Gigolo in Enschede

Twente has a tone of its own

Enschede, with a good hundred and sixty thousand residents, is the largest city in Twente, and Twente is a region with a character of its own. People here are warmer and at the same time more reserved than in the Randstad: it takes a while before things turn to anything important, and after that it genuinely means something.

That works fine in a first conversation. I am in no hurry and you do not have to tell everything in five minutes.

What we can do together

The Rijksmuseum Twenthe, surprisingly good for a city this size. The Roombeek quarter, rebuilt after the fireworks disaster and by now one of the more interesting parts of town. The Volkspark and the Van Heekpark. And the Oude Markt, where the whole centre gathers in the evening.

Around the city the Twente landscape begins: wooded banks, hedgerow screens, country estates and cycle paths that run on into Germany. An hour walking at the Lonnekermeer or on the Twickel estate does more than an hour across a small table from each other.

Germany around the corner

The border is ten minutes away. For anyone who lives in Enschede and would rather not meet in their own city, Gronau or Münster is a real option, and there nobody knows you. I speak German, so that is no problem at all. See also my page on Germany.

Who I come here for

For married women in whom the touch they are after no longer happens at home. Also for women who kept living in the same neighbourhood after a divorce, with all the looks that come with it. For widows, in whom the body speaks up while the grieving is not yet done. Just as much for students and university staff who have everything under control except this.

And for couples who want to try something together. Look at my services for what is possible.

An evening or a night

From Amsterdam Enschede is a good two hours. A long evening is possible, but a date that runs on into the morning works better here: then the travel time falls away against the time we have together. Plan it a week or two ahead.

Discretion in Twente

Enschede is big enough to be anonymous. In the villages around it that is different: in Boekelo, Losser or Haaksbergen people see who comes and goes.

Where the car ends up is up to you; a bit of a walk is no bother. No flowers, no loud greeting on the doorstep, and a story ready should someone ask who I am.

Money matters

Before you commit to anything you know the full picture: what we do, how long, what it costs, and the travel costs for the drive to Twente. No after-the-fact reckoning follows. Evening, night, weekend or public holiday makes no difference to the price, and booking as a couple makes none either.

For couples

Some of the questions come from couples. For one, something has changed physically; for another, there is curiosity; for a third, there is a fantasy that keeps coming back over the years without anything happening with it.

How it looks is up to you: being there, joining in, or staying in the next room. What I ask is that the conversation about it has genuinely been had and that both of you can say at any moment that it is done. Later in the evening too. Booking as a couple costs nothing extra with me.

What it is not

No agency with a catalogue. Nobody stands between us: you write me, I write back myself, and I am also the one who rings the bell. Nothing gets ticked off and there is no script behind it.

And it is not a test. You do not have to look like someone off the internet, you have nothing to prove, and apologies are needed for nothing.

The first time

Almost everyone is nervous the first time. That is normal and it settles on its own. What helps most is knowing how it will go, so we talk it through beforehand: the place, the time, how I come in, and what will and will not happen.

And beyond that, nothing is required. A first date that consists of talking and an embrace is a whole date. In Twente it takes a while anyway before things turn to anything important; that time we simply take.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are and when it could work. I usually reply within a day; everything after that goes at your pace.