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Glossary
Algolagnia
The nineteenth-century umbrella word that sadism and masochism fell under, and that the scene itself never took up.
What is algolagnia?
Algolagnia is sexual arousal that comes from pain, whether you’re giving it or taking it. It’s an umbrella term, and sadism and masochism both fall under it. The word comes from nineteenth-century psychiatry and is almost never used in the scene itself.
| Dutch term | algolagnie. Same word, same origin; it’s a loanword from German that entered both languages through the medical literature. |
| Also known as | the umbrella term behind sadism and masochism |
| Two forms | active algolagnia (giving pain) and passive algolagnia (taking pain) |
| Origin | Greek algos, pain, and lagneia, lust |
| Main caveat | a historical, medical term, not a word people use about themselves |
Algolagnia was coined to bring two things under one heading. The German physician Albert von Schrenck-Notzing minted the term in 1892; according to the Online Etymology Dictionary, he built it from the Greek algos, pain, and lagneia, lust, and the word surfaced in English from 1900 on.
His point was that sadism and masochism weren’t two separate disorders but two sides of the same thing, and that what people were after in it was lust, not love. The encyclopedia entry keeps that same distinction: giving pain is called active algolagnia, taking it passive.
Why you’ll hardly ever run into the word
Algolagnia is a term about people, not one they use themselves. It comes from a time when doctors cataloged sexual preferences as illnesses, and that’s exactly why the scene never adopted it: someone who’s into it says sadist, masochist, or simply that they like pain play.
The idea underneath the term has since been contradicted. In The Journal of Sexual Medicine, Wismeijer and Van Assen compared 902 BDSM practitioners with 434 others and concluded that BDSM is a recreational pursuit rather than a sign of psychopathology. So the word is mainly useful when you’re reading older literature, not for describing yourself. What it covers, pain play with clear agreements, is something you explore on a BDSM date without needing a nineteenth-century label for it.
Sources
- Psychological characteristics of BDSM practitioners. Wismeijer & Van Assen, The Journal of Sexual Medicine 10(8), 1943–1952, 2013. A comparison of 902 BDSM practitioners with 434 others; yields the conclusion that BDSM is recreation rather than psychopathology.
- algolagnia. Online Etymology Dictionary, Douglas Harper. The dating to 1892 in German by Albert von Schrenck-Notzing, the Greek word roots, and its appearance in English from 1900 on.
- Algolagnia. Wikipedia. The definition as sexual arousal from physical pain and the distinction between active and passive algolagnia.
Related terms
- Glossary. Algolagnia is the umbrella that sadism and masochism fall under; both appear further down the same list.
- Figging. A technique where the pain itself is the stimulus, with the mechanism behind it.
- Sadomasochism. The word that pushed algolagnia aside, with the two halves under it.
- Sadism. The giving half, called active algolagnia in this scheme.
- Masochism, masochist and abrasion are algolagnia’s other close neighbors with their own page.
Frequently asked questions
What people still ask about algolagnia.
What is algolagnia?
Algolagnia is sexual arousal that comes from pain, whether you’re giving it or taking it. It’s an umbrella term that both sadism and masochism fall under. The word comes from nineteenth-century psychiatry and is almost never used in the scene itself.
What is the difference between active and passive algolagnia?
Active algolagnia is arousal from giving pain, passive algolagnia from taking it. That distinction comes from the medical literature and runs parallel to sadism and masochism. Albert von Schrenck-Notzing coined the overarching term in 1892 precisely to show that the two are sides of the same thing.
Who can you turn to with questions about algolagnia?
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. The question behind this word is usually “is it strange that I like this”, and he’s glad to talk about it. You can ask him a question with no obligation through the contact form or first chat for free.
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