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Glossary

CB

Two letters that promise something very different on a profile than the three letters next to them.

What does CB mean?

CB stands for chastity belt or chastity cage. It’s a lock on the genitals that someone else holds the key to. On profiles and checklists the abbreviation often gets confused with CBT, and those are two very different things.

In fullchastity belt or chastity cage
What it isaccording to the encyclopedia, a lockable garment meant to prevent sexual intercourse or masturbation
Two modelsa belt around the waist, or a cage that closes around the penis only
Not to be confused withCBT, cock and ball torture
Main riskthe skin underneath, when worn for a long time

What does a chastity belt or cage look like?

The belt comes in two forms. The encyclopedia describes how, among male chastity devices, the cages that close around the penis and scrotum only are the most popular, followed by the sturdier models that go around the waist like a full belt. In both cases the metal isn’t what does the work. The lock is. Someone else opens it.

The historical weight the word carries is mostly myth. The encyclopedia is firm on this. There’s no credible evidence that chastity belts existed before the fifteenth century, well over a century after the last crusade, and most museum pieces now count as nineteenth-century forgeries. So it isn’t some medieval custom that stuck around. It’s mainly a modern practice.

What is the difference between CB and CBT?

CB and CBT are opposites, one letter apart. CB is about denial. Nothing happens, and that’s the point. CBT stands for cock and ball torture and is about pain or pressure on the penis and testicles, with acts like ballbusting, the ball crusher, and the parachute. This is where conversations go wrong.

The clearest example of that difference is the parachute, a small collar around the scrotum with weight hanging from it, so something is always happening, while a cage is always doing nothing.

So someone who puts “CB” on a profile is saying they like to wait. Someone who writes “CBT” is saying something about pain. One letter apart, two completely different evenings. If you’re unsure, just ask. That’s less awkward than assuming.

What to watch for

The risk of CB is in the duration, not the intensity. The encyclopedia notes that continuous long-term wear could lead to infections of the urinary tract and genitals, chafing, and blood poisoning, which is why the lined inside had to be cleaned regularly. That’s a historical passage, but the logic hasn’t changed. Anything that sits against the skin for days needs cleaning and checking.

If the waiting and handing over the key appeal to you, that’s something I go over with you beforehand on a BDSM date.

Sources

  • Chastity belt. Wikipedia. Provides the description as a lockable garment against sexual intercourse or masturbation, the finding that there’s no credible evidence of chastity belts before the fifteenth century, the ratio between cages and full belts among male wearers, and the list of infection, chafing, and sepsis with continuous long-term wear.
  • Cock and ball torture. Wikipedia. Provides what CBT actually stands for. Ball busting as kicking or kneeing the testicles, the ball crusher that slowly compresses the testicles, and the parachute with weights.
  • Chastity. The practice itself, which CB is the tool for.
  • CBT. The abbreviation CB gets confused with most.
  • Chastity cage. The cage itself, with the ring and the duration.
  • Cage. The word cage, which covers both the chastity cage and a cage for a person.
  • Keyholder. The one who keeps the key to this lock.
  • Chastity belt. The full belt around the waist, and the history behind it.
  • Orgasm denial. The waiting a chastity cage is built to enforce.

Frequently asked questions

What people still ask about CB.

  1. What does CB mean in BDSM?

    CB stands for chastity belt or chastity cage. It’s a lockable garment or cage meant to prevent sexual intercourse or masturbation, and someone else holds the key.

  2. What is the difference between CB and CBT?

    CB is about denial. Nothing happens to your genitals, and that’s the point. CBT stands for cock and ball torture and is about pain or pressure on the penis and testicles. One letter apart, two very different dates.

  3. Who can you turn to with questions about CB?

    Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. What an abbreviation on a profile actually means, he’d rather explain than have you guess at it. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.

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Articles about waiting and control

CB is a lock on something you no longer open yourself. These articles are about what waiting and handed-over control do to you.

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