
BDSM for women: how needle play, surrender, and body awareness bring you closer to yourself. Safe, with consent and RACK.

Glossary
The same needle as at the doctor's, with one property that decides the whole trade-off in this context.
Injection needles (in medicine, hypodermic needles) are thin, hollow steel tubes with a beveled point, made to carry fluid through the skin. In BDSM they’re used in needle play and play piercing. Unlike an IV needle, the steel stays put as long as the needle is in the skin; there’s no cannula around it that takes over the work.
| English term | hypodermic needle, literally a needle that goes under the skin. See the encyclopedia entry. |
| Also known as | injection needle, disposable needle; in the scene usually just needles. What’s done with them is on needle play |
| Category | a tool for needle play, which falls under bloodplay |
| Size | in gauge on the Birmingham gauge, medically from 7 to 34: the higher the number, the thinner the needle |
| Not to be confused with | the IV needle, where the steel is withdrawn after insertion and only a plastic cannula stays behind |
| Main risk | the RIVM rates a needlestick with a loose hollow needle thinner than 27 gauge as high risk |
Because blood stays behind in it.
The RIVM’s national guideline on needlestick accidents explains what the risk classification rests on: the volume of blood that passes from one person to another in an accident. A thick hollow needle for a blood draw has a larger bore and holds more blood than a thin subcutaneous needle used to inject insulin. That’s why the thickness matters, and why that thickness is expressed in gauge: the higher the G, the thinner the needle.
The guideline rates an injury from a loose used hollow needle of less than 27 gauge as a high-risk accident. With a lancet of 27 gauge or thinner in a lancing device, the risk of HIV and hepatitis C is called negligible instead. Same material, different size, different story.
With the needle itself there’s little to arrange. With what happens around it, all the more.
A needle comes out of a sealed sterile package, goes once through one skin and then disappears into a sharps container. Never a needle that has already been in someone else, and never the same needle twice within one session. For the same transferred blood volume, the chance of infection with hepatitis B is, according to the RIVM, many times greater than that of hepatitis C or HIV, and against hepatitis B there is a vaccine. That’s the cheapest precaution there is.
If it does go wrong and someone pricks themselves on a used needle, that’s not a matter for the next day. The guideline wants post-exposure prophylaxis against HIV to start as soon as possible, ideally within two hours and at most within seventy-two hours. After that it no longer has any use. So call your GP or the public health service, at night too.
Needles are on my list of options, with the note “provocative subject” beside them. If you want to know how such a scene is built up and what we go over beforehand, that’s on the page about the BDSM date.
Frequently asked questions
Injection needles are hollow steel needles with a beveled point, meant to carry fluid through the skin. Their thickness is expressed in gauge, where a higher number means a thinner needle. In BDSM, injection needles come up in needle play and play piercing.
A hollow needle carries more blood than a solid one, and that’s what the risk assessment hangs on. The RIVM calls a needlestick with a loose used hollow needle of less than 27 gauge high risk, while a lancet of 27 gauge or thinner gives a negligible HIV and hepatitis C risk. Sterile, single use is therefore not advice but the condition.
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. Needles are on his list of options, and which type of needle suits which scene is part of what you go over beforehand. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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