Gigolo in Sittard-Geleen

Two towns, one municipality

Sittard-Geleen grew out of the merger of Sittard, Geleen and Born and counts a good ninety-two thousand residents. The two cores still feel different: Sittard with a historic market square and timber-framed houses, Geleen younger and built up around mining and, later, chemicals.

Maastricht is half an hour away, Roermond twenty minutes, and the German border ten.

What we can do together

The Markt in Sittard with the terraces and the Basiliek. The Kasteelpark Born. The Graetheide and the Grensmaas area, where the river has been given room in recent years and there is now a half-wild landscape with grazing animals in it.

A little further lies the Heuvelland, with Valkenburg and the Geuldal half an hour off. For an afternoon that turns slow on its own that is the loveliest option nearby.

Germany and Belgium around the corner

The border is a ten-minute drive. Anyone who would rather meet well outside their own municipality can go to Aachen, Mönchengladbach or Heinsberg, and I speak German so that is no problem. Hasselt in Belgium is half an hour too. See also my page on Germany and the one on Belgium.

Discretion in Limburg

Limburg communities are tight, and in the villages around Sittard-Geleen people notice who comes and goes. I keep that in view.

I park where you want, even if that is by the church or the shopping centre further along and I walk the last stretch. No flowers, no loud greeting on the doorstep. If someone asks who I am, I stick to the story you came up with.

Who I come here for

For married women who have not felt a hand on their back with real attention in years. And for women who live between the same neighbours after a divorce as before it. For widows with guilt about their own desire, and there is no need for that guilt. Just as much for women who work shifts at the chemical plant and have a life that is not built around fixed appointments.

For couples too. What is possible together you can read under my services.

How a first date goes

First we write. A few messages in which I ask what I need to know and you ask what you want to know, and in which you sense whether this fits. You can call as well. If you would first like a coffee on the market square in Sittard with nothing more happening, we do that.

On the day itself nothing moves fast. Sitting, talking, and only when you are ready does the rest come. That first stretch lasts longer for most women than they expected, and that time is not lost.

After that it stays quiet on my end, unless you want otherwise.

Money matters

Before anything is fixed you know where you stand: what we do, how long, what it costs, and which travel costs go with the drive to Limburg. After that no bill follows. No mark-up for the evening, the night, the weekend or a public holiday, and booking together costs no extra.

Doubts I hear often

“Paying for company, can you just do that?” Yes, and it is simply legal in the Netherlands. You pay for the time and attention of someone who does this seriously; what happens within that time is up to you.

“Am I not too old for this?” Absolutely not. The spread runs from the early twenties to well into the seventies, and the majority is over fifty.

“And if nothing comes of it between us?” You notice that in the writing, well before a date is set. Then it simply does not go ahead.

Changing your mind is allowed

Halfway too, even when the evening was already fully worked out. That is no failure and it causes me no trouble at all.

In reality a date more often goes differently than planned. One time it settles, another time it does not. I push nowhere and I have no stake in a particular outcome, beyond you feeling good and looking back on it with pleasure.

For couples

Some of my mail comes from couples. The reason varies: something has changed physically, or there is curiosity, or there is a fantasy that keeps coming back over the years without anyone doing anything with it.

It can become all sorts of things: watching, joining in, or staying in the next room. What I ask is that the two of you have genuinely talked it over and that each of you can stop at any moment. Even once we are underway. For two people I charge no more than for one.

This is how it starts

A short message with your town and a suitable day is enough. From Amsterdam it is a good two hours, so a longer date or a night over works best here.