Anna is married to a gigolo #1: the introduction
Anna, a newly divorced mum of two, places her first BDSM ad and meets gigolo Victor. Part 1 of her true story.
Intimacy
Stories and background about intimacy, attention and connection. About what makes a meeting truly personal and safe.
Married to a gigolo #3: Victor's new side job
Anna encourages her partner Victor to work as a gigolo on the side. Part 3 of their story about his surprising new side job.
Married to a gigolo #4: lying alone in bed
Jealous of your partner's client? Anna feels it for the first time when Victor meets the experienced Bianca. Part 4 of her story.
Married to a gigolo #5: I can't deny my jealousy
Talking to your partner about jealousy feels nerve-wracking. Anna opens up to Victor, and his reassurance brings the calm back. Part 5 of her story.
Mariska regularly meets a gigolo
Abused as a child, Mariska (43) never enjoyed sex. Seeing a gigolo, she finally finds intimacy and confidence.
Maud met a gigolo: 'I want more'
A gigolo after a narcissistic relationship? Maud wanted safe intimacy and got her confidence and her desire for sex back through Victor.
Mr Perfect
Does the perfect man exist? I don't chase perfection. I read what you need that evening and become the companion who fits it. Here's how.
When does a meeting really feel safe?
Safety starts long before the date: with an honest talk, room to land, and limits that count. That is how I work as a gigolo in Amsterdam.
Communicating before a date: build real connection
Communicating before a date builds trust and real intimacy. Why I always make contact, and flirt a little, long before we ever meet.
Male Escort for Women: Victor in Conversation
A male escort for women on desire, intimacy versus sex, and consent. Victor on why women hire a gigolo and listening without judgment.