andc.tv · Married to a gigolo
#1 I've wanted to experiment with BDSM for years
Part 1, the introduction, through a BDSM ad.
Married to a gigolo, meeting through a BDSM ad
Anna is married to a gigolo. His name is Victor, and he has a rather unusual side job. Over the coming weeks she writes columns for &C about their unconventional love life. And how they met? That was just as unusual, through a BDSM ad. ‘I had tucked my desire away, until now.’
About this column
This series ran on andc.tv, in its Body & Mind section. What makes it special: I am not the one talking here, Anna is. She writes as a newly divorced mother of two, finally putting into words what she had kept to herself for years.
In this first part she sits at her laptop with a pounding heart for that very first ad. You read what it feels like to take that step before anything has happened yet: the doubt, and then that small push of yes.
I find it quite something that she writes it so honestly. Does any of that long wait sound familiar? Then this is a good place to start. The full column is below.