
Confinement in BDSM is physical restriction, vulnerability, and deep surrender, with full care for safety, a safeword, RACK, and loving aftercare.

Glossary
The only piece of bondage invented to restrain people who did not ask for it.
A dwangbuis (English: straitjacket) is a jacket with extra-long sleeves that fastens at the back, after which the sleeves are tied around the body. The arms end up crossed over the torso and can no longer reach the fastening. It is originally psychiatric restraint gear, devised in France around 1770.
| English term | straitjacket, with its own word history and a movie poster instead of a garment |
| How it closes | buttons or buckles at the back, sleeves tied around the torso |
| Origin | psychiatry, France, around 1770 |
| What it disables | the arms and hands; legs and torso stay free |
| Main rule | never leave alone, and not flat on the stomach |
From the asylum, not the playroom. The encyclopedia dates the invention to around 1770 in France and describes the early models as jackets that closed with buttons and cords at the back, with long sleeves tied behind the back. The idea was more humane than chains: more freedom of movement, and no one harming themselves or others. In overcrowded institutions it was then used to keep order.
In bondage that is a reversal. The encyclopedia on bondage names institutional restraints like the straitjacket explicitly as something used in role play, alongside purpose-made gear such as monogloves and bodybags.
The image and the ease. A dwangbuis goes on with buckles rather than learned knots, and the result is more absolute than most rope ties: no hands, no escape, and a silhouette everyone recognizes.
What it is not: safe because no rope is involved. Fabric can sit too tight just as easily.
Stay in the room. The encyclopedia on bondage puts two rules at the top: never leave someone who is restrained alone, and change their position at least every hour to prevent circulation problems. Keep a pair of EMT scissors within reach as well.
Watch the position too. Kersting, Hirsch and Steinert found in their review of 67 studies in Frontiers in Psychiatry that restraint in the prone position carries by far the highest risk; guidelines therefore advise against that position. They also establish that some of the most dangerous outcomes can be prevented outright with one-on-one supervision. That is about coerced care and not about a scene, but the lesson is the same: not on the stomach, and not out of sight. If you want to experience something like this safely, I stay with you and keep an eye on your position; that is how I build it up on a BDSM date.
Frequently asked questions
A dwangbuis is a jacket with extra-long sleeves that fastens at the back, after which the sleeves are tied around the body. The arms then lie crossed over the torso. The device was devised in France around 1770 for psychiatry.
As long as you stay with them and keep changing their position. The rules of thumb for bondage are to never leave a restrained person alone and to change position at least every hour to prevent circulation problems. Lay a pair of EMT scissors within reach before you start.
Better not. Kersting, Hirsch and Steinert found in their review of 67 studies in Frontiers in Psychiatry that restraint in the prone position carries a higher risk of a fatal outcome, and guidelines therefore advise against that position. That research is about coerced care, but the position is the same.
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