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Glossary
The only branch of sensation play where you cannot take the stimulus back once it is running.
Chemical play is erotic play where a stinging substance is put on or in the body to bring up a sensation. Ginger, menthol, capsaicin and wintergreen oil are the common agents. The stimulus comes from chemistry, not from a slap and not from heat or cold. English borrowed the name straight from the scene, and Dutch never coined one of its own.
| Dutch term | none. The newspaper archive knows chemisch spel only in a chemistry sense, so the scene uses chemical play here |
| Category | a branch of sensation play, beside temperature play and not under it |
| What falls under it | ginger play and figging, peppermint oil, tiger balm, wintergreen, capsaicin cream, chili sauce |
| How it works | a molecule opens a temperature channel in the skin, so you report heat or cold that is not there |
| Not to be confused with | chemsex, where substances are used to have sex and not to feel something on the skin |
| Most important caveat | a safeword does not take the substance out. What you apply keeps working until it wears off |
Usually as something small on a small patch of skin, long before anything else happens.
A common sequence: you get a stripe of menthol balm on the inside of your forearm, and then nothing happens for a quarter of an hour. That quarter of an hour is the test. No rash and no swelling, and the same agent is allowed somewhere else later. If something does show up, it happened on a forearm and not somewhere you cannot reach. With ginger play it works differently, because a peeled root goes in all at once and there is no small version of that.
The agents vary widely in strength. Menthol sits on every drugstore shelf, capsaicin cream is a medicine, fresh ginger is in the vegetable aisle. Chemical play is the cheapest corner of BDSM, and right away the corner where people are quickest to bring something home without knowing what it does.
Because the molecule sits directly on the wiring that carries temperature.
Michael Bandell and colleagues described in Neuron how that is laid out. Capsaicin, the pungent compound from chili pepper, opens TRPV1, the channel for harmful heat. Menthol opens TRPM8, the channel for cold. And the pungent compounds from cinnamon oil, wintergreen oil, clove oil, mustard oil and ginger all open TRPA1, a third channel that usually answers to harmful cold.
That is where the whole mechanism of chemical play sits. No tissue gets heated and no tissue gets cooled. A switch flips, and your head gets the message that belongs to that switch. The same researchers showed that cinnamaldehyde, the most specific of those compounds, fires up the very nerve cells that also react to cold. That is also why fierce cold sometimes feels like burning.
What it does not explain is the second family. Some agents really do something to the tissue itself, and then you are no longer dealing with a signal.
Because the stimulus keeps going while nobody is doing a thing.
With a slap, a clamp or a hand you can tell when it stops. Not here. The substance is on your skin, the person beside you can walk half a meter away, and the feeling just keeps running. For anyone after surrender that is a very direct route. There is nothing to steer and nothing to wait out.
That last point is also exactly what chemical play does not fix. A couple that skips the talk beforehand will not learn to have it here. It only shows up more clearly. If you do not yet know where your upper limit lies, this is a poor place to go find out.
“Chemical play and chemsex are the same thing.” Two different things. The Trimbos Institute uses for chemsex the definition from Soa Aids Nederland and Mainline: the use of substances by men who have sex with men, with the specific intention of having sex, and leaving out alcohol, poppers, laughing gas and cannabis. There it is about what a substance does to your head. With chemical play it is about what a substance does to your skin, and nothing gets ingested.
“It is natural, so it can do no harm.” It is exactly the products you buy without a prescription that produced the most serious cases. Rohan Desai and colleagues show in Cureus how far an ordinary muscle balm with methyl salicylate and menthol can go when it stays on for days on skin that does not feel the irritation coming. Anyone with nerve damage or diabetes misses the warning signal at the exact spot where it is needed. That same article carries the 2012 American warning it goes back to: 43 reported cases of burns, first to third degree, mostly with products holding more than three percent menthol or more than ten percent methyl salicylate.
“A safeword is enough.” A safeword stops a hand. It does not take balm off your skin or a root out of your body. Wiping helps, water usually does not, and the feeling lingers after that. That makes chemical play the branch of sensation play where the real means of control lies before the session and not inside it.
I am Victor. Gigolo, well over twenty-five years in this world, and a psychotherapist by background. Questions about this almost never reach me as “I want this”, but as “can I ask something without you doing it right away”. That is always fine.
Nearly everyone asks about the intensity. Almost no one asks about the duration. And the duration is what makes the difference. Anyone who has already tried something off the shelf has almost always used it undiluted. That is where it goes wrong, not during the session.
On this site each agent has its own page. Figging explains why ginger comes up slowly and sinks away after about twenty minutes, and peppermint oil covers the cold that is not cold. The umbrella above it sits at sensation play.
Off this site, the article by Bandell and colleagues is the best piece for grasping why so many different plants do the same thing, and the article in Cureus shows in two pages how a drugstore product can go off the rails.
If you are unsure whether this is something for you, that does not have to be a decision yet. It can just stay a question. How an evening is built up and who decides what comes into it is described at the BDSM date.
Frequently asked questions
Chemical play is erotic play where a stinging substance is put on or in the body to bring up a sensation. Ginger, menthol, capsaicin and wintergreen oil are the common agents. The stimulus comes from chemistry and not from heat, cold or a slap, and Dutch has no word of its own for it.
No. With chemsex, substances are used with the aim of having sex, and that is about what such a substance does to your head. With chemical play everything stays on the skin and nothing is ingested. The two share only the word chemical.
Not with a word. A safeword stops a hand, but it does not take balm off your skin or a root out of your body. With chemical play you therefore agree beforehand how long something stays on and what takes it off, because that is the only real means of control.
Victor, a gigolo with well over twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. He answers questions about chemical play without anything having to follow, even if the answer is that you had better not do it. Ask your question through the contact form or first chat for free.
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