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Glossary
Two letters that promise something very different on a profile than the three letters next to them.
CB stands for chastity belt or chastity cage. It’s a lock on the genitals that someone else holds the key to. On profiles and checklists the abbreviation often gets confused with CBT, and those are two very different things.
| In full | chastity belt or chastity cage |
| What it is | according to the encyclopedia, a lockable garment meant to prevent sexual intercourse or masturbation |
| Two models | a belt around the waist, or a cage that closes around the penis only |
| Not to be confused with | CBT, cock and ball torture |
| Main risk | the skin underneath, when worn for a long time |
The belt comes in two forms. The encyclopedia describes how, among male chastity devices, the cages that close around the penis and scrotum only are the most popular, followed by the sturdier models that go around the waist like a full belt. In both cases the metal isn’t what does the work. The lock is. Someone else opens it.
The historical weight the word carries is mostly myth. The encyclopedia is firm on this. There’s no credible evidence that chastity belts existed before the fifteenth century, well over a century after the last crusade, and most museum pieces now count as nineteenth-century forgeries. So it isn’t some medieval custom that stuck around. It’s mainly a modern practice.
CB and CBT are opposites, one letter apart. CB is about denial. Nothing happens, and that’s the point. CBT stands for cock and ball torture and is about pain or pressure on the penis and testicles, with acts like ballbusting, the ball crusher, and the parachute. This is where conversations go wrong.
The clearest example of that difference is the parachute, a small collar around the scrotum with weight hanging from it, so something is always happening, while a cage is always doing nothing.
So someone who puts “CB” on a profile is saying they like to wait. Someone who writes “CBT” is saying something about pain. One letter apart, two completely different evenings. If you’re unsure, just ask. That’s less awkward than assuming.
The risk of CB is in the duration, not the intensity. The encyclopedia notes that continuous long-term wear could lead to infections of the urinary tract and genitals, chafing, and blood poisoning, which is why the lined inside had to be cleaned regularly. That’s a historical passage, but the logic hasn’t changed. Anything that sits against the skin for days needs cleaning and checking.
If the waiting and handing over the key appeal to you, that’s something I go over with you beforehand on a BDSM date.
Frequently asked questions
CB stands for chastity belt or chastity cage. It’s a lockable garment or cage meant to prevent sexual intercourse or masturbation, and someone else holds the key.
CB is about denial. Nothing happens to your genitals, and that’s the point. CBT stands for cock and ball torture and is about pain or pressure on the penis and testicles. One letter apart, two very different dates.
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. What an abbreviation on a profile actually means, he’d rather explain than have you guess at it. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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