Still a virgin later in life: is that strange or abnormal?
Still a virgin at thirty, forty, or later is more common than people think. Where the barrier comes from, and how a calm first time can look.
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What is a yoni massage and what exactly happens?
A yoni massage is a tantric massage aimed at relaxation, not at climax. What the word means and how such a session unfolds.
Wheel of Consent: how I put consent into practice
Four quadrants that make clear who does what and why. How I use the Wheel of Consent for a first time or after a hard experience.
SM Room for Rent: BDSM Rooms and Play Spaces in the Netherlands and Beyond
BDSM rooms and SM play spaces for rent across the Netherlands, Belgium, France and Germany: SM cottages, SM B&Bs, setup, prices and what to check.
Podcast interview: Victor on BDSM and being a gigolo
The full transcript of BDSM Vrouw Podcast #35, where Mistress Moria asks Victor about his work, his limits, aftercare, and the taboo around a gigolo.
Why I don't do quickies as a gigolo
Why I don't offer quickies as a gigolo, what rushing does to intimacy, and why a meeting with me lasts at least two hours.
Podcast interview: Victor on threesomes, swingers clubs, and spaghetti sex
Jolanda of Brabants Meisje interviews Victor: his first swingers club, why nothing is 'required' in a threesome, and the apple pie conversation.
BDSM for Beginners: How to Try It Safely as a Woman
BDSM for beginners: how you try it safely as a woman, at your own pace, with clear limits set beforehand and real aftercare afterward.
Professional cuddling: what it is and how it works
Professional cuddling is cuddling by appointment, clothes on and nothing sexual about it. Here is how it works, and who it is for.
Married Emma visits a gigolo every month
Emma (51) is happily married but misses sex due to her husband's low libido. Every month she visits a gigolo, and recommends it to any woman.
