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Glossary
The least conspicuous thing in your rope closet, and still the one that decides the most.
Jute is a long, coarse, glossy bast fiber from plants of the genus Corchorus, in the mallow family. The fiber is mostly cellulose and lignin and sits in the bark of the stem. In rope form, jute is the most-used material for Japanese ropework.
| Plant | genus Corchorus, mallow family; mainly Corchorus olitorius and Corchorus capsularis |
| Fiber length | one to four meters, off-white to brown |
| Where it comes from | South Asia; India and Bangladesh are the biggest producers |
| In rope | loosely laid three-strand, around 6 millimeters, seven to eight meters per strand; Japanese: asanawa |
| Main risk | nerve compression under a wrap, not the material itself |
From the bark of an annual plant that grows in the monsoon. The fiber is freed by retting: bundles of stems go into slow-moving water, after which workers scrape off the non-fibrous material and pull the fibers out of the stem. In Bangladesh, jute is called the golden fiber, for its color and for what it earns. Tossa jute, per the same source, is softer and silkier than white jute, and stronger too.
Grip. The description of Japanese bondage calls loosely laid three-strand jute the most-used rope in Japan. The coarse fiber lets a wrap hold without a knot, and with shibari that is exactly the point. That jute is also cheaper than good hemp rope and frays faster is what rope buyers say about it. It hasn’t been measured, and there’s no source for it that holds up.
I work with real hemp, but jute is what most people start with because it’s affordable. If you want to feel once what natural-fiber rope does without buying a closetful yourself, the page on the BDSM date explains how that goes.
Frequently asked questions
Jute is a long, coarse, glossy bast fiber from plants of the genus Corchorus, in the mallow family. The fiber is mostly cellulose and lignin, runs one to four meters long, and shades from off-white to brown. India and Bangladesh are the biggest producers.
Because the coarse fiber lets a wrap hold without needing a knot. According to the encyclopedia entry on Japanese bondage, loosely laid three-strand jute is the most-used rope in Japan, around six millimeters thick and seven to eight meters per strand. That jute is cheaper than hemp and frays faster is what rope buyers say about it; a source that pins it down doesn’t exist.
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. He ties with real hemp and can tell you how natural-fiber rope like jute feels on skin, so you don’t have to buy anything yourself to find out. You can ask a question with no obligation through the contact form or chat for free.
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