Gigolo reviews and experiences

Gigolo reviews and experiences

From the very first moment I felt I could trust him

Shelly

The first time Victor and I met up (after having met each other in a bar) was at a café in Rotterdam. From the very first moment I felt I could trust him; it probably helped that we both have a background in mental health care. During our first meeting he guided me through setting boundaries, something I of course know in theory and also teach my own clients, but which I find difficult in an intimate situation.

In short: I am a 26-year-old trans-masculine lesbian who has experience with people who crossed my boundaries, including sexual abuse and rape. I don’t let people touch me in a sexual way (and the times it did happen, I panicked) and only recently am I learning to touch myself again. A year ago I started working with a mistress, and along that path he crossed mine.

From the meeting in the café I slowly began to let go of my defences, and I genuinely felt only good intentions from him. From what I knew in theory, Victor could then let me experience it in practice.

A few weeks later we met again, this time in a private setting. Everything happened entirely at my own pace while we cuddled on the couch and he let me discover his body without any expectation. Without anything going further, I felt I had gone to the very limit of what I could handle. This was the first time I experienced intimacy without feeling guilty about stopping.

Months went by and I felt ready to go further in the intimate connection. This time at my place. Again everything at my own pace. Fast-forward through the cuddles and the kissing on the couch, I explored his body again until I was ready for his touch. Victor sat next to me, held me tightly and with his fingers inside me until I pushed him away and asked him to hold me. I had panicked. While he held me, we talked about what had happened and discovered that my mind wanted to experience pleasure, but my body said no. There was also the fear that he might be disappointed in me (a core belief). Together we decided to try again and that I would focus on listening to my body, with the certainty that there was no moment of disappointment on his side. Instead, feeling my boundaries was celebrated.

I feel truly happy that I met him and I look forward to more sessions with him. He is sweet and tender. I can wholeheartedly recommend that anyone who has experienced sexual trauma and is learning to feel touch again discover this with Victor.

Playing with Victor

Lisanne

After a long time hesitating and exploring whether BDSM would be something for me, I finally decided to take the leap and get in touch with Victor. From my very first message the communication was clear, warm, and professional. In the run-up to our appointment we communicated a lot via WhatsApp, which helped me enormously to feel at ease and to get a better picture of Victor before we met.

One of the first things that struck me was Victor’s emphasis on confidentiality and privacy. This really reassured me and made me feel safe to discuss my desires and boundaries.

His website promised that you may come home to yourself and that all your boundaries would be respected. This sounded reassuring, and at our meeting it turned out to be more than true. Within the safe boundaries we had agreed on, a fascinating world opened up for me, full of exploration and intense pleasure. Victor’s depth and empathy made me feel completely safe and understood, so that I really dared to enjoy and discover. The psychological aspect of our appointment was especially impressive and made me feel truly connected.

Victor’s professionalism and experience shine through in everything he does, which was a great reassurance to me. I really felt heard and respected, and he made sure that every step of our time together was attuned to my wishes and comfort.

Thank you, Victor, for this unforgettable experience. I very much look forward to our next appointment. It’s as if you can’t get enough of the time you spend with this wonderful and understanding man.

What a lovely evening it was again

Lana

What a lovely evening it was again. That look, it made me warm right away. That was new, and great. And what a delight, that beautiful big hard cock of yours straight in my mouth. For me it’s pure indulgence.

I’m far from a good masseuse, but I do find it so incredibly nice to do. Because there’s nothing more delightful than seeing you enjoy yourself under my hands -whether horny or not. It makes me warm inside.
And even though in a moment like that I’m given complete freedom by you, there’s actually not a single moment when I don’t feel at ease. On the contrary, it stimulates my feeling of love. And that constant physical contact where I get to explore your whole body is really nice.

Just before I came to you yesterday, I was watching some clips about jerking off a man. Because I think of myself as not being very skilled at this. I’ve always focused more on the oral side. But still I was a bit inspired to give that beautiful cock of yours a go too. It gave me such pleasure to see you so horny! And what a lovely reaction.

During the fucking you had a good hold of me too. Mmmmmm, the way you fuck me, I always get hot right away when I think about it.

And thank you for the nice conversation. I like hearing you talk, you say good things. And did you know you also have a beautiful voice?
It’s really nice that the feeling of trust I already had in you physically, I now see confirmed mentally too.

Victor is fantastic

Nadine

My experience with Victor was fantastic! After years of doubting whether or not I was going to do something about it, I decided to take the step, but as controlled as possible. And that’s how I eventually ended up with Victor.

I was incredibly nervous the first time and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on it and gave me the space and time to settle calmly. After that he took over control, but in such a lovely way that I only wanted more of it.

Our first play was intense and enriching for me. Finally someone with whom this part of myself is allowed to exist and with whom I can explore this part further. By now we’ve played a few more times and each time he manages to surprise me and discovers new territory. And I look forward to a next meeting!

intelligent man with humour

Hilde

Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humour. His calm presence combined with his humour makes you feel safe. He senses your mood flawlessly and knows, in his own unique way, how to create a pleasant atmosphere.
He respects his date, her boundaries and wishes. He makes it possible to discover new territory and to learn to enjoy it.

Love,
Hilde

I had the trust to give myself over to him fully and safely

Jasmijn

When I stepped into the world of BDSM, Victor crossed my path almost immediately. After a while of online contact, we met up and oh how exciting I found it, out of my comfort zone. Even so, I felt at home with him right away.

He saw that I found it exciting and I was allowed to land first, he looked at me, sensed me and responded to that. A bit of feeling out, talking, being loving because it’s so important… respect for each other and each other’s boundaries. He really takes the time for that. You are allowed to be there, exactly as you are.

