BDSM for Women: Needle Play, Sensation, and Body Awareness
BDSM for women: how needle play, surrender, and body awareness bring you closer to yourself. Safe, with consent and RACK.
Glossary
Injection needles
The same needle as at the doctor's, with one property that decides the whole trade-off in this context.
What are injection needles?
Injection needles (in medicine, hypodermic needles) are thin, hollow steel tubes with a beveled point, made to carry fluid through the skin. In BDSM they’re used in needle play and play piercing. Unlike an IV needle, the steel stays put as long as the needle is in the skin; there’s no cannula around it that takes over the work.
| English term | hypodermic needle, literally a needle that goes under the skin. See the encyclopedia entry. |
| Also known as | injection needle, disposable needle; in the scene usually just needles. What’s done with them is on needle play |
| Category | a tool for needle play, which falls under bloodplay |
| Size | in gauge on the Birmingham gauge, medically from 7 to 34: the higher the number, the thinner the needle |
| Not to be confused with | the IV needle, where the steel is withdrawn after insertion and only a plastic cannula stays behind |
| Main point | the hollow core holds blood, so sterile single use is the condition |
Why that hollow core matters
Because blood stays behind in it.
A thick hollow needle for a blood draw has a larger bore and holds more blood than a thin subcutaneous needle used to inject insulin. That’s why the thickness matters, and why that thickness is expressed in gauge: the higher the G, the thinner the needle.
What you watch for with injection needles
With the needle itself there’s little to arrange. With what happens around it, all the more.
A needle comes out of a sealed sterile package, goes once through one skin and then disappears into a sharps container. Never a needle that has already been in someone else, and never the same needle twice within one session. Working sterile and single-use is the cheapest precaution there is.
Where this fits on my site
Needles are on my list of options, with the note “provocative subject” beside them. If you want to know how such a scene is built up and what we go over beforehand, that’s on the page about the BDSM date.
Sources
- Hypodermic needle. Wikipedia. Supplies the description as a very thin hollow tube with a single sharp point, its placement in the category sharps, the manufacture from stainless steel with a beveled point, and the fact that the thickness is measured on the Birmingham gauge, medically common from 7 to 34.
Related terms
- IV needles. The counterpart with a cannula, chosen when something needs to stay in the skin longer.
- Bloodplay. The category needle play with injection needles falls under, with the arrangements that go with it.
- Bloodsports. The same category under its other name.
- Edgeplay. The broader corner needle play is often counted in, and why the knowledge differs per practice.
- Abrasion. The other play at skin level, with scraping instead of pricking.
- Needle play. The practice itself, with how a scene runs and the arrangements around it.
- Play piercing. The practice under the name that stresses the piercing, with the vasovagal reaction that comes with it.
Frequently asked questions
What people still ask about injection needles.
What are injection needles?
Injection needles are hollow steel needles with a beveled point, meant to carry fluid through the skin. Their thickness is expressed in gauge, where a higher number means a thinner needle. In BDSM, injection needles come up in needle play and play piercing.
How risky is an injection needle compared to other needles?
A hollow needle carries more blood than a solid one, and that’s what the risk assessment hangs on. The thicker the needle, the more blood stays behind in it. Sterile, single use is therefore not advice but the condition.
Who can you turn to with questions about injection needles?
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. Needles are on his list of options, and which type of needle suits which scene is part of what you go over beforehand. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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