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Glossary
The most common fetish there is, and at the same time the fetish with the best-known explanation that turns out not to hold up.
A foot fetish (in the clinical literature podophilia) is sexual arousal by feet. It is the most common fetish aimed at a non-genital body part. Its strength varies widely, from finding feet attractive the way you find a back attractive, to needing feet to come.
| Other names | foot fetishism, foot partialism, or podophilia in the literature |
| Category | a fetish aimed at a body part, and so strictly speaking partialism |
| Difference from foot worship | a fetish is in the desire, worship is in what you do and in who sits lower |
| How common | feet and what goes with feet top the largest study of fetishes there is |
| What it can focus on | shape, soles, toes, smell, grooming, stockings, shoes, or touch |
| When it is a diagnosis | only with demonstrable distress, impairment, or contact with someone who does not consent |
Rarely the extreme people picture.
Most people with a foot fetish find feet arousing the way others find a neck or a back arousing. It is where the attention goes, and it does not decide the whole of sex. At the other extreme is the form where feet are the only route to an orgasm, and that group is small.
Exactly where the attention lands varies a lot from person to person. One notices shape and soles, another nail polish, stockings or shoes, and a third mostly smell. That explains why two people with “the same thing” do not recognise themselves in each other’s description.
How ordinary it is shows in the only large study that ever weighed fetishes against each other. Scorolli and colleagues counted 381 internet discussion groups in International Journal of Impotence Research, good for at least five thousand people. No other subject of preference came up as often as feet.
Because there is an explanation everyone knows, and it was tested and it fell.
The idea is old. In 1972, the catalogue for an exhibition at the Haags Gemeentemuseum carried a passage from the psychiatrist Havelock Ellis about “an almost natural basis for foot fetishism in the tendency to associate the foot with the genitals”, and the reviewer at De Tijd repeated that line. Dutch goes no further back than this: it is the first time voetfetisjisme appears in a Dutch newspaper.
The neurologist V.S. Ramachandran gave that idea a physical form in 1994. The cerebral cortex holds a map of the body, and on it the area for the feet borders the area for the genitals. Crosstalk between those two areas could explain the preference. He offered no experimental evidence for it, and the story went around the world anyway.
In 2014 it was measured. Oliver Turnbull and colleagues, in Cortex, had about 800 participants from the British Isles and sub-Saharan Africa rate 41 body parts for erotic sensitivity. The feet scored strikingly low, and the ratings of body parts that sit next to each other in the cortex did not correlate. Their conclusion is that the map theory finds no support. Where a foot fetish does come from, nobody knows.
For reasons that differ from person to person, and that is not an evasive answer but where the research stands.
The explanations people give themselves fall into three directions: the submissive (a foot is the lowest point, and attention to it is a posture straight away), the sensory (a foot responds strongly and visibly), and the forbidden (feet are supposed to stay covered).
There is one historical explanation that gets cited often and that you should take with a grain of salt. Giannini and colleagues proposed in Psychological Reports that interest in feet rises during epidemics of sexually transmitted disease, and counted a sharp rise in images of feet in pornography during the AIDS epidemic. It is a preliminary study, the authors call it that themselves, and it measures images and not people.
“A foot fetish is the same as foot worship.” No. Foot worship is about subordination and about who sits lower. A foot fetish is about where the desire points. Many people who worship feet have no fetish, and many people with a fetish have nothing to do with submission.
“It comes from the foot and the genitals sitting next to each other in the brain.” That is the best-known explanation, and it was tested in 2014 and not confirmed. Anyone who uses it anyway is using a hypothesis from 1994 without the 2014 measurement beside it.
“It is a psychiatric disorder.” Only when there is demonstrable distress or impairment, or contact with someone who does not consent to it. Exactly where that line runs is on fetish.
I am Victor, a gigolo, twenty-five years in BDSM and trained as a psychotherapist. A foot fetish is one of the few things where people feel ashamed of something that, statistically, is the most ordinary choice they could have made.
The conversation about it usually turns on whether it is a problem. Not on what someone wants, but on whether it is allowed. For a preference that tops every count, that is a strange question.
The second thing is how small the wish usually is. What women tell me about this is rarely about a fetish of their own and mostly about a partner who has one, and the question then is never how far it goes but whether she has to do anything with it.
On this site, fetish explains the overarching concept with the clinical criteria beside it, foot worship covers the act, and trampling describes what that same foot does with weight behind it. Off this site, the paper by Turnbull and colleagues in Cortex shows how a popular brain explanation gets tested, and Scorolli and colleagues gives the best picture of how fetishes relate to one another.
A foot fetish does not have to belong to anything to be allowed to exist, and for many people it is a calm way to begin a first date. How that is built up is on the page about the BDSM date.
/en/term/fetish and /en/term/boot-worship already carry the breakdown across the categories: 381 internet discussion groups with an estimated at least five thousand participants, in which feet and the objects that go with them were the most common subject of preference.A foot fetish is a form of fetish, and that page carries the clinical criteria and the history of the word.
Frequently asked questions
A foot fetish is sexual arousal by feet, and it is the most common fetish aimed at a non-genital body part. Its strength varies widely, from finding feet attractive the way you find a back attractive, to needing feet to come. Where the attention lands, from shape to smell to shoes, differs from person to person.
More common than any other fetish. In the largest study of how fetishes relate to one another, 381 internet discussion groups with an estimated at least five thousand participants, feet and the objects that go with them were the most common subject of preference. That makes a foot fetish, statistically, the most ordinary choice there is.
That is not confirmed. V.S. Ramachandran suggested in 1994 that the foot area and the genital area lie next to each other on the body map in the cerebral cortex and that crosstalk between them would explain a foot fetish, without providing evidence for it. Turnbull and colleagues tested it in 2014 with about 800 people: the feet scored low, and adjacent areas did not correlate.
Only when there is demonstrable distress or impairment, or when someone is involved who does not consent to it. A preference in itself is not a diagnosis, however unusual it may seem. The full clinical criteria and the discussion around them are on fetish.
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. The question he gets most often about this comes from women with a partner who has one, who want to know whether they have to do anything with it. You can ask with no obligation through the contact form or chat for free.
Blog
No post on this blog is about feet. These two are about the step before it: what happens when you finally say a fantasy out loud, and what shame does to desire.

Sharing fantasies with your partner takes courage, and it builds trust and intimacy. Victor explains how to do it safely and thrillingly.

Sharing shame in BDSM with your partner builds trust and brings emotional release. How to do it safely, with consent and aftercare.
Want to know more
I am Victor. This is the preference people feel most ashamed of while it tops every count, and I am glad to have that conversation with you sometime. It costs nothing and nothing has to come of it.
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