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Glossary
The rope that looks like hemp, behaves like plastic, and has its pros and cons for exactly that reason.
Hempex (a registered brand name) is laid rope of spun polypropylene that looks like hemp, made by the Dutch rope manufacturer Langman Touw. It is beige to sand-colored, floats on water and does not rot. Anyone who wants the look of natural fiber without the maintenance ends up with this rope.
| Dutch term | identical; Hempex® is a registered brand, see the manufacturer’s product page |
| Also known as | synthetic hemp, faux hemp; not to be confused with hemp rope or asanawa |
| Material | spun polypropylene, specific gravity 0.92, so it floats |
| Melting point | 165 °C |
| Breaking strength | 429 kg at 6 millimeters three-strand, 216 kg at 4 millimeters |
| Where it differs | absorbs no moisture, does not rot, needs no oiling |
The difference is in the fiber, not in the look. Langman Touw lists spun polypropylene for Hempex, with a specific gravity of 0.92, a melting point of 165 degrees, good UV resistance and good abrasion resistance. For the natural rope in the same range something else is listed: material flax, melting point not applicable, abrasion resistance moderate. Note the name there. What is sold in the Netherlands as hemp rope is, with this manufacturer, one hundred percent flax yarn.
Another difference worth mentioning. For Hempex the manufacturer publishes breaking strengths per diameter, from 216 kilos at 4 millimeters to 429 kilos at 6 millimeters. For the natural rope there is a dash in that column. That does not mean the natural rope is weak; it means the manufacturer attaches no number to it.
Hempex asks no maintenance. Natural-fiber rope you want to keep dry, treat now and then and retire in time, and none of that is needed here: it does not rot, it takes on no water and according to the manufacturer it is UV resistant. For anyone who takes rope along, stuffs it in a bag and washes it now and then, that saves work. Against that, the manufacturer says nothing anywhere about grip or about how a wrap holds, and that is exactly what you need for friction. That people find synthetic rope sits more slippery in the knot than hemp is an experience from the scene and not a measured property. There is no source for it that holds up.
One property is unique to this material. Polypropylene melts at 165 degrees; for the natural rope from the same manufacturer, “not applicable” stands behind melting point. What that means for rope that runs fast over the skin or over another rope is described in no usable source. So don’t let rope slip under tension, and use scissors instead of a lighter.
If you’d like to feel how rope sits without having to choose between natural fiber and synthetic yourself, that belongs with a BDSM date.
Frequently asked questions
The ground rules do not change with the material: two fingers between rope and skin, and stop at tingling or numbness. Do not count on the breaking strength on the packaging, because it holds for new, straight-pulled rope and not for a knot or a moving body.
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. He works with real hemp himself instead of synthetic rope and is glad to explain the difference. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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