Confinement in BDSM: restriction and surrender
Confinement in BDSM is physical restriction, vulnerability, and deep surrender, with full care for safety, a safeword, RACK, and loving aftercare.
Glossary
Armbinder
The piece of bondage that looks tight and has you watching the clock instead of the picture.
What is an armbinder?
An armbinder, also called a monoglove, is a tube-shaped sleeve that binds both arms behind the back, from the fingertips to above the elbows. Straps over the shoulders and under the arms hold it in place. It is one of the tightest forms of bondage there is, which makes it one of the shortest too.
| English term | armbinder, also monoglove. See the encyclopedia entry. |
| Shape | a roughly cone-shaped tube that encloses both arms, with a harness of straps |
| Material | thin garment leather or latex; also spandex, rubber, denim and reinforced satin |
| What it does | takes the arms fully out of use and pulls the shoulders back |
| Main risk | shoulders and nerves, not the skin |
What an armbinder does to the body
The posture is the point, and at the same time the problem. Because both arms are drawn together above the elbows, the shoulders rotate back and inward. That gives the vulnerable, drawn-up posture that is the whole reason the thing exists.
It is also where things go wrong. The encyclopedia warns in plain terms that an armbinder can cause problems with the soft tissue of the shoulder joint and with the blood supply and nerve supply of the arms and hands, and that great care is needed to prevent dislocation of the shoulders and damage to nerves and blood vessels.
What to watch for
The clock matters more than the feeling. In Cureus, Khodulev and colleagues found that in 90 percent of the people with rope injuries in their group the radial nerve was affected, and they describe a case where 25 minutes was already enough for a wrist drop of the hand with five months of recovery. Their advice is to spread the pressure, spare the nerve paths, limit the duration, and check in along the way.
In practice with an armbinder: keep it short, ask regularly about tingling or numb fingers, and release right away if someone loses strength in the hands. Tingling is the last warning sign, not the first.
If you want to feel something like this once with guidance rather than trying it on your own, you can, on a BDSM date.
Sources
- Acute Radial Compressive Neuropathy: The Most Common Injury Induced by Japanese Rope Bondage. Khodulev, Klimko, Charnenka et al., Cureus 15(5), e39588, 2023. Provides the share of the radial nerve in bondage injuries, the case of 25 minutes and five months of recovery, and the recommendations on duration and checking in.
- Monoglove. Wikipedia. Provides the description of the tube shape from fingertips to above the elbows, the harness, the materials, and the warning about the shoulder joint, blood supply and nerve supply.
Related terms
- St. Andrew’s cross. The other piece of bondage where the posture does the work and time is the limit.
- One bar prison. Another tool where the duration is the real risk.
- Mummification. The enveloping kind of bondage, where an armbinder handles only one body part.
- Bondage, restraints and asanawa are the armbinder’s other close neighbors.
Frequently asked questions
What people still ask about the armbinder.
What is an armbinder?
An armbinder, also called a monoglove, is a tube-shaped sleeve that binds both arms behind the back from the fingertips to above the elbows, with straps over the shoulders and under the arms.
How long can an armbinder stay on?
Short, and shorter than it feels. The encyclopedia warns of problems with the shoulder joint and with the blood supply and nerve supply of the arms and hands. Ask about tingling regularly, and release right away if someone loses strength in the hands.
Who can you turn to with questions about an armbinder?
With Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. Bondage is on his yes-list, light or firm. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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