He gave me the trust to give myself over to him fully and safely. And what a delight, that feeling of surrender and then receiving whatever it is you desire. He keeps an eye on every little sigh, every movement, even when you no longer know it yourself, he does. I never thought I would ever experience bdsm in such a safe, loving way. I recommend to everyone who wants to try this, or precisely if you are already experienced, to do it with him. His years of experience provide exactly the right approach for you personally, but his experience in reading people also makes it even more personal and therefore even more special. His whole presence and tone make you feel secure, it’s good, and even if you have doubts about something, he listens to you, is there for you and thinks along with you.

Personally I find growth very important and I knew I had a path to walk in it. Because I had always learned that the world and the people outside myself influenced my emotions and I allowed that, within bdsm I learned a very important lesson about myself: that only I could influence my inner world. Pain or discomfort is usually not nice, but mentally it made me pay attention to my breathing and stamina in order to handle a session. Stepping out of a certain comfort zone, and each time things went better and I could push through pain and a boundary, I felt proud of myself, I felt my own strength start to move, what I was capable of. This feeling I learned, through the sessions with him, to draw out of myself. And I now reap the fruits of it to better handle other things in life and to see them differently too. I feel much freer and a better person for myself and those around me. I am so glad that he could help me with that and still does.

Apart from that, because of our dynamic I also find it incredibly hot, the challenging, the playfulness, the fun you have together, the afterglow and blissfully recovering in each other’s arms… switching off the world for a moment. I would do it all another 100 times. I’ve gotten so much back from it, in so many ways. Thank you for this intense and beautiful experience… a place where I can moor in my safe harbour, my coming home. Because that’s how it feels for me! It’s worth everything, of course this is a personal experience, but one that has opened so many doors for me.

It’s the person and the intention put into it that creates such a unique experience, as well as your own willingness to surrender, in what you desire to receive from him. And honestly, one look from this gentleman is enough. To the ground you will go, and not because he demands it of you, but because you desire it yourself. And that’s were it al begins… there aren’t many like him”. ❤️

He gave me the trust to give myself over to him fully and safely

Jasmijn

After a while of online contact, we met up and oh how exciting I found it, out of my comfort zone. Even so, I felt at home with him right away.

He saw that I found it exciting and I was allowed to land first, he looked at me, sensed me and responded to that. A bit of feeling out, talking, being loving because it’s so important… respect for each other and each other’s boundaries. He really takes the time for that. You are allowed to be there, exactly as you are.

Victor gave me the trust to give myself over to him fully and safely. And what a delight to receive whatever it is you desire. He keeps an eye on every little sigh, every movement, even when you no longer know it yourself, he does. I never thought I would ever experience this in such a safe, loving way. His years of experience provide exactly the right approach for you personally, but his experience in reading people also makes it even more personal and therefore even more special. His whole presence and tone make you feel secure, it’s good, and even if you have doubts about something, he listens to you, is there for you and thinks along with you.

Personally I find growth very important and I knew I had a path to walk in it. Because I had always learned that the world and the people outside myself influenced my emotions and I allowed that, with Victor I learned a very important lesson about myself: that only I could influence my inner world. I felt my own strength start to move, what I was capable of. This feeling I learned, through the sessions with him, to draw out of myself. And I now reap the fruits of it to better handle other things in life and to see them differently too. I feel much freer and a better person for myself and those around me. I am so glad that he could help me with that and still does.

Apart from that, because of our dynamic I also find it incredibly hot, the challenging, the playfulness, the fun you have together, the afterglow and blissfully recovering in each other’s arms… switching off the world for a moment. I would do it all another 100 times. I’ve gotten so much back from it, in so many ways. Thank you for this intense and beautiful experience… a place where I can moor in my safe harbour, my coming home. Because that’s how it feels for me! It’s worth everything, of course this is a personal experience, but one that has opened so many doors for me.

It’s the person and the intention put into it that creates such a unique experience, as well as your own willingness in what you desire to receive from him. And that’s were it al begins… there aren’t many like him”. ❤️

What a lovely evening it was again. That finger snap, pffff

Lana

What a lovely evening it was again. That finger snap, pffff, it made me warm right away. That was new, and super commanding. I couldn’t get to my knees fast enough. And what a delight, that beautiful big hard cock of yours straight in my mouth. For me it’s pure indulgence.

I also find it an indulgence that you give me a little cushion to sit on the floor so I may suck you. Thank you.
How well you presented it, that collar. It felt as if I had completely earned it. And it had been a long time since I was allowed to wear it. I was so happy. It really does something to me, that collar.

I’m far from a good masseuse, but I do find it so incredibly nice to do. Because there’s nothing more delightful than seeing you enjoy yourself under my hands -whether horny or not. It makes me warm inside.
And even though in a moment like that I’m given complete freedom by you, there’s actually not a single moment when I don’t feel submissive to you. On the contrary, it stimulates my feeling of love. And that constant physical contact where I get to explore your whole body is really nice.

Just before I came to you yesterday, I was watching some clips about jerking off a man. Because I think of myself as not being very skilled at this. I’ve always focused more on the oral side. But still I was a bit inspired to give that beautiful cock of yours a go too. It gave me such pleasure to see you so horny! And what a lovely reaction.
It’s truly one of the most amazing feelings when you grab me so firmly by my hair and place me in the position you want. And when you then say I have to stay like that, I don’t even dare to move.
During the fucking you had a good hold of me by the collar too. Mmmmmm, the way you fuck me, I always get hot right away when I think about it.

And thank you for the nice conversation. I like hearing you talk, you say good things. And did you know you also have a beautiful voice?
It’s really nice that the feeling of trust I already had in you physically, I now see confirmed mentally too.