Gigolo in Stuttgart

A city in a basin

Stuttgart sits in a valley with slopes all around, and on those slopes there are vines right up close to the center. That gives the city something intimate you don’t expect from a built-up area this size. Everywhere you look up you see green.

From Amsterdam it’s about six hours’ drive. Too far for an evening, exactly right for a night or a weekend.

What we can do together

The Schlossplatz with the Neues Schloss. The Killesbergpark with a view over the whole city. The Weinwanderweg through the vineyards near Untertürkheim, where within half an hour you’re walking above the rooftops. The Staatsgalerie. And the Wilhelma, a zoo and botanical garden in one.

For anyone staying a little longer, the Schwäbische Alb is an hour off, with Burg Hohenzollern standing on a mountain as if it stepped out of a fairy tale.

Language

German, English or Dutch. Swabian can be impossible to follow, but in a conversation with me it’s plain High German.

Who I come here for

For Dutch women here for work, often at one of the big companies, who notice their own circle is far away. Also for women who are married and haven’t been touched the way they’d want for years. For those who lost their husband. Just as much for women with a lot of responsibility and few places where they’re simply allowed to be.

For couples too. What is possible is under my services, from touch and skin hunger to an erotic overnight.

Practical

Six hours’ drive from Amsterdam. What that means in travel costs you hear before there’s a date, and that amount doesn’t move after that.

No surcharge for the night, the weekend or a public holiday, and booking together costs the same as alone. For a two-day stay I ask for a deposit, because by then I’ve reserved a room myself.

Discretion

Stuttgart is big enough to disappear into, but the Dutch community around the big employers is not. If you’re here for a company, you get to know the same people surprisingly fast.

I work around that. I come in like an ordinary hotel guest, greet no one first, and if you speak to me I am whoever you say I am at that moment. Think that story up beforehand, and you have to invent nothing on the spot.

How it goes

A message with where you are and which period you have in mind. You usually hear back soon.

After that we keep talking until it’s right for you, by app or on the phone. On the day itself we take our time over the start, and you set the pace.

For couples

With couples the conversation usually doesn’t start with what’s possible, but with whether it’s wise. My measure is this. If one of the two of you is mostly going along to please the other, I notice, and then we don’t do it.

Once the subject is truly talked through, a lot is possible. Watching, joining in, or staying in the next room. Either of you can stop it at any moment, even when we’re already going, and the price doesn’t change for it.

What you can expect from me

On time, well groomed, and without the impatience of someone who has somewhere to be afterward. On a two-day stay that last part is a given. I have nothing else on.

I listen without steering anywhere, and there’s very little left that startles me. Where you draw a line it stays, even when you want to move it yourself.

Discretion in practice

I work with no one behind me. No agency, no colleague reading along, no records your name lands in. Messages disappear the moment they’re no longer needed.

At a hotel I come in as an ordinary guest. No flowers, no greeting the lobby turns to look at. At an address in the city the car is where you want it, a few streets away if need be.

What I don’t do

Rushing you. Putting on a front. Working toward something because it seems the logical order. Getting in touch when you didn’t want me to.

And I won’t play along with the idea that there’s something shameful about this. This work has existed as long as people have, it’s perfectly allowed here, and the women who book me lead, in the vast majority, a perfectly ordinary life.

This is how it starts

Let me know where you live and when you could clear a few days. For a stay I’m happy to think along about the place.