That feeling can also be reached with things that do not carry over into the next relationship.
Frequently asked questions
Cutting is cutting patterns into the skin with a sterile blade. It is a form of scarification: the cut is the means, the scar that stays behind is the goal. Branding makes that same mark with heat instead of a blade.
Yes, that is the goal, but you do not decide how the scar turns out. Scarification heals in roughly six to twelve months and scars spread as they do, which makes details disappear. Skin type and cutting depth make the outcome unpredictable.
Yes. Hypertrophic scars sit mostly on the shoulders, neck, breastbone, knees, and ankles; keloid on the front of the chest, shoulders, earlobes, upper arms, and cheeks. Wounds under tension from movement carry more risk, and healing that takes longer than ten to fourteen days sharply raises the chance of a thick scar.
Press the wound closed until the bleeding stops and rinse it clean with lukewarm tap water, water only, no soap. Call right away if the bleeding does not stop or the wound edges will not close: stitching is best done within twelve hours. Call the same day for pus, increasing pain, warm or red wound edges, or a fever of 38 degrees or higher.
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. Cutting is not something he does, because lasting physical damage is on his no-go list, but he is glad to talk about what you are looking for in it. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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