Gigolo in Utrecht

Utrecht is close and busy

Half an hour by train and I am on the platform. For me Utrecht is almost a home game that way. Little travel time, low travel costs, and usually room in the calendar at short notice.

For you the city helps too. Utrecht is young, full and always in motion. In the center no one notices who is walking with whom. You can walk into a hotel here, sit by the canal or stroll through the city without the feeling that anyone is watching.

What an evening can be

The wharves along the Oudegracht, where your feet almost sit in the water. The Dom Tower, which you see from half of Utrecht. Renting a boat and looking at the city from the water. Eating somewhere in Wittevrouwen or on the Twijnstraat. Or the Centraal Museum and the Rietveld Schröder House, if you want to see something that gets the conversation going on its own.

And it need not happen at all. Many dates begin behind a closed door, with tea and a conversation that gets going slowly. As far as I am concerned that is an equally good beginning.

Who I come to Utrecht for

For women with busy lives and little room for themselves. For women who are married and have not been touched the way they would want in a long time. For women who have just divorced. For students and PhD candidates who have everything under control except this. For anyone who has to go on alone after a death. For women who have never experienced any of this and would rather not leave that first time to chance.

For couples too. What is possible is set out under my services, from touch and skin hunger to tantra or a whole night together.

Where we meet

Plenty of hotels, from the station to the edge of the city, and most are so busy that no one notices a thing. Home is fine too, certainly in an apartment where the corridor is empty. If you live in a student building with thin walls, a hotel is more comfortable.

I arrive discreetly. No flowers, no loud greeting, and I park where you want. If you would rather meet first in the lobby or somewhere outside and then go on together, we do that.

Doubts I hear a lot

“Is it not sad to have to pay for it?” No, and I mean that. What you pay for is time with someone who does not watch the clock and who takes this work seriously. What happens within that time, you decide.

“Am I not too old or too young for this?” Neither. The ages run from the early twenties to well into the seventies.

“What if there is no click?” Then we usually notice that already in the messages beforehand, and then we simply plan nothing. That is a problem for no one.

Practical

Travel costs are modest here and you hear them beforehand. No surcharges for evenings, nights, weekends or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs nothing extra. More practical questions? Look at the frequently asked questions.

How a first date goes

First a few messages go back and forth. We ask each other what we need to, and along the way you feel whether it sits right. A phone call beforehand is easily arranged. If you just want to meet once first with nothing following, fine. That happens regularly and it is a fine beginning.

We start that day calmly. First sitting, first talking, and only when you want it does more follow. For most women that first part runs longer than they had planned, and that is not lost time. It makes the rest easier, in fact.

Afterwards you hear nothing more from me unless you want to. No text asking “how was it”, no reminder half a year on, no newsletter.

What it is not

It is no agency with a catalog. There is no middleman between us. From your first message you are speaking with me, and I am also the one who comes. No list of acts is ticked off beforehand and I do not work with a script.

And you do not have to perform. You do not have to look like someone from the internet and you have nothing to apologize for, not for your body, not for your age, not for what you want.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are, what you are after and when you would like. Two lines will do. I usually reply within a day and after that we go on at your pace. Texting, a call, or a coffee first with no obligation to take it further.

Get in touch. The first messages usually already show whether there is a click.