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Anna is on the cover of the &C Summer Book: ‘Anna is the wife of a gigolo.’ An extra thick issue, right in the middle of summer. Inside, she tells what it is like to be married to Victor, and why she is glad to share that with other women: ‘I wish every woman sex with such a lovely man.’

In her columns for &C she writes more about their unconventional love life. They met through a BDSM ad. And yes, now and then the jealousy rears its head.

Maud has been single for a year and a half when her need for intimacy starts to grow again. But the dating stories she hears around her give her the creeps. On top of that, her last relationship left her with a lot of insecurity and sexual trauma, which makes getting to know someone spontaneously complicated. Then an idea lands: a gigolo. Victor.

In a candid interview with &C magazine, Maud shares how insecurities and sexual trauma from her previous relationship make spontaneous dating tough for her. That is why she decides to bring in a gigolo.

In the column ‘Between the sheets’, women talk about their sex lives. This story comes from Emma (51). She is happily married and a mother of two teenagers. With her husband Ben she barely has a sex life, because Ben has a very low libido. They have found a special solution for that. Once a month, Emma visits a gigolo.

What happens when women stop tucking their desire away and choose it on purpose? For SHESPOT we spoke with professional gigolo Victor (a pseudonym), who has a background as a psychotherapist. About listening without judgement, sexual autonomy, and why intimacy is so much more than sex.

A personal story about curiosity, wonder, and discovering a calling.

Sometimes someone asks me: “How did you get into this?” And then I have to smile. Because the answer starts in a place where I never expected it myself.

Commercial Mistresses are everywhere. You find them in every form, from Ladies to Goddesses, from mild to merciless, from beginner to deeply experienced. But what about the other side of the spectrum? A professional BDSM gigolo, say?

So what if you, as a woman, feel submissive desires? Where do you find a safe way in then? Professional BDSM gigolos and Pro Doms are scarce. That is striking, to say the least. Because the demand… it is there.

Hi! Hiring a gigolo? You don’t just do that, do you? Are you ashamed of it? Is it even allowed? Below, more about the stigma around hiring a gigolo. Because in 2025 this really shouldn’t be weird, exciting or strange, should it? Women are equal to men. And when men hire an escort, nobody bats an eye. But the other way around? Are women not allowed a thrilling evening….?!

An article you might not expect so quickly on my blog. Victor came by through my email. A gigolo who was keen to tell me a bit more about his world, and to break the stigma along the way.

Mariska (43) was abused as a child. Because of that, as a grown woman she was never able to enjoy sex. Thanks to her dates with a gigolo, she can enjoy intimacy, and her own body, for the first time in her life.

Anna is married to Victor, who has a very unusual side job: he works as a gigolo. Over the coming weeks she is writing columns for &C about their unconventional love life. And the way they met? That was just as unusual: through a BDSM ad. ‘I had tucked my desire away, until now.’

Anna is married to Victor, who has a very unusual side job: he works as a gigolo. The two met through a BDSM ad, so their first date was quite thrilling right from the start.

That Anna would one day find her match in Victor, a man who touches her deepest desires with ease, she had never dared hope. What she counted on even less? That she would end up being the one to nudge the love of her life into pleasing women as a gigolo alongside his job.

Anna and Victor share a secret: Victor works as a gigolo. Anna has no trouble sharing her husband with other women, until the day he meets up with Bianca.

Anna has been carrying jealous feelings about Victor’s date with Bianca for a while now. After their second meeting, she brings it up with him. And she finds that so nerve-wracking…

Even now that Anna and Victor are married, their relationship stays exciting. ‘The play has grown rougher over the years, and honestly I really love it.’