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How I ended up in BDSM and this work
A personal story about discovering a calling.
How do you become a gigolo? An unexpected start
A personal story about curiosity, wonder, and discovering a calling.
How do you become a gigolo? For me it did not start with a plan. It started with curiosity.
Sometimes someone asks me: “How did you get into this?” And then I have to smile. Because the answer starts in a place where I never expected it myself.
About this story
This piece ran on BrabantsMeisje.nl, a place about sexuality and open-minded relationships. Here, for once, I do the talking myself.
I tell how I rolled into this world. It began with curiosity, and with a few moments I could not quite place at the time. You read how BDSM slowly turned from a question into a calling for me.
Curious how someone actually ends up here? My whole story is below.