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Glossary
The language side of the word, and why a keurslijf is now something you're stuck in without ever putting it on.
Korset is the Dutch spelling of corset: a stiff boned bodice laced tight around the upper body. The Algemeen Nederlands Woordenboek gives two reasons for one, aesthetic, to accentuate the waist and bust, or medical, to support the back or abdominal wall. So the Dutch word covers both. In Dutch it is het korset, plural korsetten.
| English term | corset; the English spelling is used in the Netherlands too, and the fit-out side lives on corset |
| Also known as | keurslijf and the fading rijglijf, contracted to rulf in Limburg and rellef in Brabant |
| Word forms | het korset, korsetten, korsetje; the ANW records sm-korset as a fixed compound |
| Two meanings | the garment you put on, and the medical support corset that holds up a back or an abdominal wall |
| Where it pinches | low on the hip, where the skin nerve of the thigh passes under the inguinal ligament |
From French, and it pushed aside an older Dutch word that then came to mean something entirely different.
The Etymologisch Woordenboek van het Nederlands lines up the occurrences: corsetje “new fashionable young lady’s bodice” in 1717, corchetten, die buigzaam om het lyf spannen in 1773, and only in 1843, with Ten Kate, a “steel corset.” The word comes from French corset, a diminutive of Old French cors, upper body.
Now the nice part. In the eighteenth century the stiff, cinched thing was called a keurslijf, and a korsjet was the supple alternative. When that keurslijf went out of fashion in the French period, corset was borrowed from French again for a loose laced bodice. Within a few decades that turned just as stiff. Meanwhile keurslijf went its own way: from 1826 you read of a language “not clamped in a Latin keurslijf,” and since 1840 the word stands in the dictionary as a constraint. Anyone complaining about a keurslijf today is talking about rules.
Because it takes over your posture and needs no instruction to do it. You sit upright because nothing else is possible, you breathe higher up, and you notice it again with every move. For the wearer the pull is in that constant reminder. For the other person it is the visible change: a torso that is still, and a silhouette that isn’t yours.
A korset forces nothing. You can get out, you can reach the lace yourself, and it does nothing to someone who feels nothing with it on.
Not only your breath. Your hip too.
Ryan Coffey and Vikas Gupta describe in the StatPearls chapter on meralgia paresthetica that the lateral femoral cutaneous nerve gets pinched by outside pressure from tight belts, straps or constricting clothing, right where it passes under the inguinal canal into the thigh. What you feel then is burning pain, tingling and numbness on the outer side of the thigh, usually on one side. Treatment starts with the advice to leave tight-fitting clothing off, and about 85 percent recover on their own.
In practice: if a thigh starts tingling, the lace comes loose. The lung figures are on the page about the corset.
A korset is clothing, not bondage, and it falls under what I enjoy going along with rather than under what I bring. If you want to know what such an evening looks like when you’d like to wear one, the page about the BDSM date explains how we go over that beforehand.
Frequently asked questions
A corset is a stiff bodice with boning that laces tight around the upper body. The Algemeen Nederlands Woordenboek gives two reasons to wear one: to accentuate the waist and bust, or, medically, to support a back or an abdominal wall. In Dutch the word korset covers both meanings.
Victor, a gigolo with twenty-five years of experience in BDSM and a background as a psychotherapist. He’ll explain, with no obligation, how a corset changes an evening and what to watch when you lace it. Ask your question through the contact form or first chat for free.
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