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Glossary
Bloodsports
A word that means something completely different in two worlds, and in the scene it points to the heaviest corner.
What is bloodsports?
Bloodsports is the English umbrella term within BDSM for play that draws blood, from a single cut to extensive scarification. It falls under edgeplay. Outside the scene the word means something else entirely, namely hunting and animal fighting, and that double meaning is why you rarely hear it in Dutch conversations.
| Dutch term | bloedspel; the most common label in Dutch conversations |
| Also known as | bloodplay, the more neutral English variant |
| What it covers | cutting, needle play, blood cupping, scarification |
| Category | edgeplay: the heaviest corner of the BDSM spectrum |
| False friend | in everyday English, bloodsports means hunting and animal fighting |
Why does bloodsports have three names?
The three names cover the same thing but sound different, and that is exactly why they sit side by side. Bloodsports is the heaviest word: it stresses the edge this play sits on. Bloodplay is more neutral and gets used most in English-speaking communities. The Dutch term bloedspel is the one that comes up most in conversations here.
For the practice itself the name makes no difference. What does matter is that the word bloodsports means hunting outside this context, which causes confusion in search results and conversations.
What are the risks of bloodsports?
The main danger of bloodsports is not the act but what gets exchanged between two bodies. The risk profile is identical to that of bloodplay, and it is described there in more detail.
Xu and colleagues, writing in Evidence-Based Complementary and Alternative Medicine, reviewed 308 reported adverse events and concluded that infection is the main complication of needles in the skin, and that since disposable needles were introduced hepatitis infections are rarely reported anymore. So sterile, single-use material is not a recommendation but the heart of the story. When I do this on a BDSM date, for me it begins and ends right there.
Sources
- Adverse Events of Acupuncture: A Systematic Review of Case Reports. Xu, Wang, Cooper et al., Evidence-Based Complementary and Alternative Medicine 2013, article 581203. Provides the finding that infection is the main complication and that disposable needles have sharply reduced hepatitis infection.
- Ik heb een schaafwond. Thuisarts.nl (NHG, Federatie Medisch Specialisten en Patiëntenfederatie Nederland), revised 11 June 2024. Provides the wound care and the signs of infection to watch for.
Related terms
- Bloodplay. The Dutch call it bloedspel, and that page carries the risk profile and the arrangements before and after.
- Blood cupping. Another name from the same corner.
- Edgeplay. The overarching category for this kind of play.
- Cutting. The cut with a small blade, and what the spot on your body does with the scar.
- Scarification. The heaviest end of this label, where the scar is the goal.
Frequently asked questions
What people still ask about bloodsports.
What is bloodsports?
Bloodsports is the English umbrella term within BDSM for play that draws blood, from a single cut to extensive scarification. It falls under edgeplay.
What is the difference between bloodsports and bloodplay?
They cover the same thing. Bloodsports is the heavier word that stresses the edge, bloodplay is more neutral and more common. In Dutch it’s called bloedspel. Note that outside this context bloodsports means hunting and animal fighting.
Who can you turn to with questions about bloodsports?
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. Needles are on his yes-list, always with sterile single-use material. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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