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Riding crop

The one piece of gear a Dutch sports federation actually put in writing, down to how many times in a row you may use it.

What is a riding crop?

A riding crop is the blow-less whip from equestrian sport: a firm shaft with a thin leather tongue at the tip, made to steer a horse. The English name says exactly what it is for. The scene usually shortens it to crop.

Short namecrop, riding crop
Word originthe Dutch name rijzweep joins rijden (to ride) and zweep (whip); zweep traces back to Germanic swipō-
Where it comes fromequestrian sport, not the bedroom
Maximum length in show jumping75 centimeters under the KNHS rules
What the federation bansoverhand strikes, a weighted tip, and more than three strikes in a row
How the federation spots “too far”visible marks on the skin

What the sports federation wrote down about it

More than you would think. The Show Jumping Discipline Regulations of the Royal Dutch Equestrian Federation (KNHS) lay out, in article 241, what is not allowed: a whip longer than 75 centimeters, overhand use, a weighted tip, and reversed use. All four lead to disqualification.

Further on comes what counts as “excessive,” and that is where it gets interesting. The whip may not be used to vent, and that use is, according to the federation, always excessive. Never on the head. And then two rules you can carry straight across: “if the effects on the horse’s skin are visible, this is regarded as excessive use,” and “the whip may be used at most three times in a row.”

What of that holds up in bed

All three core rules, as far as I’m concerned. A rider who strikes in a temper gets disqualified; someone who grabs a riding crop in a temper should stop. In the arena, visible marks are the proof it went too far, and with a riding crop that is a good measure indoors too, because the thing was never designed to mark.

That third rule is the one I use most. Three taps, then a pause. A fourth isn’t dangerous. It’s that in the silence you hear whether it’s still right: how you breathe, whether you laugh, whether you have gone quiet. In twenty-five years one thing has stuck with me: the riding crop works precisely through that sound. It cracks louder than it lands, and that is exactly why people find it scary and dare it anyway.

Where this fits on this site

The riding crop is usually the first object I pick up when you are curious about impact but don’t know what you can take. The BDSM date page shows how we go over that beforehand.

Sources

  • Show Jumping Discipline Regulations. Royal Dutch Equestrian Federation (KNHS), 2026 version, effective April 1, 2026 (pdf). The KNHS is the Dutch federation that sets the competition rules for equestrian sport, and so the authoritative source on what may and may not be done with a riding crop in the sport the object comes from. Supplies: the grounds for disqualification, namely “use of a whip longer than 75 cm, overhand use of a whip, use of a whip with a weighted tip or reversed use in the ring”; and, from the clause on excessive use, that the whip may not be used to vent and that this is always excessive, that use on the head is always excessive, that “if the effects on the horse’s skin are visible, this is regarded as excessive use of the whip,” and that “the whip may be used at most three times in a row.” The rules are about horses; the translation to people above is explicitly my own judgment and not a statement of the federation.
  • zweep. Etymologiebank, including M. Philippa et al., Etymologisch Woordenboek van het Nederlands (Amsterdam, 2003–2009). Supplies: the derivation of zweep from Proto-Germanic swipō-, the matching verb swipōn- “to handle the whip,” and the kinship with Proto-Germanic swaipan- “to move back and forth.”

The riding crop is the lightest object equestrian sport ever lent to impact play.

  • Crop. The short name for this same thing, with the build of the shaft and the reason behind the tongue.
  • Riding whip. The same length, but the tip is braided leather instead of a tongue.
  • Quirt. The American cousin with two broad falls.
  • Paddle. The broad opposite: plenty of surface, little sound.
  • Spanking. Where a riding crop usually lands.

Frequently asked questions

Three questions about the riding crop.

  1. What is a riding crop?

    A riding crop is a short whip without a lash, with a firm shaft and a thin leather tongue at the tip. It comes from equestrian sport and the scene usually shortens it to crop. The tongue makes plenty of sound for little force.

  2. How long may a riding crop be?

    In Dutch show jumping, 75 centimeters at most. The KNHS Show Jumping Discipline Regulations name a longer whip, overhand strikes, a weighted tip and reversed use as four grounds for disqualification. The same federation states that the whip may be used at most three times in a row and that visible effects on the skin count as excessive.

  3. Who can you turn to with questions about a riding crop?

    Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and trained as a psychotherapist. You’re welcome to ask him how a riding crop feels, whether it leaves marks and whether it suits you. Ask your question through the contact form or start with a free chat.

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Articles about the riding crop and about striking

The first piece is about this one object, the second about the family it belongs to and how you start with it gently.

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Impact during a BDSM date

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